Do you agree that heterogeneity is the source of happiness? Why?

Heterogeneous polymorphism, which indicates a change that derives happiness. For example, it is difficult to know joy without experiencing pain, you can't find the yearning for beauty without ugly impressions, and there is no success without setbacks, etc., in fact, this is also reflected in Lao Tzu's sentence to a certain extent: everyone in the world knows that beauty is beautiful, and evil is evil.

Personally, I quite agree with this sentence. Because the world is always changing, and everyone's mentality will change with the environment. Therefore, the paths to happiness will be diverse and easier.

I agree. acknowledging that there are differences between different individuals; Acknowledging that the same individual itself is subject to change. This kind of individual difference and self-change, in terms of scope and length of time, also interprets the various states of the world, uneven.

For example, Zhang Sanyao's happiness is the richness of his own heart, and Li Siyao's happiness is success, so their behavior patterns are different.

The word heteromorphism translates really well. Happiness is originally a private feeling, do not have to rely on the life norms and behavior patterns specified by others, their own feelings and thoughts are irreplaceable by bystanders, people who have everything may not be happy, mountains and rivers go far to the end, and anyone's destination is himself.

Because people are different, everyone has the right to live the life they feel right, to pursue what they like, and not to interfere without affecting their own lives. Thou art honey, thy arsenic, what you think is good may not be what others like, and what you think is bad may not be bad for others.

If life is smooth sailing, no one will feel the joy after sadness, only stumbling and growing, in the process to find their own happiness, taste the joy after sadness.

Agree, the world is colorful because of differences, put it on people, that is, you can't measure others by your own standards, and you'd better not use fixed thinking to determine your own future.

And because people are changing, they should never make up their minds about their future, which will only draw the ground as a prison and become an obstacle to their future development. What you liked before may not be what you like now, and what you don't like now may not be hated later. In this case, take the things you like seriously at the moment, and even if you don't like them later, you won't regret it.

The free and comprehensive development of all people should not be a mold, but should be uneven and polymorphic. Tao is not forced. Between different cultures, it is also advisable to get along with each other in the spirit of "beauty and beauty".

It is precisely because of this kind of degeneration in the world that there will be thousands of changes in the development of things, and life will not be seen through at a glance. Do not regret the past, cherish the present, and look forward to the future.

I think there are variables in life, and you need to cherish every day of your current life, cherish the people and things you meet every day, learn more, and imitate more.

When it comes to people, you can't measure and speculate on others by your own standards, and you'd better not use fixed thinking to determine your future.

Actually, I think it's true, because a lot of times you can't use fixed thoughts.

Human beings are born with contradictions, and it is with these contradictions that human progress is promoted.

Wang Xiaobo mentioned in the book a sentence of the great philosopher Mr. Russell, "It is necessary to know that unevenness and polymorphism are the source of happiness", and I like it inexplicably, which is what I have always thought and wanted, and some people will feel that a single machine is the source of happiness. For me, it must be the former.

I deliberately checked the original text"to be without some of the things you want is an indispensable part of happiness."Literal translation: There are things you want but don't have, and they are an indispensable part of happiness.

Yayi's Chinese is more meaningful and more aware of defeat.

Wang Xiaobo expressed in the collection of essays that a society that can accommodate different views and different lifestyles is a happy society. For individuals, there are differences between different individuals in terms of the breadth of the horizontal cavity opening; Vertically, even the same individual itself is constantly changing in terms of time, so don't use your own standards to measure others, and don't use fixed thinking to determine your future. The world is uneven, and you have your own stable happiness.

ps1: Du Niang turned out that there is a jagged square in Xiamen is ** in this sentence.

PS 2: Wang Xiaobo, interesting.

Wise (independent thinking, not blind follower) sexual.

It means to know that there are many kinds of things that are different rather than uniform, and that acknowledging the diversity of things is the source of happiness. "Heterogeneity is the source of happiness" is from Russell's History of Western Philosophy.

In the chapter of the book, Erasmo and More, Russell writes: "It must be admitted, however, that life in More's utopia, like life in most other utopias, can be unbearably monotonous." Varied and varied, it is the lifeblood of happiness, and it is almost impossible to see it in utopia.

This is the defect of all planned social systems, as is the case with utopian systems, and the same is true of reality. ”

It is necessary for individuals to maintain their own uniqueness. In a society, if countless people have their true selves, their actions are based on their own feelings, and everyone's feelings are bound to be very different, so their behavior is also very different. Thus, there is the kind of state that the philosopher Russell called - "the difference in knowledge is the source of happiness".

—Reading the Shen Zuyun Global Education Report.

I read the "Shen Zuyun Global Education Report" during the winter vacation, as a parent of middle school students, I empathize with the educational anxiety mentioned in the report, and I have been reading a lot of relevant books in order to alleviate educational anxiety and educate children well, but no matter how much I read, I can't educate my children well. When the child was in kindergarten, once I lost my temper, he said you go and watch "200 Tricks to Educate a Good Boy Without Hitting or Scolding". No amount of articles on it can really solve the real problems of individuals.

For so many days, as a teacher, as a parent, how can you not be anxious? I thought about it and thought it was important.

It is necessary to know that uneven polymorphism is the source of happiness. This is a quote from Russell, to the effect that the world is as it is, rich and colorful, and diverse, and that the world is made up of all kinds of differences, and that acknowledging the diversity of things is the root of happiness.

For the world, diversity means vitality, and for the individual, maintaining one's own uniqueness and acknowledging differences is the source of happiness in life.

Everyone has their own path, be tolerant of yourself and your children, and you may be less anxious.

Acknowledging individual differences does not make us "do nothing", but rather allows us to do something and not do something. How do we tremble the difference? This requires us to understand ourselves and our children.

In the night talk with my child (sometimes before bedtime), I realize how wide and deep the world is, and how arbitrary and ignorant I am at times. We do know our children very well, but "knowing is not the same as knowing", and we don't necessarily really understand them.

Children, there are piles of ** Dandong hunger and beads, but they come into this world like a beggar; Because he wants to beg for the wealth of his mother's love" (Tagore), the reason why we are qualified to educate our children, and even to discipline them, is not because we are their elders and have this natural right, but because we love him, and only those who love him are qualified to educate him and discipline him; This is the love and emotion that Shen Zuyun said in the last lesson of the report, without love and emotion, there is no education.

When it comes to the word heterogeneity, you may prefer to use diversity instead.

Isn't the beauty of the world we live in because of diversity? Imagine that in the huge China, people live in the same kind of house, wear the same style of clothing, and eat the same food, is it very boring?

In fact, every family also needs diversity, it is reflected in the individualization of the child's education, the dragon has nine sons are different, I think it may be a torture for the child to wear the same clothes or cultivate the same hobbies for the child, and at the same time erase the child's personality, but in the eyes of many parents, they let the child convergence seem to become a kind of fun. Let the child become another self, get used to cooking to his liking, buying clothes...The "best" in his eyes is invisibly the killer who cultivated the personality of Lilana. If parents have these behaviors, please don't cry to others after a few years, why is my child not as good as other people's children?

Why is my child so honest", without personality? Because this is because parents did not realize that "uneven polymorphism is the source of happiness" at the beginning. Each angel comes to the world with a different mission, and your children have a mission, so please recognize your "shortcomings", let go of the struggle with your children, and after letting go, you will find that your limbs are no longer alive, and you will no longer be smoked by the seven orifices of the "divine beast".

On the other hand, the same is true at the level of marriage. The core of the conflict between husband and wife is "difference", two people who are not related by blood and come from different families combine and get together. This is full of many contradictions, including eating habits, living habits, ways of thinking, etc.

The most beautiful love is probably said: "Chicken Song" Shi said "Ambiguous", but how many marriages are there now?

Then I think that in order to have harmony between husband and wife and harmony in the family, it is indispensable to recognize the individuality or uniqueness of both parties. Whatever his shortcomings, those are his distinctive characteristics, with the exception of socially harmful behaviors, of course. What else is there to argue about in your acceptance of this jagged object?

Therefore, whether it is going to society or returning to the family, put away your desire to control and reform. Let's restore that diverse society.