Can you allow your lover to cheat on you again and again?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    can't be allowed, first of all, he cheats again and again, which shows that he is not sincere enough in this relationship, and it shows that he does not love you enough. If you really love, how can you bear to be deceived again and again.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course, it is not allowed to deceive like this, if you still care about each other very much, think that you will continue to be together, if you don't care about each other, if he doesn't care about you, there is no need to waste time, if it's just that she cares, you don't care about him At this time, you can still continue to think about it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That will definitely not allow your lover to deceive you again and again, if your lover deceives you again and again, it means that he does not love you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I won't allow her to cheat on me again and again, so that I will become more and more insecure, and I will no longer be a new person to her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Can you allow your lover to cheat on you again and again? No, if that's the case, it means that this is no longer love, it's just a big deception.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Personally, I don't allow me to let a deceive again and again, and I may also be compared by the teacher, and I feel uncomfortable.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think I can allow it, because not only can I not allow it, but maybe everyone can't allow their lover to cheat on themselves again and again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's definitely not allowed, two people are together, honesty is the foundation, and living is a lie again and again. It's better to forget it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No. Even if you love him again, you will feel scared after a long time of deception, and you will no longer believe what he says, and after a long time, you will still talk about love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can't allow my lover to cheat on myself again and again. Because feelings cannot be deceived, there must be mutual trust and honesty.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To love someone is to hope that he will be honest, not to lie again and again, and such a person is not allowed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, I can't bear it, because the most feared thing for emotions is deception, because deception will make two people lose trust, and emotions without trust are very exhausting and painful.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Deception is not allowed, because deception is to make oneself hurt, to feel insecure, to feel that the person is unreliable.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If my lover cheats on me again and again, I can't tolerate it, because as a husband and wife, you should be sincere.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course it's not allowed, it's okay to be willing once, and it becomes a habit to forgive two or three times.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then surely the lover is not allowed to deceive himself again and again. Because people are mutual.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Who can accept the lover's own lover's deception of himself again and again, I think, it shouldn't be acceptable, deception itself should not exist, in two people you still deceive again and again, this must be the best to hurt feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that if my lover treats me like this again and again, I will definitely not allow it, if he will treat me like this, it must be because the two parties have not communicated well, I will definitely find him clearly, and I must be very sincere to me.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the person you love kills Huang once, it turns out that he can do it, but he deceives again and again, it is not worth your forgiveness, he is not worthy of your love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Can you allow your lover to cheat on you again and again? I can't accept it, if he lies to me once, I will forgive him, he will definitely have a hard time, if he often lies to me, then he just doesn't care about me, he doesn't treat me as his lover at all, I won't forgive him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is not allowed by a normal person, because feelings are the most important thing to trust.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I will never allow this anyway, and I have deceived him again and again, and I don't take you seriously at all.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, I can't allow it, I think we should be honest with each other, that's how it behaves as a couple.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Can you allow your lover to cheat on you again and again, never tolerate it, whether it's in personality or finances, never deceive me again and again, I can't shake him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I don't think I can stand this, because it's very uncomfortable.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Learn to let go of some Only by learning to give up will you get and have A word to send all at the end A person is always looking up to and envy the happiness of others, and when he turns around, he finds that he is being looked up to and envied by others. All of us are happy ......

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Two people must trust each other and give to each other, only such a relationship can go on for a long time, otherwise it will be a matter of time before something goes wrong.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Husbands and wives have to be honest with each other, and I can't accept cheating.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think you should try to talk calmly, repeated deception is not a good omen, no matter how big or small the matter is, as long as it is "deception", you will lose trust in him (her), so what do you think is the most important thing in a family? It's trust. Have a good conversation and let him or her change for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Let's see what kind of deception Is it the deception of a woman outside Or the deception of life If it is a small deception, I will forget After all, it is not easy for two people to be together].

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Deception is divided into unintentional and intentional! 1. Some are for someone to deceive you! 2. Some people deceive for some kind of benefit (this situation is more common, some can be good to you at first, but you can suddenly make a big turn after your defense is low!)

    So look at people and don't just look at the surface)! 3. Some people deceive you for your own good (this is the so-called white lie, maybe the other party can't bear to deceive you for your good position!) But maybe you will be distressed and blame him or her, but you should be wise!

    It's not easy for people! If you don't care, you won't bother to hide the things that might upset you)! 4. Some are deceived by love and hate!

    If it is not deceived again and again, the nature is too bad, and you absolutely cannot accept it, you can generally trust it again, but in the future, you should pay more attention and don't trust others too easily! After being deceived and finding out, do you want to ask for clarification? I think many people want to know about this!

    But have you ever thought about it? Where do you start? Do you dare to guarantee that you know that you are not lowering but making you sad?

    But if you insist on getting to know it to the end, then you can find out through relevant people or letters, and I think it's better to avoid asking directly in person! It's better to just laugh it off and stop caring about it! When will the deception stop?

    I guess that's impossible! Who would dare to say that they have not lied to anyone? Who dares to say that it will not lie in the future?

    Deception is sometimes just a product of helplessness! How can you forget to be deceived by someone you care about? First of all, you must know why he or she deceived you!

    If it's the kind of deception you don't want! If it is irretrievable, then please laugh it off, maybe you are not willing to do so, maybe it is not a matter of a moment, but then what is it, don't be too persistent, don't think too much, let go a little! Treat it with a mindset that doesn't matter!

    For your sorrows, your sorrows, your afflictions, your troubles are not exchanged. It is not easy for people to live in the world, why are they still persistently and distressed to recall those gains and losses! After that, I don't see the gains and losses anymore!

    Promise is also sometimes the embodiment of deception! Sometimes you don't be too naïve, too ignorant, too impulsive, and don't hurt yourself too much because of a false promise! Try to get to know some of the people you care about and care about you!

    Deception does not distinguish between familiar and unfamiliar! If it's you yourself who deceive someone else! Then I think we should all be brave enough to face our mistakes!

    A lot of deception is our impulse and quick talk, and we dare not admit it, so now the misunderstanding is getting heavier and heavier! But you can't avoid it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Friend, there will always be a problem between two people who are in harmony with that.

    I have a few points about the deception between lovers:

    1. No deception. Say it before you do it, or do it and explain it. If you say it, you may have different opinions and have to do it, and sometimes you may not listen to the explanation.

    2. Deception after doing "wrong things". Whether it is a well-intentioned deception, or a concealment of things, or a mistake after doing it, from his active and passive deception, we can at least feel his scruples and reluctance to this Huhu relationship, and even cherish it.

    3. No deception. It is a matter of course to do what should not be done, not afraid of who knows, everyone owes him, he has no need to lie to anyone, you can leave if you love to go, and you will stay.

    4. Stratagem and deception. Needless to say. If you really meet such a person, you will find out when it is too late. But there are few such people.

    That's all, I hope it will help you to make a correct judgment and decision!!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This is indeed a very sad thing.

    However, the solution to this problem is very simple, the key depends on your own self-control, if he is well-intentioned, or he has a reason, it must be a last resort, you had better forgive him, otherwise you are not unreasonable, which shows that he still loves you.

    If he doesn't love you anymore, and deliberately says that he loves you, and at the same time has a relationship with someone else, I think this is really hateful, but it's what you love deeply, and it's just because of the person, if you are really very sad, and you have forgiven him more than once, I advise you to forget about this relationship, if it is the first time, I will generally forgive him once, this is because of people.

    Deceiving people is not as good as ants, my mother warned us when we were young, but when we were older, we found that it is not good to deceive people, and it is necessary to deceive people with good intentions, in fact, it is not to deceive, but to hide some of our own things.

    If that's the case, it's best not to be mad at him.

    If he is sure that he is really deliberately cheating on me, I will be very relieved and completely end this relationship, no matter how much I love her, the long pain is better than the short pain.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. It is the regret that we can't have that makes us more nostalgic; It is the sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night that make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.

    Maybe a little regret, a little sense of sadness and slipperyness, will make this answer more timeless and longer.

    Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, and you will reap the rain; I met you just after missing him. Keep walking, and you'll end up reaping your beauty.

    Whoever says that if you like someone, you must be with him. Silently bless him, hope that he is happy. But not everyone will be happy.

    Like one, the most important thing is to make him happy, because his joys, sorrows, and sorrows will affect your heart. So there is also such a saying, "You are happy, so I am happy with the dry shirt." ”

    If you like something, you must learn to appreciate it, cherish it, and make it more precious.

    If you like someone, you have to make him happy, make him happy, and make that feeling more sincere. If you can't, then you might as well let it go! So sometimes, you have to learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    When grinding finches and you are in the shower of love, it is indeed difficult to make a choice. Because you love him so much. I can't bear him.

    If he still loves you. Everything else can be solved. Why did he deceive you?

    You have to reflect on yourself. Let's see who is the problem. If it's if he's no longer good to you.

    Then let's start saving the shadows. If he's not a good person, he's not worthy of your love.

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