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Hello, but the situation you give is more one-sided, the main reason for not agreeing to be together you didn't say it, is it you or your lover's family conditions, or people's appearance and body problems, or character problems, or other, really opposed must be for what reason, then first of all, family conditions this is what parents may prioritize, for example, your family conditions are average, your work is very ordinary, parents hope that you find a superior economic conditions, this is just one of the points to give you an analogy, On the one hand, your lover's appearance and your parents feel that they are not a good match for you, I believe that there will be no problems with your character.
This matter is mainly about communicating with parents, and what is the reason for the poor communication. In the future planning, believe in a word, barely there is no happiness, not to get the blessing of your parents is unhappy, so the two families are very awkward, at least both of you are unwilling, I don't know for what reason, but there are lovers, I hope you will eventually become husband and wife, good luck to you.
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Although everyone says that falling in love is their own business, in fact, marriage is definitely not their own business, and only a marriage blessed by their family can be happy and long-lasting.
In fact, there is a saying that the bystanders are clear, and the authorities are confused. Why do you think about why others object to you being together, or do you blindly think that it is someone else's prejudice? To find the real reason behind this assertion, you can list your boyfriend's strengths and weaknesses with a piece of paper left and right, try to analyze it objectively, and of course consider whether other people's evaluations of your boyfriend are true, I don't know what kind of people your relatives are, generally speaking, they all love you, and they all want you to be happy.
Generally speaking, relatives are tolerant of their loved ones, unless he really has ** done badly. If you end up deciding that opinion is biased, or you can promise to live with it forever later in life. So, go your own way and respect your heart.
Also, although others evaluate a marriage without love as immoral, a marriage with only love is definitely immature. The lifespan of love can be short for two people in a long life, so choose carefully. Love allows you to only see one side of a person, calm down and look at his other side, all his sides, and then choose well
Wishing you happiness!
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Her problem is very serious, I don't want to say anything, I can't say anything, family affection, love, difficult? I married a Muslim wife, and my parents didn't say a word against it, which really touched me.
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To marry a man is to marry a life. What kind of life can he give you? Can you avoid being hurt by that evil mother-in-law for the rest of your life?
Can you win the approval of your parents through your own efforts? If the answer is the opposite, girl, do you want another life? Think clearly, sometimes people who love each other are not suitable for living together, and people who can live well together must love each other:
Love is actually very specific, specific to firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, a man who can give you a better life is worthy of love. Marry a son-in-law that your parents like, and you will be happy.
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Find a chance to talk about it, and you can also ask your boyfriend to take more practical actions to influence the second elder with sincerity. The clouds of the guard open to see the sunrise. I believe that as long as the direction is right. Then just stick to it
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If you really love each other. Why give up? Do you want to regret it after many years? If the family doesn't agree, you wait until they agree. Find a way to get both parents to agree.
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Sometimes it's better to be realistic, after all, it's not a serial.
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If he's good, you're good, you won't have any of that.
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Since you really love each other, don't give up easily, people, are emotional, I believe that the family can be moved by you,,, bless ,,, happy as soon as possible.
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Is it necessary to continue a love that is opposed by a family?
Many lovers want to be approved by their parents. If a family tremor returns to the right love, is there still a need to continue?
First, a man takes care of your wife wholeheartedly. Parents have been through a lot of ups and downs and have seen through people's hearts. As a result, they look at people very accurately.
I sometimes have a hard time seeing that person's problem because we're fans of this situation and our significant other has a love filter. Parents who are bystanders often have insight into each other's posture and nature at a glance. Some parents can judge each other's personality from each other's behavior and conversations through short-term contact.
The second because in the eyes of parents, at this age, their children want to be happy for the rest of their lives and everything is going well. If you find one bad thing, it can ruin your life. The opposition of parents only pushes the crisis that may arise in the marriage to the front, even if there are no obstacles in front of them, there will be various storms in the future, but if even the current level cannot be passed, some people fight side by side in the face of the crisis and work together.
Third, although marriage is not a matter for two people, both of you are alive. If your partner isn't making you strong enough, don't be together. It's impossible to be happy together.
He is faithful to his wife, and if a woman can accompany you through youth and ignorance, you should remember her constant companionship. Beautiful love is always a woman's greatest wish. Let your children grow up in a complete family, be a qualified father and a good husband.
Fourth, they bargain over small things, even trivial ones, and score what is wrong. After he was wronged, after he had gone through the torment of illness, he had enough strength to let the people who had suffered him so much lose their lives. He still retains his original goodness.
The reason my parents objected to our contact was that they didn't know the person's personality and didn't believe we could spend the rest of our lives with each other.
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There is no need to continue this kind of love, because everyone is not able to support the love of such a spring deficiency, so Mu Senwan will not be blessed, and he will not be happy.
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If the family members are against it, it means that your other half is not favored by the family travelers, and you should choose to break up as soon as possible.
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There is no need, because this relationship cannot be blessed by others, so there is no good result in persevering.
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1. If it is true love, then all opposition is just an obstacle, but for the opposition of parents, we should find a way to resolve it step by step, and finally parents will be moved by their own efforts.
2. If you have doubts, you don't love enough, if it's not true love, then give up, your parents' experience will be more thorough than your own mind that is carried away by feelings.
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As long as two people really want to be together, think in one place, and work hard in one place, even if their parents are against it, then how can they try to enlighten their parents, and get the blessing of their parents to take their time, as long as two people have a common goal, nothing else matters.
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My parents were also very opposed to my boyfriend at the time, but the two of us insisted on being together, and now we are very happy. In fact, the most important thing is to look at the other party's character and how he treats you, after all, life is lived by the two of you, and you can't live a lifetime with the elderly.
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If the other party's parents are against you being together, I think you really should know how to leave, so as not to get into a miasma at times, and even if you persist, it may not have a good result.
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Personally, I don't think it's necessary.
Many times many people will feel that they should persevere, but the facts tell us that even if two people come together, they will not be particularly happy, unless they live alone, if they are with his parents, I believe that life will be really uncomfortable.
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It depends on what the other person thinks, and if he insists, then you should continue to stay in the relationship.
In this case, it takes a resolute attitude on the part of the other party to have the possibility of continuing to develop, and it is up to the other person and not on you.
You don't have to think about it now, just go with the flow.
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I believe that as long as you and your boyfriend don't give up, persevere, face difficulties together, and find opportunities to convince your parents, even if your parents oppose you being together, it can't be an obstacle to prevent you from being together.
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It depends on whether your partner insists on the relationship, no matter what, always work hard, fight for it, and understand the reasons why the other party's parents do not accept you. When love comes, we must overcome all kinds of difficulties and obstacles in order to have hope of happiness.
If you can't get it, don't be too paranoid, for two people, the acceptance and blessing of parents is important for future life.
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The old people pay attention to marriage and pay attention to the right family, maybe the economic conditions are too poor for each other, the other party's parents will definitely dislike it, and they also think that they have climbed their family!
I am not optimistic about such a relationship, after all, my married life will be full of all kinds of dislike and disdain! After a long time, you will feel that life is very tiring!
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If this problem really happens, I think I will discuss with my girlfriend to see how I can convince her parents, if her parents insist on refusing, I will give the choice to my girlfriend, I will not encourage her to turn her face with her parents, but if she is willing to follow me, I will be good to her for the rest of my life!
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Imagine two futures.
One is the life after being with her.
One is to live after obeying the arrangements of your parents.
Which do you want more.
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Love, first there is love, then there is love. If you love, love deeply. If you don't love, leave.
Love is responsibility, patience, tolerance, and persistence. You love him very much, so if he loves you, even if it's just a little, you should make up for it. If he doesn't love you at all, then leave.
In this world, reality is always cruel, what you love, you don't love you, or, you don't love you. I love each other, but I have troubles that we can't get together. Falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.
The world is not what we want to be. There is a girl who eloped with a man for love, regardless of the abuse of her family, thinking that it was enough for him to love her. After getting married, it is inevitable that there will be stumbles, and there will be more contradictions over time.
Her mother-in-law hated her, and her husband bullied her. So, I myself don't recommend elopement. Love can't match family affection after all.
The two resolutely got married despite the opposition of their families, and the family had to turn a blind eye. After marriage, if something goes wrong, the girl doesn't dare to tell the family, and the boy doesn't want to tell the family, and the relationship is getting farther and farther away. There is no love, and there is no love.
Therefore, I myself do not recommend ignoring the opposition of my family. It's a simple thing. But you have to understand, first of all, pity the hearts of parents all over the world, there are no parents who do not love their children.
Your family is for your good, and in the same way, his family is for his good. What should be listened to is still to be heard. After all, parents read countless people.
Know what kind of person is good, what kind of family children will not be wronged in the future. Secondly, your parents don't agree, even if you get married, you are a shallow blessing, and everyone feels uncomfortable, who can say for sure in the future. I don't say this to hope that you will break up, but to hope that you will respect your parents.
If you really love each other, then persevere, work hard. There is nothing in the world that cannot be solved, only people who cannot solve it. If you love him, try to do a good job and make up for your other deficiencies with other excellence.
If he loves you, he should do a good job and try to win the appreciation of your family. Advance and retreat together. The future is yours, and love has nothing to do with others.
If you believe in it, there will be no hardship. If you love him, you will share in him. If you love her, you will bear it for her.
Don't give up.
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Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.
When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.
There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.
They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.
In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who really love you may not say many words that love you, but Gao Qi will do many things that love you.
If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......
Please remember! The stars that can't pick Qi Xuling are always the brightest, and the small fish that slips away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.
In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.
If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.
Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.
Because a woman's youth is only a few years, if there is no good result, the woman will be very hurt, and the youth is gone, and the next relationship will be difficult.
Although it is said that time can forget everything, if you still love him. I can't forget if you don't love him. You will forget to find a way to stop loving him or try not to contact and recall the scenes of 2 people, don't do what you used to do, often go to play with friends, go crazy together, you can also go out to travel, maybe you will meet the true love of your life, love is everywhere, as long as you don't miss it, breaking up will be a new beginning for you!! >>>More
The way they love themselves must be very attentive, because they know that the relationship needs to be managed by two people, they will take care of themselves, and they will also take themselves very seriously.
There are fewer and fewer words between two people, and they are particularly impatient with each other, and there are often conflicts between two people.
Give it up, obviously, this is not the relationship you should give, I think the relationship should be pure, it is better to be pure, it is more fragile between two people, and there is a third party, and it is even more painful, rather than being so troubled, it is better to forget it as soon as possible, but forget to talk about it, then try to start another relationship, while you and him have not started now, and the relationship is not very deep, hurry up and come out, you come out, and you will solve the three of you, and the most important thing is that you are not troubled. >>>More