A weekly diary writes about what we have learned from things

Maybe life is like this, eat a trench and grow a wisdom. People only think about the past when they encounter setbacks. Setbacks are a stepping stone for those who are determined to be strong, and for others, they are a stumbling block.

But I hope that I can stand up in the midst of setbacks and turn them into a part of my life and the motivation for my own success. It's good to cherish what you have, but in the end, there are a few people who can do it. People think that fresh is the most delicious, but this is not always the case, and the longer you make a good wine, the better it tastes.

It is only when people lose the things around them one by one that they wake up and feel uncomfortable, and only then do they suddenly realize and feel their importance. So with "what is lost is the most important" Maybe we are still young now, and we don't need to pay attention to these, but I think that we should cherish the happiness we have at all times, don't be in the blessing and don't let the people who have been giving without getting a trace of return. Because of the loss, there is regret, but regret is useless, it just makes him feel a little guilty in his heart.

There may be some people who know how to recover before they lose, but there are a few who do so. It is only when people regret it that they will come to this realization and know their mistakes, but often it is too late by then, because the time that has passed cannot be turned back, what has been lost is irretrievable, and there is no regret medicine in the world. Some people say:

It doesn't matter if you make mistakes, the most important thing is to know that you can change them. This is true, but there is still a chance to destroy it when it is a small thing, but if something big happens, it will be too late to regret it, and it is not a problem at all that you can change your mistakes, and even if you change them, you can't get them back, but you won't do it again until the second time, it's a big thing, and when people encounter a small thing, they will feel that it doesn't matter, so there is "one offense and another offense." And some people don't know what they did wrong until the last moment of their lives, and there is no greater sorrow in life than this.

Perhaps, it is only after experiencing it that people understand the importance of certain things, know their own mistakes, and understand more truths. However, it is better not to focus on everything around us after we have lost it, because we will regret it. "Ginger is still old and spicy" may be, because the more people experience, the more they understand, the more their hearts will become, and the easier it will be to do things.

I learned to wash dishes.

On Sunday, it was Mom's turn to work overtime, Mom went to work early, and Dad talked about business. It's boring that I'm the only one eating.

By the way, my mother is always busy washing dishes, but this time it was my turn. I first took the bowl to the dishwasher, and then fetched water, I began to wash the dishes, but how I wiped hard, it was not clean, I remembered that my mother used to use dish soap, so I quickly squeezed a lot of dish soap, but, my hand slipped, the bowl fell to pieces, always, my mind flashed the idea of giving up, but I thought of my father telling me to do anything, to persevere, so I carefully recalled the whole process of my mother's washing dishes, oh, it turns out, you can't use too much dish soap to wash dishes, Otherwise, it would be slippery, so I tried to wash off the greasy around the bowl vigorously, wiped it again and again, and then washed it with water. Looking at the bright bowl, my heart is happy.

Lingling", my mother came back, saw the dishes I washed, and said happily: "You have grown up and learned to wash dishes." ”

Learning to wash dishes for the first time made me understand that you need to be careful and persistent in everything you do to succeed.