How does it feel to have an elder who is a few years different from you?

I remember when I was a sophomore in high school, there were several relatives in my family, including my eldest uncle, my uncle, and my third brother. My uncle is a year older than me, and I was very embarrassed when we first met, and you said that I had never seen it, and suddenly an elder about the same age as you came, which was really a bit overwhelming. My mom told me in advance that I had to be called, and this was my uncle.

As soon as I thought about it, I would better call it, or I would have to clean it up again. Anyway, I only go home once a week, and I don't see him a few times. It was naïve to think about it now.

More than 20 years have passed in the blink of an eye, and I don't know how he is doing in Liaoning.

My aunt is four years older than me, she has been a better learner than me since she was a child, she is very self-disciplined, very sensible, and a good child in the eyes of adults. I also knew that she was better than me in every way, and I should have been on par with her, but I didn't want to be with her, because she always taught me like an adult, and I didn't want to listen to it, but I had to endure it. Every time I leave her, I feel very relaxed and have the feeling of escape.

Talk for a long time, accidentally call your uncle your brother, call your aunt your sister, not only older than yourself, but also younger than yourself! Elders older than themselves in the call, it is indeed a bit of a corner, but it must also be called, people are elders, can not just call their names, although the psychology is a bit of a loss, but this loss is not good to eat, uncomfortable mushrooms!

My mother is the eldest in the family, and my brother-in-law is the tenth youngest son of my mother's family, only four years older than me. I didn't feel embarrassed to call my uncle since I was a child, and my brother-in-law also likes to play with me. The funniest thing is that when my brother-in-law was in middle school, he wouldn't let me call him uncle outside, saying that his classmates laughed at him for having such a big niece, and I asked him what was that name?

I can't call my brother, my brother-in-law said that he doesn't call him, he calls his brother by his name. I said yes. At that time, the little girl thought about it, and she also felt that such an older brother-in-law would be laughed at when her classmates heard me call me.

I don't feel anything after a long time, because this thing is related by blood, so I don't feel anything. If it's not related by blood, it doesn't matter what it's called, it's just a code name, and you can't call that person, right?

Yes, I have an uncle, he is only a year older than me, we have a good relationship when we were young, his family is ten meters away from my family, when I was a child, he always called him by his name, he felt nothing. But my mother always thought that I was neither big nor small, and I lost my generation, and then later, they got married and had children, and asked my son to call him Uncle Son, I said call me buddy, he was not happy!

Sometimes such an elder is still very annoying, although he is an elder, but he is young, and his life experience is not as deep as you are an elder! It's inevitable to do something cute, hateful, and angry, but I can't teach him a lesson, forget it, don't say it, the more I talk about it, the more heartbroken I become.

When I was a child, I couldn't call what I should have called, but it's good to grow up slowly, and elders are elders, and it has nothing to do with age.

I don't know what the juniors think, but I know what the elders think, because I became an uncle myself at a few years old, and I am very embarrassed to see those juniors every day, and they dare not respond to them.

I have an uncle who is a few years younger than myself, and every time I see him, I don't know what to call him by my name, because I'm older than him, and I don't want to call him uncle, so I just call him by his name.

When I was six or seven years old, I rescued a little boy who was four or five years old in the water, and her mother came to thank me, and I learned that he was my grandchild, and you know what that feeling is, the sky is falling, the ground is sinking, how did I become a grandfather.

My son-in-law is a few years older than me, and every time he calls me dad, I feel like I'm an old man, and I said to him one day that if you can call me in front of others, don't call me, I feel like I'm taking advantage.

It is usually only when we have the ability to understand why he is about the same age as me, but he asks me to call me aunt, uncle, or whatever, and usually the parent will explain to you that his father is the same generation as your grandfather, or even a few generations higher. You think about it carefully, it seems that you can't accept it, but you can't help it, so you can only walk awkwardly to a place with less crowd during the New Year's holidays, so as to avoid being ridiculed by any elder in the crowd, you will definitely be overwhelmed, your face is full of embarrassment, surprise, you don't know what to say, you don't know what to do.

However, it's good after you get used to it, because this is something that can't be changed, so you will get used to it in a few years, and the two people will slowly get acquainted, shouting or not shouting the title, and they won't care too much, if two people have similar interests, they may become friends, and occasionally get together to chat about a sentence or two. It's a matter of time, in fact, when I think back on my embarrassing past, I will find it very interesting to recall.

I also have this experience, but my generation is just older, next year I will be young, but I have to be called the eldest generation, I am still cute, haha. However, it is precisely because of these titles of ours that everyone is more cordial, and they can walk together and reunite during the New Year's holidays. These are my opinions, including my experience, I hope you can also slowly let go, but it is a small matter.

Our family is very young, and there are many children my age who have to call other people's uncles or even grandfathers, and this feeling sometimes makes me very embarrassed.

Now that we have grown up to be big girls, we also understand the relationship between generations, sometimes I will reluctantly call her aunt in front of adults, and I will feel particularly embarrassed at this time, and sometimes I will think about how I shouted out.

When we go shopping together, people will say to me, "Your sister is so beautiful." Both of us laughed awkwardly, sometimes I really wanted to explain to others, but on second thought, it was a waste of time to explain to others, in fact, I really wished she was my sister and not my aunt.

What an amazing experience, especially since that person is still your classmate.

It was a coincidence that when I was in junior high school, I had a nice classmate in my class, who was a few months younger than me, and we were both sitting very close to each other. I always thought she was from outside, but then there was a parent-teacher meeting, my mother went, her dad went, and it was really amazing. After that time, my mom told me that she and I were relatives.

Then when she came to school, she told me that I should call her aunt, and I felt so speechless at that time, I called a girl who was younger than me, and this girl was still my classmate, so I could only say that the world was too small, but I was more excited, because our relationship was already very good.

But after that, I didn't have any special experience, and I didn't really call her aunt, but she would occasionally joke with people, saying that it was my aunt, and then look at the surprised expressions of others, it seemed to feel very cool, and I rolled my eyes silently, thinking she was boring.

That's pretty much it, I don't think it's anything special. In fact, I think our family is not so interested in what to call and what to call it, it is basically called by age, because some people will get married late, and some people will get married early.

I think you're probably in this situation, and if your family is very seniority-oriented, it should be an amazing experience, after all, it's still a lot of fun, especially since you two can taunt each other. There's nothing else, but in general it depends on your customs.

In the family relationship, our family is considered a junior, so every time I see a child of the older generation, I have to call someone, even if the child is much younger than me. There's no way, the rules still have to be said, but I can only say hello every time I see it, which is really embarrassing. So I try not to go out to avoid embarrassment.

Although I am relatively young, few people say that I have to greet the "little elders" who are younger than me.

I remember when I was a child, my mother took me to a relative's wedding, and my mother pointed to a child who was much younger than me and couldn't speak, and told me that this was my "uncle". When I heard about it, because I was young, I didn't know why, so I didn't want to call the child "uncle", but asked the child to call me sister. At that time, my mother said that she didn't know how to explain it to me, so I believed it, so I could only laugh awkwardly.

Now every time my mother talks about it, I feel very embarrassed and think about how I was like this.

Actually, in addition to this, I also have a "little elder" who is much older than me. He was actually the child of a relative of mine who divorced his wife in middle age and remarried to another woman. In terms of seniority, I still have to call him "Auntie", he and my mother are actually the same generation.

But because he was born after remarriage, I didn't like them very much, but every time they saw me, they would call me "sister". One day, when he saw me, my mother told him that I was his "niece", but the child said "no, no" and had to call me sister.

And maybe I called her aunt when I was young, and then when I grew up, I would rather call him by his name than call her aunt. Because I feel that I can't pull this face, I don't like this feeling, I'm about the same age, but my seniority is so much higher than me. And after something happens, she will use her identity to suppress you.

I feel that I don't want to see such a person, I feel that the seniority is here, you should be closer to her, and it is a little embarrassing, after all, people outside will say that he is your elder. If you are not close to her, people outside will say that you are the same age, why not be close?

Anyway, it wasn't a very pleasant experience for me, after all, I was a little repulsed from the bottom of my heart.

My husband's brother-in-law's second son is four years younger than my daughter, and my daughter played together when she was a child, and when she was in a hurry, she said, "Let's go, uncle, my sister will take you to play."

It will make you feel that the other party seems to be more mature and can take care of you everywhere.

Although my family would strongly oppose us being together, I felt that he doted on me.

Easy to meet pressure coexists, easy is an older person, will be more mature, social experience is richer, the economy is relatively stable, and people who have been in love with people younger than themselves should know what it feels like, just like taking care of a child, everything has to be coaxed to do it, the older will not be like this, he is thoughtful, and will also ask about taking care of your feelings, people with rich social experience have a lot of stories, especially for some people who love to listen to stories, it is equivalent to a moving storybook, Listen to him tell the story, I can't listen to it for a few days and nights, in fact, the most important thing is the attitude of both sides, as long as the two of you are stronger than Jin, the rest is nothing, I believe that you will all have the meaning to overcome, since you have chosen, don't give up easily, stick to it and you will find that you can actually have a better tomorrow.

There are pros and cons to each one, the good part is that it is more considerate and gentle, and the bad part is that some topics really can't be talked about together.

My brother and sister-in-law, brother is more than ten years older than sister-in-law, and sister-in-law is much higher than brother-in-law, they not only do a prosperous business, but also cultivate a pair of excellent sons, after graduating from college, they are admitted to graduate school, it is really a success, now, although they are older, but their quality of life is getting higher and higher, and their mood is getting better and better. ‍‍

I'm in a relationship with my boyfriend, who is 25 years older than me, who is not rich and not famous, who rides his bike to work every day, but I just love him. ‍‍

I am 25 years old, my husband is 17 years older than me, and I have been married for 1 year. I was divorced once, and then fell in love a few times, but the result was because I was married and was disliked, abandoned, and my own conditions are not worse than theirs, resulting in me has been very self-conscious, and then met my husband's reluctant pursuit, and after being with him, I slowly became sunny and became a better person, my husband belongs to a particularly young person, there is almost no generation gap between us, and I have also been recognized by my parents, although there are many people behind the criticism, but I am very happy. By the way, I am 4 months pregnant, full of happiness, and I am taken care of by my husband like a princess, I think no matter how big or small the age difference is, they all need to run in with each other, and the small difference can be well together?

The answer is no, so it's up to the individual. ‍‍

It will be very secure to be with someone who is older than you, he will make you feel at ease, so that you who are younger than him have a shoulder to rely on, and he will take care of you in every possible way.

I like a guy who is 13 years older than me, I am 20 and he is 33 and unmarried and single. He just knows that I exist, but liking him now gives me a lot of motivation, and I'm trying to get better, not only to follow him but also for myself, age or anything should not be a problem, the question is, will he make you better. ‍‍