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In the past, sons could inherit the family business and prevent old age, so if there were only two daughters and no sons, they might face some social pressure and pension problems. However, with the development of society and the change of people's concepts, more and more families no longer regard their sons as the only inheritance and dependence. Here are some ways to cope:
1.Adjust your mentality: First of all, you need to adjust your mentality and don't let traditional ideas cause too much psychological burden on you. Daughters can also pass on the family business and take care of the elderly.
2.Plan ahead: You can consider pension plans, such as purchasing pension insurance, reserve pensions, etc. In addition, it is possible to participate in community activities, build a good relationship with neighbors, and increase the social circle.
4.Cultivate hobbies: You can cultivate your own hobbies, such as participating in community art teams, learning new knowledge, etc., to enrich your life.
5.Embrace a new way of life: Accept a lifestyle with only two daughters, enjoy time with your daughters, and focus on their growth and development.
In short, having only two daughters and no sons does not mean that you cannot cope with the problem of providing for the elderly, you need to adjust your mentality, plan ahead, ask for help, develop hobbies, accept a new lifestyle, etc.
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1. If you only have two daughters and have no sons, then the property will naturally give you two daughters when you are old. Even if you have a son, do you think that if you have a son, your son will honor you when you are old?
2. In many families now, daughters are much more filial than sons. I'm sure you can tell from the families around you. There are three ways to divide property, one is to give one to both daughters.
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There are no sons and only 2 daughters are old, in fact, it is the same as having sons, and now the children are the same, maybe the daughters will be better.
In the past, the old people had old ideas, patriarchy, this kind of thinking is not good, daughters are the intimate little padded jackets of their parents, more careful and intimate than their sons, so now many people like daughters, but they are all their own children, and children are the same.
It will take a long time for the current social habits to change radically. Daughters and sons should also participate in the pension of both parents. First of all, self-improvement and self-reliance, physical exercise, emancipation of the mind, and seeking truth from facts.
Having a son doesn't necessarily support you. He also has his own life, career.
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There is no one set answer to this question, as everyone's family situation, outlook on life, and values are different. Some families may be very focused on the idea of succession, believing that not having a son will make the family bloodline untenable, so they will feel regret and loss in old age. However, there are also some families who believe that there is no essential difference between sons and daughters, and daughters can also assume the responsibility of passing on the lineage, and in modern society, the concept of childbearing has gradually changed, and more and more families choose not to have children or only have one child, so in old age, only people will not feel regret because they do not have a son.
In addition, whether or not you will regret it in old age also depends on the individual's life state and state of mind. If the elderly live a full, healthy, happy life, and have their own hobbies and social circles, then they can live happily even without a son. Conversely, if the life of the elderly is monotonous and lacks social and support networks, then even with a son, they may feel lonely and lost.
Therefore, for this issue, everyone's family concept and lifestyle should be respected, and there should be no discrimination or prejudice on the basis of gender. At the same time, people should also be encouraged to focus on the realization of personal values and the pursuit of a happy life, rather than overemphasizing the idea of inheritance.
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It depends on your old age! In fact, it is not necessary to have a son to rely on, but also to see whether your son is filial to you, whether he has the ability to give you a good life, if the son is not well-educated, maybe he will gnaw your old! Therefore, even if you have a son, you may not regret it when you are old!
If you only have a daughter, if your daughter is very filial and you can give you a pension for the elderly, you will also feel very happy, you may not have a son How much will be a pity, but the daughter is also your descendant, and the child born by the daughter also has your blood, if the daughter and son-in-law agree, you can let one of the daughter's children and the daughter's surname, you just treat him as the heir, and there will be so many regrets as the file type!
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Only gave birth to 2 daughters, and no son will not regret it.
"Raising children to prevent old age" is the reason why many people feel that they must have a son, but in fact, whether a child is filial or not depends on whether a daughter or a son is born, but education, filial piety, caring, and a daughter who can do things is much better than a son who can only reach out to his parents for a house, a car, and money. In fact, giving birth to sons and daughters is the same, and there should be no patriarchal thoughts.
There are also some people who want sons, not patriarchal, but they don't want their daughters to suffer, women give birth to children is a ghost door, although it is not a woman's responsibility to take care of children and do housework, but most families are still borne by women, and they don't want daughters, because they don't want their daughters to suffer.
Benefits of having a daughter
1. The daughter's destructive power is less.
Boys are naturally more mischievous and mischievous, refusing to be idle for a moment, and always causing trouble outside. And girls are naturally more gentle and quiet, and mothers with daughters are more worry-free.
2. Having a daughter will better understand her lead key growth mentality.
Once a girl, of course, you will know more about the growth mentality of Nuhuai Fangqiaoer, and you will know when she is rebellious and when her love is beginning to open. When her daughter is in trouble, she can share her same experience with her, guide her appropriately, and make it easier to educate.
3. Someone will accompany you shopping in the future.
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Giving birth to two daughters is a blessed performance in modern society, and the old daughter's care for the elderly may be more careful and thoughtful, and more and more people will envy those families who have two daughters, as for making people look down on them, almost less and less.
The family is happier when it comes to having a daughter.
In today's society, the idea of preference for sons over daughters has slowly faded, and even in the rural areas of western China, everyone is becoming more and more open about giving birth to boys and girls. In our hometown village, those families with two girls in the family are called two-woman households, and because they do not need to give their sons and daughters-in-law, they need to prepare a house and a bride price.
With the pressure of the car, they will be able to save some money, and with the economic prosperity, they will also live very well in the countryside and be respected.
Whether in urban or rural areas, the important reason for being respected is whether you can earn money, whether your economic conditions are well-off, and whether your life is better than that of others. If the previous conditions are met, then there is a high probability that you will be respected by others, and people nowadays will hardly care whether you have two daughters or two sons.
In our hometown in the countryside, now more and more people envy those families with two women, once the two daughters grow up, there are a lot of people who come to say goodbye, most of them are asking for such families, and the parents of the two daughters are more and more noble, so there are more and more people who envy such families, and we can also see it as a manifestation of social progress.
Of course, in those more remote rural areas, there are still some patriarchal thoughts, and in the minds of some people, they think that if a boy is born in a family, there will be people who continue the incense, and they will regard this as a kind of pride.
So in the countryside villagers.
If there is a dispute between them, some of the more vicious people are scolding those families who only have daughters in the family, and will say that such a family belongs to "cutting off children and grandchildren", of course, saying this kind of thing is very harmful to those families with only women in the family.
Of course, now that more and more young people are going to other places, and more and more people from other places are returning to the countryside, new ideas and civilizations are infecting more and more people around them, and everyone will become more tolerant, and this phenomenon is almost non-existent.
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Now is a society that looks at money, as long as you have money, no one will look down on you if you have ten daughters, but if you don't have money, it is useless for you to have ten sons, and others will laugh at you.
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Now they all pay attention to the equality of men and women, and in some places boys are not as popular as girls, and besides, a son-in-law is half a son, and two sons-in-law are equivalent to a son, so there is no need to care too much about other people's eyes.
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I think that having two daughters and not having a son is not something to look down on, because people have changed their mindset now, and they think that whether it is a son or a daughter, as long as the children are filial to them when they are old.
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Because as the old saying goes, the son marries a daughter-in-law and forgets his mother. Of course, today's boys are not so careful. Of course, it's better to have two daughters.
But now these customs have improved. In fact, as long as your own conditions are good, whether you give birth to a daughter or a son, as long as you have a good education. When I get old, I go to a nursing home, dance more square dances, play chess with old men and old women, and chat about some family life, so that I won't feel lonely when I get old.
The most important thing is that if you want to think that you are not alone when you are old, you must make a difference when you are young, work hard and struggle more, and lay the hardest foundation for your future. Otherwise, when you get old, you can only farm in the countryside and look at the chickens, so you may feel lonely.
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No, in fact, men and women are the same now, even if they have a son, they will not necessarily live together when they are old, but daughters are also more intimate, and everything will be shared by parents, so whether it is a son or a daughter, education is the most important thing.
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Of course, I won't be lonely, I think it is a blessing for the old man to have two daughters, and the daughter is the intimate little padded jacket of the old man, no matter when, the old man will be taken care of by his daughter.
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In fact, giving birth to a daughter is the same, why do you say that you will be lonely when you give birth to a daughter, what era is it now, you can find a son-in-law without a son and daughter, we have a daughter here is no worse than having a son, mainly depending on the conscience, so there is no need to think about the future.
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I don't think I'll be alone in the future. Whether they give birth to a boy or a girl, they are their own children, and they have the obligation to accompany and support the elderly, and even if they finally get married, they can often come back to accompany them.
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Having two daughters without a son, of course not, you are very happy to have two daughters, well, these two daughters will take turns to take care of you, because daughters are relatively careful.
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I have two daughters and no sons, and I don't feel really lonely when I get old, and the elderly can also go to live in their daughter's house, and have a daughter to take care of the elderly.
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No. The daughter's sense of responsibility is actually stronger than that of the son, and the daughter will be more delicate in taking care of the elderly.
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You won't be lonely, you can live close to your daughter, you can also play with your peers, as long as you are not lonely in your heart, even if you are alone, you won't feel lonely.
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Personally, I think that people who come to the world to have children and daughters can be regarded as people without regrets no matter what, as for whether they have to rely on them or not, it is not because of sons and daughters, this depends on the education from childhood and the guidance of leading by example.
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How many daughters-in-law would be genuinely happy to live with their mother-in-law all year round!? It's not that you don't want money to be a nanny, take care of the baby, cook, clean the house...From time to time, you have to contribute your pension money...! :
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Not necessarily, now some daughters can't get along with their mother-in-law when they get married, so they all go back to their parents' house to live with their mothers.
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It depends on your daughter's financial strength, and if she is financially strong, don't worry.
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