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I think there will be a little bit that I can't be a mother-in-law, and my daughter can't be around all the time.
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Giving birth to children is the same, many people who feel that it is a pity to have no son in this life, the starting point is to raise children to prevent old age, but there are only sons, children and children in the family also have a lot of old people after no one cares, no one can guarantee the future, so what do you want when you are pregnant, after all, having children and daughters is not something you can choose, the gender of the child is not something we can control, whether it is a boy or a girl, it is the meat that falls from the body in October, and it is the right way to educate and cultivate well.
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Everything is your own child, and it is also your own blood to bleed.
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In the past, sons could inherit the family business and prevent old age, so if there were only two daughters and no sons, they might face some social pressure and pension problems. However, with the development of society and the change of people's concepts, more and more families no longer regard their sons as the only inheritance and dependence. Here are some ways to cope:
1.Adjust your mentality: First of all, you need to adjust your mentality and don't let traditional ideas cause too much psychological burden on you. Daughters can also pass on the family business and take care of the elderly.
2.Plan ahead: You can consider pension plans, such as purchasing pension insurance, reserve pensions, etc. In addition, it is possible to participate in community activities, build a good relationship with neighbors, and increase the social circle.
4.Cultivate hobbies: You can cultivate your own hobbies, such as participating in community art teams, learning new knowledge, etc., to enrich your life.
5.Embrace a new way of life: Accept a lifestyle with only two daughters, enjoy time with your daughters, and focus on their growth and development.
In short, having only two daughters and no sons does not mean that you cannot cope with the problem of providing for the elderly, you need to adjust your mentality, plan ahead, ask for help, develop hobbies, accept a new lifestyle, etc.
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1. If you only have two daughters and have no sons, then the property will naturally give you two daughters when you are old. Even if you have a son, do you think that if you have a son, your son will honor you when you are old?
2. In many families now, daughters are much more filial than sons. I'm sure you can tell from the families around you. There are three ways to divide property, one is to give one to both daughters.
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The two daughters had nothing to regret in their later years. It is said that the daughter is a mother's little padded jacket. So you should want to open some and you should treat your children well.
It's not that there is a patriarchal idea.
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What age is it now? The idea of patriarchy is long outdated. If the child is filial, the daughter is better than the son, and if the son is not filial, the son is not as good as the daughter.
Then again, the most important thing is to rely on yourself, take care of your body by yourself, and don't burden your children, it's best not to rely on anyone.
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It is said that the daughter is the little padded jacket of the parents, if the two daughters are very good and very filial, then this is your pride and there is no regret.
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I don't think you will feel sorry! After all, the daughter is the little padded jacket of the parents, you have two, it is estimated that it will be very warm and warm in the old age!
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There is no regret if the daughter is filial.
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Do you regret that old age? I think the two daughters are very good, and when the daughters of the two sessions are older, they will care about you, love you, and be considerate of your daughter.
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The second treasure of the little uncle's family came, and the girl finally made up the word "good", full of joy.
Thinking about not having a daughter, I can't help but feel a little depressed. After so many years, this problem is really unsolvable, and we can only accept it.
My second treasure, the human spirit series, is well-behaved and cute, but I will always regret that he is not a girl.
There are no girls, and I always feel that no one is caring, after all, boys are thick-lined.
Every time I see a family with two girls, I am envious, I think that people will be warmer, and I think why God doesn't divide me as a girl. Of course, there are many people who are envious of me when they see me.
It's best to make up a "good", otherwise it should be the same, because it's the new society now. Cultivated with the heart of the ant, men and women will not be treated differently.
If you think about it seriously, regret is just the experience of not raising girls, especially as a mother who can't pass on her understanding of women.
Over the years, I have paid more and more attention to cultivating myself and turning myself into a more feminine woman. Be a warm, skillful and tender woman. Only by living with yourself like a daughter can you discover a more authentic self.
Follow your heart, let yourself grow in your heart, keep discovering, constantly improve, and achieve a better self.
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That's good! 1. The daughter will take care of the family more.
In fact, in life, the daughter's sense of responsibility to the family will be stronger, which is much better than that of the son. Once a new family is formed, the son will be stronger in his beliefs and will maintain the family well. And the daughters will devote all their energy to their mother's family, and even if a new family is formed, the daughters will try their best to help their mother's family.
Therefore, when you have a daughter, you will often get closer to each other, and you don't have to worry that your daughter will not come back to visit you if she marries far away.
2. The daughter is delicate.
Boys are generally more careless, while girls tend to be more respectful and delicate. In the process of raising a daughter, the daughter will handle any details well, so that it can make it easier for the parents. Boys are often more naughty, they will only cause trouble for their parents, and will do things that make their parents feel a headache, which shows that daughters are better than sons.
3. The daughter will be more intimate.
Boys are generally nervous, and they don't feel the true thoughts of their parents at all. Daughters tend to care more about their parents' feelings, and they also show every move that is in line with their parents' wishes. When the parents are tired, the daughter will also take more care of her parents.
And girls will also put most of their energy into their parents, especially when their parents are in their old age, daughters often become the spiritual pillars of their parents, and will often take their children back to their parents' homes to visit their parents, which will make parents feel very relieved.
Therefore, sometimes it is much better to give birth to a daughter than to have a boy, not only will you have less energy to invest, but you will also get much more than a boy. And we don't need to be patriarchal at all, because this era is open, not so feudal, and boys and girls are often the same, and we should be fair.
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It's good for Sigaoxu to have a daughter without a son, because the daughter is intimate and filial piety, Qi Lu will be very happy to have four daughters. They also came back to see you, so the four daughters were fine.
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Okay, my daughter has a good life. The daughters are all intimate little padded jackets, and the daughters are not so stressed.
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The financial burden is lighter, it is easier to raise, there are two daughters who can eat and play together, and the children are not alone.
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The daughter is an intimate little cotton hail source jacket, with a daughter after the family will be more warm, no worries, and do not have to worry about the problem of the old in the maintenance hall, the daughter will be more warm-hearted, and will be more considerate to the parents.
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The daughter is the little padded jacket of the parents, and the two daughters can take care of each other in the future.
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There are no sons and only 2 daughters are old, in fact, it is the same as having sons, and now the children are the same, maybe the daughters will be better.
In the past, the old people had old ideas, patriarchy, this kind of thinking is not good, daughters are the intimate little padded jackets of their parents, more careful and intimate than their sons, so now many people like daughters, but they are all their own children, and children are the same.
It will take a long time for the current social habits to change radically. Daughters and sons should also participate in the pension of both parents. First of all, self-improvement and self-reliance, physical exercise, emancipation of the mind, and seeking truth from facts.
Having a son doesn't necessarily support you. He also has his own life, career.
In the past, sons could inherit the family business and prevent old age, so if there were only two daughters and no sons, they might face some social pressure and pension problems. However, with the development of society and the change of people's concepts, more and more families no longer regard their sons as the only inheritance and dependence. Here are some ways to cope: >>>More
Two daughters are better, or two sons are better, in fact, they all want to make a good word, otherwise they won't have a second one, but there are so many wishful thoughts? As long as the education is good, whether it is two sons or two daughters, they will be happy, and the two sons can find two daughters, so that when the children are too busy to give birth, the daughters will definitely want their mothers to take care of them!
I think so, in order to let his son have a decent wedding, he asked his two daughters to send 50,000 yuan each, which is really unfair to his daughter.
You're in the same situation as I am. He is also one of my husband's family, and I myself am two sisters. Now that I'm married, I'm not happy.
It's just that the chat shouldn't be found, but if you go out as much as possible, it's best to delete the message, but it is recommended that the brother don't do this, in case it is discovered, you can't get either of the two, choose one as soon as possible.