What if your classmates know that you have a boyfriend and still confess to you?

Well, I'm a single-minded person, and I'm going to say no.

Hello First of all, be resolute. Rejection is inevitably a disservice, but it should not be used to discourage you. Since it is the person who is in love with you, he is very sensitive to your words and deeds.

If your attitude of refusing love is not resolute enough, it is easy to cause misunderstanding of the other party, especially if the other party is in a situation where you love you deeply, and the thinking you adopt out of politeness or consideration will make the other party feel that you also love him, at least let him feel that there is hope, and in the end it often brings greater harm than refusing love. Second, do your best to maintain the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party.

Specifically, you may wish to first praise the other person's character and talents, and then explain why you can't accept the courtship. The reasons to be said should be reasonable, and it is best to put forward favorable aspects from the other party's point of view, so that the other party feels that the rejection is also for his (her) good; If you have to explain to others, you may want to attribute the negative cause to yourself to avoid giving the impression that you simply rejected him. This method is especially suitable for those who are psychologically fragile and can avoid some extreme phenomena.

Summary. Let your friends stand up bravely and express their hearts to the boys.

Hello, there is no shortage of regret medicine in this world.

Now that it's happened, regret is useless.

What we can do is to actively do a good job in dealing with the aftermath.

Let your friends stand up bravely and express their hearts to the boys.

His classmates all said that I liked him, and as soon as I was going to explain to him, his classmates said that he just likes you.

Only by doing so can you divert the attention of your classmates and free you from this embarrassment.

Since you can help your friend confess, then it means that this friend is your hardcore friend, so you can do things for her, why can't she help you do things? What's more, this incident was caused by helping her to guess her.

I see, thank you, teacher.

The teacher advises you not to take everything on yourself, and sometimes you are likely to do bad things with good intentions.

How to be sure?

Why not directly:"Ah, I've been with you for a long time? Let's get married right now! "

I believe that the result will definitely scare him away! (You don't smile like this, it means that you are also a smarter girl).

There is a saying in psychology that "no one will cherish what is too easy to get"! It's easy for a boy to woo you, and he'll abandon the affection as quickly as he gets! In addition, after middle school students officially fall in love, there is no room for development, so they don't know where to go next?

The breakup will be faster!

If you want an affirmative answer, there are several ways you can deal with it:

1. Go with the flow: The upstairs suggested shopping accidentally let him grab his hand, which belongs to a kind;

2. Goal-setting: How do I know you really like me? What do I like? Set a goal and let him fight until he gets to the end;

3. Euphemistic suggestive type: It is a good way to fold a few paper cranes like the sixth floor! (If he wants you to speak, you have to be careful, this kid is either stupid or just cares if you like what he says).

However, if it is said that a direct promise is the [next policy], the above are all [middle strategies];

The best policy] is"Declined"！How can a boy who likes you not go through a little difficulty? Wait until you are admitted to a certain key high school!

In this way, he has a goal, and he will not delay the lessons of the two of you, and he will be better to you than his boyfriend, if you become his boyfriend now, you are already his at a certain level, and he may not be good to you).

But you have to distinguish whether liking and liking are the same thing, if your heart decides then follow your heart, we can only give you advice, and the final decision is yours, so as long as you don't regret it in the end, it's the best.

Give it to me if you can, thank you

If you like it, accept it, refuse if you don't like it, and be decisive and don't drag your feet.

When I am confessed by a male classmate, if I also have a crush on him, I will gladly accept it, and if I don't like him, I will tactfully tell him and say sorry to him.

I was very excited to be confessed by the male classmates in the class. If I like him, I'll be very happy. You might agree with this confession. If I don't like him, I'll tell him privately. We're not suitable, just be friends.

Probably everyone has been confessed by the male classmates in the class, in fact, I have too, but I was not sensible at the time, I chose to be with him, and in the end, we separated peacefully, but I never showed up again during the party, which is a bad thing.

Of course, there will be a kind of snickering joy in my heart, but after snickering, I will consider whether I want to be with him or not? Or am I suitable, are the two of us suitable? Or the two of us, even if we are together, or if we are not together, we should be in the class, how to be classmates in the future.

If you like him, you will accept his confession, and if you don't like him, you will not accept his confession, this is normal, if you don't like him, there is no need to waste more time on him, just be an ordinary friend.

A classmate confesses to you at the end of the semester, which means that he has a crush on you for a long time, and he may not be able to meet at the end of the semester or is easy to miss you, so he confesses, which means that he has been brewing for a long time before confessing to you.