My classmates ignore me, my classmates ignore me, how to get along with them

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Frankly. I don't like to read your text.

    It's super nice to say all day long, super love.

    I like to imitate Taiwanese people to speak.

    Do you think it's handsome or something?

    Isn't it vanity?

    But you say that you are "super" face-loving.

    It goes well with your vanity.

    You said you used to be "majestic".

    I think if that's the case.

    Your popularity should be very good.

    In that case, I don't think a mobile phone will hurt your feelings.

    You're having trouble now and want to go online for help.

    But even this time.

    You've got to boast about yourself.

    What to say is majestic.

    This shows that your character is very problematic.

    I can tell you.

    You're not face-loving.

    You are the ultimate vanity.

    Maybe I'm exaggerating.

    But I think. Those who had a good relationship with you before.

    Classmates and friends who make you majestic.

    It's just perfunctory to you.

    I don't really think of you as a brother.

    That's why you got his phone off.

    Everybody ignores you.

    Note. It's everyone.

    Why do you lose someone's phone and everyone ignores you, think about it) and you don't know it.

    Maybe proud.

    I think I'm pretty good.

    If you don't reflect on it.

    If you don't change your words.

    I think you're in big trouble.

    Tell you. That's all I say today.

    It's not about pouring cold water on you.

    It's not to humiliate you intentionally.

    I just have something to say.

    Let you get to know yourself.

    Maybe my opinion is arbitrary.

    But you can think for yourself.

    Do you have any problems with yourself?

    Do it yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm so nervous! You should talk to your friends more, read books and listen to songs, do what you like, live for your ideals, and strive for your goals!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try not to save face, you try to be very smart.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Be open-minded and face it sincerely.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It can be seen that you are still very face-conscious, but since you want to get rid of the knots in other people's hearts, you have to work hard. Since the thing is missing in your hands, it is up to you to bear the responsibility for compensation, but it seems that if you do not compensate, then others will definitely be uncomfortable. Think about it, if someone loses your phone and he doesn't pay you, will you be happy?

    Would you be willing to continue with him the same way you did before? If you are a man, you must have the courage to take responsibility! It's better to invite him to dinner and apologize.

    If you are afraid of face and think that the so-called face is more important, the gods have no choice. Hope it helps!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Are you taking this too seriously? Some things are generated by one's own psychological cues. Try to stay calm. It's like it didn't happen. Don't be so sensitive with friends. I believe it won't be long before it's all right.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Make an appointment to come out for a drink, and say something to your face!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Sometimes it's normal for classmates to not be able to play with you, you just need to be honest with each other, don't deceive them, there are good things to share with them, there will always be people who like to play with you together.

    In addition, the most critical stage is not to return to the problem of getting along, which is the problem of improving your academic performance, as long as your academic performance is good, everything is not a problem.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If your friend ignores you, you must have done something wrong, or something is wrong, and he feels disgusted, you can write a note to him to make it clear to him, what is going on outside and ask him to find a reasonable solution to the balance and nuclear talks?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My classmate ignores me, we want to get along with her, we should have a good communication with him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you have to reflect on yourself. Did you say something that shouldn't have been said?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After a long time, I feel that there are fewer and fewer close friends around me who can talk to my heart. In addition to the friends who often go to the k-song to drink in groups, they are customers who socialize at the table. Although I am busy every day, there is no lack of loneliness when I am alone.

    I finally had a weekend, but I couldn't find a friend who felt that I could go out shopping, play, and chat. But have you ever wondered why? It's that once very good friends and girlfriends are gradually lost with themselves because of new friends.

    got in touch? Or is it the distance between you that separates you from different cities?

    I once also suspected that time and distance were at work, that they had worn away the illusions and polluted the original purity. But in the end, I found that time waits for no one, there is zero distance in the bottom of your heart, and it is important for you to grasp it. The following are the reasons and solutions for the fewer and fewer friends around you:

    Problem: We are too self-righteous to think that our friends will understand us. But I don't know that once or twice is okay, but if you do it too many times, it will be misunderstood that you don't value this friendship.

    For example: a friend came to **, you said that you were busy and came back later, but you didn't wait for ** after a day passed. Two days later, my friend came again and said:

    Xiao Nizi (or boy), she hasn't even ...... a ** when she's been so busy latelyBefore I finished speaking, you said that you were sorry to have something to do now, and I would like to explain ...... to you laterToot ......**Hung up ......I didn't come to a ** for a few days after that. If you say that, no matter how good your friends are, you will be disheartened.

    Solution: No matter how tired you are, you must stick to your future, and no matter how busy you are, don't forget to add a ** to your friends in your free time.

    memo. Love needs to be kept warm, and friendship cannot be frozen.

    Question: We've always said it's easier said than done. Actually, it's true, just like the most important thing between friends is trust.

    If friends don't have even the most basic trust in each other, what are they friends? For example, if you promise your friend something but don't feel at ease, or simply apologize. Friends are fine, but every time you say sorry like this, you can only get your friends to distrust you in the end.

    Because either don't say yes, or do what you say.

    Solution: Trust your friends and be responsible for what you say. It's not a shame to say that you can't do it, but it's a kind of courage.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello. Nowadays, it is inevitable and normal for people to have estrangement due to different levels of education and different economic strength.

    That being said, once someone is left out in the cold, it must be uncomfortable. What to do? I think that if you want others to accept you and even recognize you, you must make yourself self-cultivated and attractive, in short, you must have the quality that others recognize or envy.

    In addition, in this society, rich people are always envied by others, so almost everyone wants to be rich: in this way, they can not only get real benefits, but also get the recognition of the people around them. But you have to know that life is not satisfactory, you can't force it, and you can't be obsessed with it, and you can't extricate yourself, so that you take risks.

    That would be a big mistake.

    Therefore, I think the wisest way to do is to be a popular person: to improve oneself mentally, morally, and self-cultivation, so that one can become wiser, wiser, and stronger. With the eyes of a utilitarian, this is the smartest; From the point of view of a "saint", this is the most "good", so I strongly recommend that you consider my proposal.

    Finally, I'm going to tell you, don't think you're the only one left out because you're in a special situation, and I'll be honest with you, everyone is trying to do things that win the approval of others, so rest assured!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No matter what, you must be naturally generous, neither humble nor arrogant, so that no one will look down on you.

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