Society is really good and realistic, can you help me think of a way 10

I joined the army, and my girlfriend was still waiting for me.

Actually, how to say it, sometimes it's a matter of facing the reality that she didn't go to college, that is, she hasn't been out of society yet, and you can still be a soldier, which means that you are not very old, and what you know about the social reality is far from this, and it is not wise for her to give up college for you, because you are still young, and I think your problem now is not a question of whether to be a soldier or not, your problem is to think about the future, and there is a reason why their family is against it, and a happy life is built on a material basis, when your girlfriend, which is what you call your wife, grows up She can understand what kind of life she needs When everything is not what she expected to feel before, she will give up And you have obviously become a burden to her Brother think more about yourself Both of them have to be mature Since they have come to this point, they will face it together They are still young and can go out to work together and gamble But if you go to the army, you can be sure that you will break up The girl needs someone who can be by her side Not a ** after she gets sick I hope you can be happy.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring, very hard because the society is very unfair, life is very helpless, sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because, life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it is wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. As long as you remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait, you must be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.

Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone while walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, Or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day". 2.If you think that you will be in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed when you wake up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.

Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position where you feel comfortable standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, do it at an even and slow speed, the movement does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.

Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look at the subtleties of it. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.

Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.

Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all happy to live, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. .