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Some people who lack love will look for someone older than herself, because she believes that her uncle will take care of people more and love people. But not every older man is necessarily better at taking care of people, just if he can take care of himself, it's already very good, on the contrary, some young people with high emotional intelligence are better at getting along with girls and taking care of people. Why is the uncle with excellent conditions still unmarried at that age?
Or high-minded? Either you have a problem with your personality or you have a problem with your character? Or what emotional hurt has you suffered?
The latter is very rare, most of them are the previous points, which means that the really good person will also ask the other half to be excellent, the uncle with a good career is impossible to take care of you every day, the bad character may need your tolerance more, and the uncle with a bad character can not be touched, and the girl with this kind of heart is more suitable for the big boy in the college years, because they are more simple. Uncle will indeed be more mature, this maturity is because the experience of life does not depend on how old he will take care of you, so I advise girls with such thoughts not to blindly pursue and find an uncle. Because it can be really hard for you to get married.
Marriage requires two people to manage and pay, that is to say, it is necessary to take care of each other, first of all, if you want to take care of others, you have to have the ability to take care of yourself, don't expect anyone, so that you will suffer in love or marriage.
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Hello, it is better to change it to "some women", which is closer to reality. As for why some women like the uncle type, my understanding is that the age of psychological maturity of young people nowadays has been delayed, and the behavior and thinking logic are lower than the level that the age group should have, which is very naïve and restless, but lively and sunny. After the uncle has precipitated his experience, he seems calmer, exuding the charm of a mature man, the opposite of the attraction of young people.
I once asked women this kind of question, the woman is 24 years old, she is very direct, she is looking for a mature and stable man, the mode of getting along is that the man takes care of her, can take on the responsibility of the family. I don't want to find a stupid child with a naïve mind, who can't afford family responsibilities, and who loves to talk about it every day.
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It's more secure, like a dad. will love her, protect her, and spoil her like a daughter.
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It's not that I like uncles, in fact, I think I like money.
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Have a sense of security, self-motivated, strong sense of responsibility, and work steadily.
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It may be a lack of security, I like to find the feeling of being old, and I am very down-to-earth, so that I can rest assured that I will invest in it.
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Heart-pounding feeling! Love at first sight! It has nothing to do with the uncle.
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Nowadays, girls prefer the uncle type, and the main reasons are as follows.
1. Uncle has the ability to support his feelings.
Generally speaking, the men who can be called "uncles" are always financially well-off, and compared to those young boys, wealth has been accumulated. Then they are fully capable of expressing their emotions and proving their emotions in some tangible form. Even if the girl is not directly greedy for his money, when they are together, they will not encounter embarrassment in financial problems.
2. Experience has fulfilled the charm of "uncle".
When people reach a certain age, or when they reach middle age, their mood will always change to a certain extent, and they begin to care about all the little things in life, only birth, old age, sickness and death can affect their calmness. There seems to be nothing to be angry about, and there seems to be nothing to worry about. So in the process of getting along with the girl, the "uncle" can always tolerate her various shortcomings well, and will not think about changing their shortcomings, as long as you have the things I covet, and the things that make me covet are still there, just do it.
3. Experienced "uncles" understand women better.
After all, in the life of the "uncle", there is definitely more than one woman, so compared with young boys, they must know better how to get along with women. Know when, what is in a woman's heart, and know when, what a woman needs. When it is time to remain silent, it will never be inquisitive, and when it is time to send comfort, it will never be ignored.
Of course, the experience also includes the care and concern in life, giving women the warmth they want.
In fact, no matter how good the "uncle" is, he will regret it in the future, because choosing the uncle is equivalent to directly bypassing the young section and missing the enthusiasm, youthfulness and unrestrainedness of young boys. So each has its own advantages and disadvantages, each has its own advantages, advantages and disadvantages, so as long as you are happy.
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Because the uncle is calm and reliable.
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Those who like uncles are people who have experienced failed relationships, she knows that they will hurt people more, and they also have a solid family background for girls to spend.
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Uncle is rich, powerful, and powerful.
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Dorkin. Generally speaking, this is the common denominator of the uncle type. Uncle has worked hard in the society for many years, has a certain accumulation, and will have a lot of help in the future life economically, many conditions are ready-made, girls can sit back and enjoy their success, less struggle for a few years, which is also a reason why girls love to choose uncles.