Have you ever been ostracized in a college dormitory? If so, how did they survive?

Yes, my roommates in our dorm looked at me honestly, they deliberately excluded me, made me suffer a lot, and I was looked down upon, and one night I locked them all in the dormitory and couldn't get out, so that they were bullying me, and we have been reconciled since then.

was not excluded, but he was too inferior to play with them. Later, they came to comfort me, took me to play, and drank with me, which made my college career very interesting, and I was glad that I was able to meet them. The warmth of life, as long as you feel it with your heart, there will be it.

When I first started school, I had some conflicts with my roommates and was also excluded by her, and then after a long time of getting along, she slowly got better, and she reached out to herself in her most difficult time, and since then we have become very good friends, which may be fate.

It's not a squeeze, it should be, it's just that the relationship between the four people is not very good, I feel like I can't play together, each does its own thing, and everyone lives their own lives.

Leave the rest to the quiet air.

It's not a crowd out.,It's just that you can't play together.,Everyone is different.,It's normal to have a little friction.,Treat it normally.,I just can't play with the same dormitory.,Go to other dormitories but play very well.,It's been 4 years of playing and the relationship is very good.。

Personally, I pay attention to getting along with others, so I haven't experienced real exclusion, but when I was in college, I had a roommate who was more brainless, and everyone attacked him intentionally or unintentionally, and he also responded strongly, and the relationship was very discordant.

In fact, this question of yours reminds me of a sentence by Yu Minhong.

He said that we should have the spirit of water, constantly accumulate our own strength, and when the opportunity comes, we should rush to practice our own values.

So when we are ostracized by our classmates, it doesn't matter, what matters is how you see yourself.

No, we have 6 college roommates, and the most gratifying thing in college is that we have gained a very precious roommate. If everyone is excluded, you can reflect on yourself first and open a breakthrough in finding a roommate who communicates well.

It's not a squeeze, it's because I like to act alone. At first, everyone liked to flirt with me to eat and go to class together. But I refused, and over time they left alone, and the three of them were together. It's fine, there's nothing to talk about.

Speaking of college dormitories, I'm really angry, I treat them as brothers, what about them! They used me like a father.

College is an important stage in life, and the relationship with your roommates also affects the state of the whole college period.

Clause. 1. Be quiet when others are resting, and be sure to prepare headphones when you are young.

Clause. 2. If you need to buy something collectively, try not to be too profound, and explain everything clearly.

Clause. 3. Don't care when you hit **, if you hear it, you should treat it as if you didn't hear it.

Clause. Fourth, if you can study in the dormitory, you will not study in the dormitory.

Clause. Fifth, like your own living expenses, pocket money or something, don't talk about it all day long, people who have a heart listen to the wind and rain when they listen to the past.

Clause. Sixth, don't talk about studying, such as getting a scholarship or something.

Clause. 7. If you have a boyfriend, don't tell others everything, if you break up, you don't know what you will be told about.

Clause. 8. If you need someone to help you bring something, you must transfer the money to others first, and you would rather transfer more than lead and less transfer!

That's all for now!

The first point is security, and it is definitely much safer to live on campus than off-campus. Especially for girls, it is actually very dangerous to rent a house outside and live on their own. In addition, it is possible to encounter various rental traps such as being cheated by the landlord.

And there are safety hazards when you go back to the rental house at night. However, the probability of these problems will be much lower if you live in the school, so if you are relatively remote, it is really not recommended to rent a house off-campus. Second, living in the school dormitory is actually more integrated into your own class.

The unity of the university class is also very important, not that the university that people see is just a one-person university, in fact, more often than not, the university is a group of people's university. I especially like the college life of a group of people, because you will never feel lonely and because of the encouragement of your peers, you will find that you grow much faster than when you were alone. Therefore, living in the school dormitory and dealing with the classmates in the class can actually integrate into the class group faster.

Third, it is easier to learn to get along with others when living in school, which is actually a very important skill of cavity scum, but many people forget about it. Many students choose to rent an apartment outside the school because they feel that it is much easier to live alone than with several people. I admit that there may be all kinds of conflicts in university dorms, but while we deal with them, we are actually learning how to get along with them.