Is it bad to not be able to find a girlfriend in college?

Don't be confused by outside opinions. There are many reasons why you can't find a girlfriend in college. Some students know that they have to focus on their studies and strive for their future dreams without getting involved in feelings, some students are not good at expressing themselves and don't know how to communicate with the opposite sex so they don't find a girlfriend, and some are famous for the type that girls don't like, and girls refuse to do so.

Some are afraid to have a girlfriend because of low self-esteem, and so on. It's not bad if you can't find it, after all, what can you do if you have a girlfriend, and you can't say for sure if you break up or what after graduation, but don't look for a girlfriend in order to show off your charm in order to follow the crowd, and find someone to comfort, these are irresponsible. As the old saying goes, learning is your compulsory.

When your hardware and software have been cultivated to a certain extent, are you afraid of not having a girlfriend?

It's not very bad, love in college is an elective, you don't have to find it, if you meet the right one, to talk about a college love, it's a good memory, and you may find a lifelong partner, but if you don't meet the right one, there's no need to find it in order to have such an experience, it's not good for each other.

It's nothing, most of the boys in our school don't have girlfriends.

It's up to you, as long as your life is very fulfilling, college life can still be colorful without looking for a girlfriend.

It can only be said that some people talk very well in college, and generally there are few happiness in the future. Especially girls...

It doesn't matter if you like someone else.

Whether you can find a girlfriend depends on your personal situation.

1. It is normal for engineering colleges and universities to have a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women.

In general, there are more male students than female students in engineering colleges, and in the case of my friend's mining major, there are no female students. But that didn't stop my friend from getting off the list.

First of all, at the beginning of the freshman year, various clubs recruit new people, you can join the clubs you are interested in, you will meet people who share your interests, maybe love will come?!Next, let's briefly analyze the situation of the club, street dance club, butterfly dance club, etc., as we all know, there are a lot of beautiful and handsome guys, you can join the club to train together, meet and communicate every day, there are always opportunities, it depends on how you grasp it; Various sports clubs, badminton clubs, basketball clubs, there may be relatively few girls, but it does not affect the centimeter There are beautiful young ladies and handsome little brothers, training together every day, isn't love coming!

3. Join the Student Council.

It is said that university is a small society, and in the past, it was just a matter of listening, but when you actually enter the university, you will find that this is indeed the case. When you enter the student union in your freshman year, you actually do chores, but if you want to think about it, the seniors and seniors all come over like this, is it suddenly a lot more psychologically balanced? Besides, so things are all pros and cons, joining the student union, adding points for comprehensive tests, adding credits, etc., a series of benefits will follow.

I know a senior, who is the minister of the Ministry of Science and Technology, looks ordinary, is about 170 tall, and has successfully taken off the single this year, and is with the primary school girl of the Ministry of Science and Technology, and his girlfriend is very beautiful.

Finally, hopefully, in this era of fast food, you can encounter porridge that is simmering over low heat.

It's not necessarily that you can't find a girlfriend, after all, the school is so big, there are few girls in some majors, but there are many girls in some majors. There is no one who can only find a girlfriend in this major. And couples with different majors will also have different freshness, a great choice.

It's not that you can't find it, there are a lot of majors in college, you can go to other professional classes to find them, and you can't just stare at the girls in your major.

No! If you want to study hard in school and finish your studies, what do you want to be a girlfriend? When you enter the society, you will know why you didn't study well in the first place.

College students are in their prime, and it is the best time to fall in love. ......However, there are many girls who would rather hide in the dormitory and chase dramas than find a partner. They are like this because they pursue idealized love, they don't want to fall in love too early, and they are not ready to fall in love.

1. Pursue idealized love.

Love in film and television dramas is very romantic and idealistic. Those girls who would rather chase dramas than fall in love pursue that kind of idealized love in their hearts, so they will hide in the dormitory to chase dramas instead of talking about love in real life. ......If they never get out, they won't be able to find true love.

2. I don't want to fall in love too early.

Some girls think that they are still young and do not want to fall in love too early. ......Because of this, they don't fall in love, but choose to live the life they like. ......Chasing dramas is just one of their favorite lifestyles, and it has nothing to do with not being able to find a partner.

3. Not ready to fall in love.

For some girls, they actually want to fall in love. However, they are not ready, so they are evasive about love, sometimes hiding in the dormitory to catch up on dramas, and dare not take the initiative to fall in love.

After a period of preparation, these girls will eventually break through themselves and take the initiative to find their own love.

The above is the reason why some girls choose to follow dramas in the dormitory instead of falling in love. ......Over time, they will eventually be ready and choose to take the initiative to find their lover and live a happy life of their own.

I haven't met the right person, fate is a wonderful thing, but I don't feel it's okay.

In addition, in fact, many girls can be independent on their own, and they can do many things by themselves, without the help of boys, so there are fewer opportunities to be attracted to boys; And some girls are even better than boys (of course, only in certain aspects, such as studying), so there is less appreciation for boys; In addition, most of today's boys seem to be more shy, in fact, the average girl is also more shy about this kind of thing, so boys have fewer opportunities to perform in front of girls, so female college students may not be able to find someone to fall in love with.

Of course, the problem may also be in the girls themselves, girls who go to college will have a slightly higher vision, at least generally speaking, they will not look for something worse than their own (except because of love); There is also a relatively simple environment like school for a long time, maybe the psychology is just thinking about falling in love and envy (most of the fantasies may also be the love of the male and female protagonists of Korean dramas), but when it comes to reality, I don't know how to talk about it at all; Besides, now that the competition for employment is so big, under the same conditions, girls can't compete with boys, so girls have to work harder, and the books they have read for so many years can't be in vain, so girls have less motivation to fall in love.

If you have another problem, it should be because the future is uncertain, I am afraid that after graduation, we will be separated from each other or change my mind and break up, or because of the pressure of work, the two people will always quarrel and break up, because school and society are two different environments, and the variables are too big after graduation, so I dare not bet. Otherwise, it's a personal personality reason, which is not universal, so I won't talk about it.