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Seeing that the friends around me are getting married one by one, I am very happy in my heart, and I will sincerely bless them, and at the same time, I will be silently a little sad, I don't know where my happiness is, when will I find my other half and have my own family.
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First of all, you will feel your money flowing out, and you don't know when you will get it back. Because I graduated shortly ago, I was poor. Then, the people around me are posting wedding photos and babies in the circle of friends, while I am still posting food.
On the weekend, she wanted to go to the movies with her friends, and she told me that she was going to go to the supermarket with her boyfriend to buy groceries. So, I went to the movies alone. Slowly, I got used to going to the movies alone, going to eat hot pot, going to the library, going to the café, and sitting all afternoon.
After a long time, everything comes by itself, everything happens on your own, and if you are single for a long time, you will become the person you want to find.
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I feel that my friends around me have found their own home, and then if I don't find it, I will feel very lonely, and I will feel a little inexplicably lost. When you see that your friends have their own families, you will also want to have them.
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There is a feeling of heartbreak, and I will be more or less anxious in my heart, after all, I am here by age, and the people around me are married, which will give me a psychological feeling that I am only single.
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I feel very envious to see my classmates getting married one by one. But this should be the person who gets married, if the person who doesn't want to get married, no matter how many people get married, he doesn't want to get married, and he won't envy them, just silently bless them.
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Men should get married, and women should get married. If you see that your friends are all married one by one, you don't even have a girlfriend. I felt very anxious and worried.
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I think it's a very good feeling to see my friends get married one by one, because there is a saying that marriage is like a grave, so I feel good to be single.
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In my opinion, I think that when I see my friends around me getting married one by one, I feel that I have an inferiority complex in my own heart, because I am old and not married.
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I think it's normal, but I don't want to fall in love and get married yet, because I'm not ready yet.
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I'm a little anxious, after all, they're all the same age, and when I see that people are married, children can play soy sauce, I don't have a boyfriend yet, and I feel uncomfortable and want to cry, but I can't help it, fate is destined.
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I think this is normal, everyone's life is different, the choice is also different, some people choose to start a family early, some people want to work hard, this is understandable, everyone's path is different.
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Seeing that everyone else has handed in the papers, you haven't answered the questions yet. Occasionally, I feel like I'm a child, how to get married, let alone have a child or something, and it feels very unrealistic and scary to think about.
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After all, most people have a herd mentality, if their peers around them are married, they will largely prompt themselves to choose to get married, but for me, I will not start a relationship blindly and hastily because the people around me are married, choose a marriage partner, and get married hastily, after all, feelings and marriage are not child's play, and we need to treat them sincerely.
Although as the saying goes, men should get married, women should get married, when their peers around them are married, their parents will also have a sense of urgency, and they will often urge themselves to go on a blind date as soon as possible, find a suitable marriage partner, and complete their own life events, but I think that before choosing to get married, you must find a partner you really like, have a comprehensive understanding of each other, and be truly suitable for each other, because only in this way, Only when two people are together can they truly feel happiness and joy, and their marriage can be truly long-lasting.
If just because the people around you are married, you blindly find a blind date, and the two people get married soon, then it is very likely that because of the lack of sufficient understanding between each other, there will be a lot of estrangement and contradictions between the two people in the future marriage, and even lead to the breakdown of the marriage between each other. And everyone's reality is different, you can't choose to get married blindly and impulsively because the people around you are married, and you must combine your own reality and follow your inner feelings in everything you do.
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1. Everyone around you suddenly gets married, you will get married because I am married, I will not get married because of marriage, such a marriage will not have a happy feeling, and it will make you very unhappy, which is unfair to both people.
2. For me, marriage is a very sacred thing, and you can't marry for the sake of getting married, which would seem meaningless. It is a happy thing for two people to get married when they like each other, so that two people will have a common topic, understand each other, and thus feel the actual value of marriage. The people around them suddenly got married, this is their choice, they can't go with the flow, otherwise they will put themselves in the abyss of misfortune, and they will make themselves depressed.
3. Marriage for marriage, which leads to two people not being happy, and will delay each other's time, such a marriage makes no hope. Marriage will only be happy if it is based on the same heart, and such two people will trust and respect each other, otherwise it will only be a kind of companionship in the marriage process, and such a marriage makes people feel very numb. If you don't live with someone you like, every day is torture, and it can also make people feel that life is an unfortunate beginning, and such a marriage hurts two people, or even two families.
Fourth, although marriage is a very beautiful thing, but with the person you like will be happy, to get married for the sake of marriage, such a marriage exists in name only, will only make people not see the real appearance. Marriage should be responsible for each other, not as simple as child's play, only two people are built on love, so as to get a better ending, not two people choose to be together in order to get married. If you get married for the sake of getting married, you will lose each other's happiness and your longing for love, so you won't let people see happiness.
Marriage is when two people come together because of love, not for the sake of marriage, which can lead to a tragedy. In my opinion, you can't get married for the sake of getting married, otherwise it will make the marriage meaningless, and it will also make two people live in an unhappy atmosphere, and in the end they will not get the happiness they want.
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Definitely not. Marriage is sacred and desirable. It is impossible to choose to get married because the people around you are married.
Because everyone has their own ideas, everyone also lives for themselves, and you don't want others to be like you, it's not good to blindly follow the trend, not to mention the problems that involve your own happiness in the future and the two families.
I think that since you are going to get married, you must consider whether the other party is what you like, whether the other party is compatible with your personality, whether the three views can also be compatible, and whether the other party also loves you based on your own experience with the other person. The word marriage is not so light, because there are too many things to consider after marriage, such as if you don't have enough money to buy a house and a car, and what to do if you don't have time to take it after having a child, etc.
But if you are still single, don't be embarrassed to think that you are still single because everyone around you is married, so you fall in love for the sake of falling in love. This is the worst thing, because it delays others as well as yourself. Since you are still single, you must find a suitable person you like to be your future marriage partner.
All in all, people live for themselves, and what others do has nothing to do with them, just be yourself, live happily, and don't have to affect your happiness because of others, and it's too late to regret it.
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Seeing more and more people around you getting married, will you want to get married?
Many people have graduated from college for two years, and their classmates have begun to slowly take turns to enter the marriage hall. Many people will be distressed at this time, and they will have to pay a lot of money, and many people will begin to worry about their partners, because their parents will start urging, and relatives will start to introduce you to the object.
At this age, you may have a slight improvement in your work, and you may also start to feel that you can talk to someone and get ready to get married.
I'm no exception, in the past six months, there are about 20 friends who got married, and some of them have had a particularly good time. I also began to itch when I saw the happiness and joy of their marriage, but I began to retreat when I saw the difficulty of the wedding process.
I often discuss marriage with my roommates, but every time I say, "Oh, there is no partner, what to talk about getting married, let's find a partner first".
That's right. When the people around you get married, it will affect your thoughts, at least you will feel that you have indeed reached a marriageable age, and you will feel that it is time to find a partner.
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Think about yourself.
If you're still single, should you think about whether your criteria for choosing a mate are too harsh, or if there is a certain characteristic in your friendship that doesn't allow the opposite sex to get close? Should you take a good look at yourself and start pursuing your own happiness? If you already have a significant other, you should think about whether you are really ready to get married, whether you want to get married until someone else gets married, or if your relationship has reached the point of getting married before you want to get married.
2 6 Think from the other person.
Why is your other half unwilling to propose to you, you have gone to other people's weddings countless times, why your other half has always been willing to be a well-wisher, but is not willing to let himself be a blessed person, and he is not an unmarried, so why has he not made a lifelong promise to you.
3 6 Effective communication between the two sides.
Maybe you have been in love, no matter how many years you have, whether you know each other's truest thoughts in your hearts, whether you should communicate with each other on the topic of marriage, and fully understand each other's thoughts and concerns. Maybe a lot of things aren't what you take for granted.
4 6 Consider the current situation.
After sufficient communication between the two parties, whether you have understood the current situation, if the other party is just unwilling to get married, should you reconsider your relationship? If it is because of other objective factors, such as the economic situation, the stability of the job is not strong enough to maintain your future life, or there are really many run-in areas in the relationship. These factors cannot be changed in a short period of time, so be patient and wait for the moment that belongs to you.
5 6 Maintain a good attitude.
Everyone's love may eventually end up in marriage, maybe because of various subjective or objective factors that make you really unable to enter the big step of marriage now, then you can only put your own mentality, believe in yourself, believe in each other, believe in your love, everything is only a matter of time.
6 6 Work harder to operate.
Let go of all kinds of dissatisfaction and worries, or you should calm down and experience the love between you, marriage is not child's play, for the days to come, now you need to care for it, to protect, to manage your love, one day, you will wear a beautiful wedding dress, under the blessing of everyone, marry her you love.
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Envy and jealousy, but there is no hatred anymore! Because if you think about it carefully, you still haven't worked hard to put it in place, and fate hasn't knocked on the door! Again, let it all be fate!
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The good friends around me are all married, and it is inevitable that there will be pressure in my heart, Maybe it's really what age to do something, But for a while, I can find someone who suits me, this kind of fate can't be forced, if you have to be in a hurry, that is, you will lower your standards, so it will be easy to regret it in the future. I think that both men and women should start their careers first, and if you don't have a marriage partner, it means that your other half has not yet appeared, and if you get married so early, you will get into family disputes, and if you are not ready to get married, don't end your free life so early, let them get married.
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We have limited abilities and may not have the conditions to let a girl marry us!
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There is no feeling, others live someone else's life, I am me, I am like this.
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It's so soon, don't you really need to check it again?
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I want to get married too, I can't t-t
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I don't think it's anything, mainly because the broken mouths of the seven aunts and eight aunts are unbearable, and my parents will also give a lot of pressure, I only got married at the age of thirty, and I heard too much gossip before, and I feel like some kind of sinner through the ages if I don't get married, and it's not easy to find a bridesmaid when I get married, because my relatives and friends are married.
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If you think like this, it means that you are still a man who understands feelings; Some men are really unaccustomed to it, occupying a little capital and capital, and come one after another, destroying the image of our men, so that we can find a girlfriend or wife who is suitable for us, and women who have been injured always don't believe that we have such thoughts, so it is not easy to find a woman who suits them. It seems that your girlfriend is lucky, but I don't know if she knows how to cherish it, if everyone understands and is in their hearts, I believe you will live happily.
Treat it normally, all people are passers-by in life, no one can accompany you for a complete life, if the purpose of people getting together is not benefit, that is love, the interest relationship everyone takes what they need, and the benefit is exhausted, if it is love, then enjoy the process of getting along at the moment, and in the future it is fate to divide or match, and there is no need to force it.
Don't be too ruthless, it's better to dump him in an old-fashioned way, watch too many TV series, and use that method of ignoring the sincerity of others, it seems that you will be maliciously retaliated. In case, you still say directly, I have found a guy who suits me, and emotional things can't be forced, you are very good and bold, but please don't bother me, you will find a better girl than me. It's old-fashioned, but it won't embarrass him too much, and everyone is pursuing you, so how can you still have a crush. >>>More
I feel very happy to be with such a girlfriend, and I can feel a sense of inner satisfaction.