I found that my classmates were lukewarm to me, and sometimes they said what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-11
61 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, you don't need to care too much about other people's attitudes.

    It's like other people don't care too much about your attitude.

    As long as there is no mistake in principle.

    Don't worry too much about it.

    When you grow up, you will find that the friendship of classmates does not have much meaning.

    Unless it's a classmate who has really fought side by side.

    will leave a deeper friendship.

    If it's just an ordinary classmate, you won't be able to remember his name after a few years.

    If you think about your elementary school classmates now, will you still remember their names?

    Don't pay too much attention to these people, just do your own thing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If it weren't for the fact that you're too sensitive. That's definitely something you do that makes everybody feel uncomfortable. That's why they reject you a little bit and talk about you behind your back.

    If someone tactfully tells you what you are lacking in, don't be in a hurry to refute it first, think about whether it is the reason? Because generally others can't help but accuse first, or put forward opinions first, if you don't accept it, others will become talking about you behind your back.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    A large part of what a person knows and understands himself, is through feedback from others! Now your classmates are lukewarm to you, and sometimes they talk about you, you must first find out whether their behavior is a kind of frequent teasing of you, or unintentional, if it is not intentional, don't take it to heart! If the student's behavior is intentional, then analyze the reasons for such behavior, and correct your own reasons!

    If it's not your own reason, don't bother with it!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Is there something wrong with you, or your attitude towards others is not very friendly, you first find your own reasons, get rid of bad habits, and get along with your classmates.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then you should be yourself, be enthusiastic about your classmates, and help your classmates often, and in the long run, your classmates will think that you are a good person, and everyone will change their impression of you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's normal, the classmates in your class are not your family, if you want them to be good to you, you must first be good to them, so that you can exchange for the good of others.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Study hard. Leave him alone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Isn't it that you think too much, when you are in class, just study hard, they are lukewarm, you just ignore them, why do you think so much, studying well is better than anything else.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The mouth grows on others, don't mind too much what others say about yourself, do your best!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, your attitude determines the attitude of your classmates towards you, and if you have any attitude towards your classmates, of course they treat you the same way.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Seriously, you may feel wrong, don't ask, it's embarrassing to ask.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How can we help.

    I don't know her.

    You can ask her directly.

    Ask her if you're doing something wrong.

    Or something that doesn't work with you.

    It may also be through her classmates and friends around her.

    Know her before you want to do anything to her.

    Find out what's going on in her heart.

    Her hobbies, hobbies and stuff.

    to get close to her.

    There will be a common language.

    Good luck.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What to do, just like that, otherwise what else can you do. No, I want to ask you, what do you want to do?

    Why make the relationship so complicated, isn't it good to be simple? At least he won't hate you when he sees you, be yourself, maybe it won't be too annoying, don't be too inferior, wouldn't it be better to be natural? Maybe she prefers you like this, well, I can't say anything, only come on!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The girl says the same thing, but what she thinks in her heart is not the same!!

    You don't have to be like that!! Re-establish a new image to show her!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Quarrel with him, love for a long time, and feelings come by accident.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Such a friend who does not consider the other party's position.

    It's not worth befriending, if she's sincere, then you're a friend, she thinks it's not like this!

    I think I have a request for you to be enthusiastic about you!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You're going to be miserable with you like this, so don't be with him at all.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ignore her expression directly, just talk about the matter, others will see it, and they will say that you are more generous and tolerant

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He's like that, so don't be too proactive.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Since he ignores you, you ignore him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    To have no feelings for you is to ignore you completely. If you are lukewarm, maybe I am also secretly in love with you, hehe, you can only call it like now, not love. It's okay for elementary school students to get fat, don't be too fat.

    You have to gradually take the initiative to get close to him, comfort him in the form of a big sister, and encourage him to appear, such as chatting with him often. He'll like you too. What grade are you in, how tall and weighed, I'll see if you're fat.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's still early for you to go to college, this is not in a hurry, and you can't delay studying while cultivating hobbies, and you can only help you reduce some points when you are a specialty student or something in the future, but the total score is good, and the school still has high requirements.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Are you sure it's love? Primary school student? This is too precocious, so let's concentrate on reading.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you chase him, he will be good to you, and the woman will chase the man in the sand.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's okay, sometimes, the more a boy hates you, the more he cares about you. Moreover, now that you are a primary school student, learning is the most important thing, but a friendly reminder that you should find a way to get close to him, and it is best to be able to sit next to him. Also, be careful of the girls who often appear around him, they may hook him away... Anyway, that's how the first boy I liked left... For different boys, you have to deal with it in different ways, some need to be lukewarm to him, and some need to take the initiative to chase, depending on which type of boy you like But it's a problem for girls to gain a little weight, at the very beginning, boys generally like some good-looking, personality and people who can talk to him, this kind of girl, if you don't associate with him, you will be friends, but if he will like you, I think no matter what you look like, he will like you, if you can't talk, it's best to give up.

    After all, you are still young, maybe, the final destination is not him, you better learn to be friends first...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Child, you are still young, don't worry, put more attention on studying, the country needs you!!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Be cold to him for a while! Don't talk to him so enthusiastically when he's away from you.

    Either you don't wait for it to get hot, as if you two have nothing to do with each other, and get him interested in you

    And you say you're a little fat, then you're going to **! A girl's face is very important

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It is recommended to take a look at the Variety Sakura Magic Card. Or, something from heaven.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't fall in love, friends can be still elementary school students.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Have you ever thought about whether you and your classmates are unsociable or something, or you take a look at yourself to see if you have some other bad habits, or that sentence If you want to be respected by others, you must first learn to respect others, if you do it, they still don't respect you, that is, their character is not good, people with bad character, there is no need to be influenced by him, and there is another point, you must be optimistic, because life is originally a lot of good, hehe, I hope to adopt.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you want others to respect you, you have to respect them first.

    If that doesn't work, then you don't need to earn the respect of some of your classmates!

    Because "no one is perfect", you can't make everyone agree with you. No one in this world is perfect.

    Just be yourself, and that's enough!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The friendship between classmates is established through mutual respect and common progress. Of course, there is also a gender relationship, and the communication and interaction between men and women are relatively open during this period, and at the same time, they do not agree in the eyes of some people, which does not mean that they do not respect you, which will test how to deal with interpersonal relationships in student life. The choice of closeness versus distancing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you think about who will be respected, it's not hard to find out around you, right? What characteristics do they have, rich knowledge, but also rare character, economic strength, or a powerful master who can solve various problems, in the student days are relatively simple, it is estimated that it is personality charm and knowledge of water, in short, if you want others to respect you, you must have strength. Where does the strength come from?!

    It's up to you to do it yourself.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let them respect you. For example, do something that impresses them, such as taking the initiative to help others (within your ability), giving them ideas when they are in trouble, or something. By the way, first of all, you have to know why others don't respect you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The first thing to do is to see if you don't have anything bad to them. If it's really their problem, try to communicate with them, maybe it's good to understand, treat people with a sincere heart will always reap unexpected surprises, be tolerant, forgive them.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You can't also show disgust, disrespect, and so on to those people, so that the contradiction will only expand. As always, learn to make friends with people you hate and exercise your endurance.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Be polite to these people and say hello when you meet them. Usually don't interact with them, just help each other with something, and there are more things in the school that we need to worry about, so don't worry about these little things.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The best way to do this is not to swallow your anger.

    Of course, you have to be respectful, don't you?

    You have to express your feelings to your classmates and ask them to understand your feelings so that you can be respected by them.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Maybe your classmates are joking with you, and then you're not on the same scale, if you don't like to joke, tell them, study hard, get good grades, and people will respect you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You respect them, they respect you, if on the contrary, you respect them, they don't respect you, such people don't pay

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's good not to care, after all, no matter how good a person is, he can't get everyone to agree.

    Go your own way and let others say go! go your own way; let others talk.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    First of all, introspect, whether you have done something wrong that makes others disgusted, if there is one, change it, and if not, you will be reluctant. There are also those who will respect themselves and those who will be followed by others. Sometimes it's important to be open-minded.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I don't think they disrespect you, but they just talk like that, just get used to it, the world is big and there are people of all kinds of personalities.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you want others to respect you, you can respect others, which is one way. But what's even better is that the stronger you become, the more you will naturally respect.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    On the one hand, you must strive to be strong and excellent to win respect, and on the other hand, you must be friendly and respect others.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Huh, friend? If that's the case, he's not your friend, and a real friend won't treat you like that!

    Then you don't want to be friends with him

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    That's a sign of lack of self-confidence, you do what you do, you don't care what other people think, you can't make yourself inferior because you feel like other people have an opinion about you.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It is impossible for anyone to be respected by everyone, just be yourself, as for others, we cannot control them.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    How should the world slander me, deceive me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me, and despise me? Endure him, avoid him, let him, endure him, ignore him, and in a few years, you will see him.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    You can tell your classmates tactfully that you should respect each other, and the most important thing is that you must be confident that you are strong so that you will not be underestimated by others.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    If it's a lover, then it's not normal for you to do this.

    It is generally understood that he is not interested in you, and to put it bluntly, he does not love.

    Don't think he's too busy to be free, a good man will never snub you.

    If you're free, then find your friends, have fun.

    The end of a woman always being good to a man is tragic, there are too many examples, I believe you know.

    If it's ambiguous, it's not an official boyfriend or girlfriend, then you have to find a way to change the situation.

    It is possible to communicate, enhance feelings and so on.

    I hope you can get your own happiness.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It's much better to ask him, to ask him clearly, than to want it alone.

    Boys are generally careless, and they may not know what's going on when you're suffering here.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    As long as you still love him, go and make it clear to him, love can't be hidden, you have to make it clear, otherwise it will delay the two of you.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Then you have to ask him directly, what is the reason, don't let yourself be in the pain.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Let's be clear, that's how you will be happy. You're feeling miserable right now, aren't you?

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    If you talk about it, the result may be disappointing, but the long pain is better than the short one.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Lovers? Then let him make it clear.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    If"I can't bear it"The reason is loneliness, then divide it.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Do your best to influence each other with your passion! Believe in yourself I've done it

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    If you really like him, just treat her a little more, which is called a little hotter, and if you don't like it, then just say it.

    Now the average girl, if you are lukewarm to her, she will think that you don't love her anymore, and what happened to me was that in the end, she broke up with me.

    Actually, I still like her very much.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    Some girls are the more you chase her, the more she will have a high profile. And judging by your narrative, she doesn't care about you and doesn't care a lot. Anything, especially this kind of emotional matter between men and women, I think it takes the enthusiasm of both sides, relying on your enthusiasm alone, you will be very tired and hard.

    Even if you really chase it later.

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