What kind of mentality is blind date?

Some people say that you can't get married for the sake of getting married, but I don't think that's appropriate.

China has existed since ancient times"Men should get married, and women should get married"One said.

Getting married and having children can be said to be a necessary stage for every ordinary person.

Although I don't have children yet, I have seen so many parents, except for a few children who are unfilial and willing to degenerate, I have not seen a few parents who regret having children. But at the same time, I have also seen some elderly people who have no children and are lonely.

Don't listen to some people say that the life of not having children is the happiest, these are extremely irresponsible statements that standing and talking without backache. After all, social insurance in our country is still quite imperfect, even if you have a good job, pay pension insurance, you have a guarantee in life, are you willing to wait for you to get old, to a pet dog or pet cat to talk about your heart? Or spend money to talk to people?

That's ridiculous and pathetic.

Therefore, marriage is still a must. However, many people, due to their work, often have a relatively small social circle, and it is difficult to meet the people who meet the conditions. So, at this time, blind date has become a good choice.

Moreover, blind dates are also a very fashionable thing now. Aren't there a lot of blind date activities that are quite popular?

Of course, blind date is a kind of fate, and marriage is even more of a fate. It's a shame to be able to meet on a blind date but not get together, but you have to remember that if someone closes one of your windows, it will inevitably open a door for you. When fate arrives, they naturally fall in love with each other.

You have to understand that the person who is married to you is the only one, so you don't have to care what passers-by think of you except him.

Blind date is a last resort, to be honest, especially when you go on a blind date when you are older, it's a bit helpless. This kind of blind date, whether it is the first time you meet or you have made several appointments, you feel like you are doing something for some kind of task, and it is very uncomfortable. Unless the other person is very good and makes you forget about things outside of you.

Therefore, especially for older people, I do not recommend frequent blind dates, marriage partners, or better development from friends. (If you're in Shanghai, I can introduce you to some friends, but not necessarily a blind date, hehe :)).

Remember, get on a blind date less, make more friends of the opposite sex, and develop gradually. Otherwise, you'll quickly lose your senses.

Sometimes you have to go with the flow, after all, people are very open now, and it's nothing for girls to get older! Have faith in yourself.

And don't wait for others to come to you, you meet people in reality who you think you can. We must also take the initiative to grasp it. There's nothing to be ashamed of in finding your own happiness!

Blind dates can continue, blind dates are also opportunities, even if you don't have the chance to become a husband and wife, you should make friends, and you can also see and understand.

You may be really pretty. But life is realistic. Most men's mentality is that they don't need to be too beautiful to find a wife!

It is even more important that the future wife should be virtuous.

There may also be a point that you are too arrogant so that many boys should not approach you, and women should have affinity.

To take this matter lightly, it is not a big deal. Just make one more friend. If the other party does not agree, it proves that he is not suitable for you and does not find your bright spots. Don't care too much about what others think.

You have such good conditions, you can adjust your mentality, of course you can go on a blind date You can talk to each other about your hobbies or something, pay attention not to be cold

Don't want it, stabilize your emotions first, and then regain your self-confidence after you recover!

1. No girl will waste time with someone she doesn't like. She obviously likes you, and so far, you've actually done a good job.

2. It is completely wrong for you to use your own psychology to analyze girls. Everyone likes people in different ways, and you may belong to the type that shows it as soon as you feel it in your heart, so you always feel that others like you, and it should be the same, which is not right.

3. In fact, the most effective way to understand a person's heart is to see how she does it. People's cautious behavior is often the true portrayal of the heart! A girl who came out on a date with you, in addition to liking you, what else is the reason? You should be a little more confident :)

4. This girl should be very good, relatively low-key, and respectful, you should cherish it. On the other hand, like you, who have only been together for two months, have actually confessed twice! Do you think this is a sign that you like her?

She'll think you're sloppy and unsteady! Very immature! Do you think you've seen girls like this?

5. If you want to get her, you must respect her liking, treat her in the way she likes, don't be in a hurry, take your time, and be patient! In fact, when you date her again and again, isn't it just a confession? A lot of words don't need to be so straightforward to discredit the confession, especially for wise girls, you have to prove your love with actions :)

Normal mentality, choose and choose, such as having a house, a car, a job, a high culture, etc.

Blind date is a traditional way of marriage and love, and it is also a way to find a partner in modern society. Whether it's at the request of your parents or your own wishes, blind dates are a way worth trying. However, after going on many blind dates, I came to some insights.

First of all, blind dates are not a panacea. The purpose of a blind date is to find a suitable other half, but not every blind date will be successful. Sometimes, even if the other person looks good, but doesn't feel it, there will be no more follow-up.

The outcome of a blind date is often uncertain and requires multiple attempts.

Secondly, blind dates require patience. Blind dates are not an easy thing to do and take a lot of time and effort. In the process of blind date, sometimes you will meet all kinds of people, some good and some bad.

We need to be patient to wait and find the most suitable person.

Blind dates require a certain amount of self-confidence. In the process of blind date, we need to show our charm and advantages, so that the other party has a good impression of us. If we lack self-confidence, it will be difficult for us to show our charm and make the other person feel good about us.

Finally, blind dates need to have a normal heart. The outcome of the blind date may not necessarily be what we want, and sometimes it can disappoint and frustrate us. However, we need to be cautious and have a normal heart, and not put too much pressure and burden on ourselves.

Blind date is just one way, we need to believe that one day we will find the most suitable person to accompany Naxiang.

In short, in the process of many blind dates, I learned patience, self-confidence and normalcy. Blind date is a way to find the other half, which requires us to try and find with our hearts. Believe in yourself, believe in fate, and one day, we will find the most suitable person.

1.It's important to be true to yourself: Many people may try to show the side they think the other person will like during a blind date, but this can lead to excessive pretense and pressure. Being authentic and showing who you are is is the foundation of an authentic, healthy relationship.

For example, during a blind date, Li Ming may pretend to be a perfect sports enthusiast, but he may not be a real sports enthusiast. This disguise may attract the other person in the short term, but in the long run, the authentic self can lead to the breakdown of the relationship.

Analysis: Staying true to yourself can help you present yourself better and make it easier for the other person to know what you really are. Authentic relationships are easier to build on mutual understanding and respect.

For example, during the blind date, Zhang Hua may feel that the other party's words are difficult to understand, or feel that the other party's topic is too personal. If he can express his thoughts and feelings better, or listen to the other person's point of view better, he may have an easier time building a healthy relationship.

Analysis: Good communication skills can help you understand the other person better, so as to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts. During the blind date process, effective communication can help you get to know each other better, which can lead to a healthier and more stable relationship.

For example: In the process of blind date, Wang Lei may feel frustrated because the other party's requirements are too high. If he can look at the problem in a positive light and try to find other solutions, it may be easier for him to build a healthy relationship.

Analysis: The right attitude can help you better deal with the difficulties and challenges that may arise during the blind date process. Facing problems with a positive attitude and finding solutions can help you better deal with the problems that may arise during the blind date process, so that it is easier to build a healthy relationship.