Who is happier after having two daughters or having two sons?

Two daughters are better, or two sons are better, in fact, they all want to make a good word, otherwise they won't have a second one, but there are so many wishful thoughts? As long as the education is good, whether it is two sons or two daughters, they will be happy, and the two sons can find two daughters, so that when the children are too busy to give birth, the daughters will definitely want their mothers to take care of them!

If you can only compare these two, it must be that the person who gave birth to two daughters is happier.

The most perfect is a son and a daughter, but everything is not so perfect. There are many examples of what you want and what you don't come to. So if it's really a comparison between two daughters and two sons, then it must be that the two daughters are relatively happy.

Think about it, if you have two sons, you will be very sad in the future. The first is the issue of the son's marriage, and the marriage must have a house and a bride price.

How expensive the house is now, even if a family can buy a set, it's okay. If you want to buy two sets, how many years will you have to struggle? Maybe by the time the children get married, the house hasn't been arranged yet.

Many families can no longer afford the bride price, let alone two bride prices. In the future, if the bride price rises higher and higher, then what a burden it will be. When there is no bride price, whose daughter will marry?

This is just marriage, and coaxing children after marriage is even more of a big deal. Think about yourself as an old man, and two sons are four for each child. Didn't you want your own life then?

There are also contradictions between concubines and daughters-in-law, and between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law, who are biased towards this and crooked that. It's a big head when you think about it.

When they raised their four children, they were old. When it comes to pension, it will be pushed to that family, and that family is not willing to raise.

Thinking about this old age life is all sad, what kind of happiness is there to talk about. <

Compared to the two daughters, at least there are not so many things. And the daughters are all small padded jackets, able to see what you need. I also know that I feel sorry for you.

In this way, it seems that I will definitely be happier after giving birth to two daughters.

Compared with the two, those who give birth to two daughters will be happier in the future, and those who give birth to two sons will definitely be relatively worse in the future.

We should all have heard the saying that the daughter is the mother's little padded jacket, in fact, it is not only the mother's little padded jacket, but also the father's little padded jacket. Parents who can give birth to two daughters will definitely have a more relaxed and happy life in the future.

In today's society, you must know how much pressure to have a son is for parents, not only that sons have to work a little more and more tiring since they were young. It is said that it is very stressful to get married when you grow up, and the difference between the proportion of men and women in the current society is so big, and the man does not know how much he wants when he gets married, and he has to prepare a marriage room and other things. One son has to prepare one, and the pressure on two sons will only be greater.

If a family condition is still particularly good, then it doesn't matter, if the family condition is relatively poor, then the pressure of the two sons is really too much for the parents to bear. If the child himself is particularly promising, it is better to provide these for himself, but if the child himself does not have such an ability and can only rely on his parents to support him, then he really has to work hard for I don't know how long it will take to earn so much money to provide the two sons with those dowry gifts for marriage.

It's different for daughters, whether it's two daughters or one daughter, there is no such pressure, daughters are going to marry into someone else's family, no matter how much dowry is prepared, only need to prepare a dowry, and these are not so much pressure on parents. And girls generally have to be quiet, not so active, and not too tired when taking care of children. When she grows up and gets married, it will be much easier, and her daughter will be very caring, filial to her parents, and help her parents do things, which is much happier than having a son.

It's a false proposition, and the discussion is about how to raise a son or daughter well.

The concept of patriarchy in China is deeply ingrained, and as long as there is the fact that women give birth to children and the children born follow the man's surname according to tradition, then the concept of patriarchy will continue to spread.

If it was in the old society before, it would definitely be happier to have two boys in the later life, because on the one hand, in the social environment at that time, people generally favored sons over daughters.

This is also a superstitious idea left by feudal society, thinking that the inheritance still depends on boys, and girls always have to marry, so people generally do not take girls very seriously.

And in the previous society, if two daughters were born in a row and there was no son, then the status of the child's mother in the family would not be high, as the so-called mother by virtue of the son refers to the mother's status is raised with the status of her son, and if she is a daughter, she will be looked down upon by her in-laws.

Not only that, in the old society in the past, people still believed in filial piety, and their children were still relatively filial to their parents, not at all like the current world, and some children even dared to beat their parents.

The above is said in the past, so in the current society, I personally think it would be happier to have two daughters.

Because girls know how to hurt more than boys, and the current society is a society where men and women are equal, some girls earn more than boys, and filial piety is no worse than boys.

One of my neighbors has three daughters and a son, and now they are all married, but his son often quarrels with his parents because of his daughter-in-law, and sometimes kicks them out of the house.

On the contrary, the three daughters of my neighbor's family are more filial, and every time they come, they rush to say that they want to take their parents to their home for a few days, and they are not for money and fame, they just want to be filial to their parents.

Regardless of men and women, everyone has their own happiness, and I hope that I don't want to take colors to see men and women! But many people still like to have both children and daughters, and it is a feeling of happiness for both children to have children.

If you don't say it in the countryside, you must have a son. It's hard to say in the city, depending on how to educate, but it's generally better to have a daughter.

Of course, it's better to have two girls, and everyone's opinion on this point is one-sided. However, this is on average. Individual cases cannot be included, each family has its own specific circumstances.

Regardless of whether it is a boy or a girl, education is fundamental, and this education does not refer to the level of education or education. It must be the education of human beings, the education of sages. A person can only be called a human being if he is educated on how to behave.

The man's parents bought a house and let the woman's parents come to live in it, thinking too much.

Regardless of boys and girls, if you want to grow up and have a good life, don't you educate? Should education be invested? Don't say that reading is not the only way out, you can be a champion!

That's comforting! The reality is that the child who doesn't want his grades to be good? Having money to invest in children's education and buying your own pension insurance is the right way!

The child has a chance to make people worry-free, and at the same time multiple thoughts! You have to rely on your own pension for the elderly!

First of all, if the husband and wife have two daughters, they are the happiest, because the sisterhood is very deep, and they will never quarrel because of some small things, and even after the husband and wife are old, the two daughters will put all their energy into the old man, and will take care of the old man selflessly, so it is best for the husband and wife to have two daughters.

It is also very happy to have a son and a daughter, especially if the daughter's son is small, so that the sister will take care of the younger brother. The elder sister also takes a lot of care of the younger brother, so at this time, the parents should also rest assured that the elder sister and the younger brother will not quarrel. The eldest son and younger daughter are also very good, and at this time, the elder brother will have more care for the younger sister.

A daughter is also very good, a daughter can be more considerate of her parents, more filial to her parents, and even when her daughter is very young, it is very relaxed. It can reduce a lot of burden for parents, and daughters are also very well-behaved and obedient, and can obediently follow their parents' advice.

If there is only one child in the family, if something happens to the child, the parents will have to bear a greater mental blow.

If you have two children at home, it is relatively equivalent to spreading the risk.

There is only one child in the family, and the child is used to being the little sun in the family, and he will appear more self-conscious.

If you have two children at home, the children are generally better at sharing.

There are two children in the family, and the two children grow up together, and when the parents are old and sick, the two children can help each other and support each other.

Of course, it is happier to have two daughters, because there is no burden to have two daughters, and there is no need to think about buying a house for the children and getting married, and the two women will be very intimate.

It is happier to have two daughters, because the daughter is the little padded jacket of her parents, and the daughter's personality is more gentle and kind.

The two daughters are happier. Because the daughter is well-behaved and cute, the daughter is the little padded jacket of her parents, which is more worry-free.

There is a great probability, this is a matter of probability, usually speaking, it is a boy who has been born twice, so the probability of giving birth to a girl is very large. But there are also many families in life, for example, they want a boy, but they have three girls in a row. It also exists.

In this regard, we should ensure a natural attitude. In addition to not getting too attached to the matter, we should also respect a scientific method of judgment.

It is good to have both children and daughters, but two daughters are also good, and the goodness of daughters can be reflected in the older the parents.

Tell me about what you experienced.

Once I went to a wedding, a relative said to everyone, my two daughters are older, today the eldest girl will buy clothes, tomorrow the little girl will buy nutritional products, and there is no need to worry about buying a house for them to get married, it is better to have two girls.

There is also a relative who also has two daughters, both married, and the eldest daughter's house is nearby, and her relatives help bring her when she gives birth to a child. Relatives were hospitalized for surgery because of some physical problems, and their daughters and sons-in-law drove to see the doctor, and they were also taken care of by their daughters and sons-in-law when they were hospitalized, and they served them very well.

In reality, the happiness of the family and the handling of daily affairs, the two daughters may have a higher happiness index. But because of traditional Chinese thinking, some people may feel that it is a pity not to have a son.

But how can life be perfect!

The daughter is relatively more careful and considerate, knows how to take care of her parents, and her parents, or they are all intimate little padded jackets. And the family of two daughters is also easier to be harmonious and less prone to conflicts.

It can be said that people with two daughters are usually happier in their later years.

There's nothing bad about it, as long as you make sure it's all your own! Although men want their wives to have sons, but in the real world, after all, the burden of raising sons is much greater, so it would be best if you could have both children, and if it was two sons, it would be Alexander! The two daughters, they will have no worries about food and clothing in the future, what a good day!

It's okay or not! Like you, it's best to have your first child, and the quadruplets are all sons, and when your son grows up, you will know whether it is better to have a son or a daughter.

Well, in the future, I won't be able to finish drinking Moutai and smoking Chinese cigarettes.