Everyone help me figure out a way My boyfriend s colleague always asked my boyfriend to drag him hom

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not difficult, the first way: ask your boyfriend to park the car somewhere else, not at work.

    The second method: go home late after work, if the other party asks, say something, but this method does not last.

    The third method: tell your boyfriend to make a detour home after work every day, and if the other party asks, say that your boyfriend has a gym membership card and goes to the gym every day after work.

    Personally, the last one of the above three is the most suitable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It can be said that he doesn't go home after work first, and he doesn't drop him off.

    Then ride the bike in the opposite direction and go home from the path, saying this two or three times, I guess that person will not be like this.

    I don't think he's bullying newcomers, he's slamming the door.

    Another way is to see that when he has money in his wallet, let your boyfriend call him a treat, the stingy person will be afraid of a treat, and if he asks twice, maybe he won't pester your boyfriend to give him a treat.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    After work, excuse your boyfriend to go grocery shopping or buy other things, in short, try to go different ways with him, and you also pick up your boyfriend when you have nothing to do, and ask your boyfriend to take you home, which can not only enhance the relationship, but also avoid trouble, hehe. Bless you all and be happy!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Go out at another time and stagger that colleague's habitual commute time. Or let your boyfriend say that he wants to pick you up after work and can't drive him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That's bullying people and making your boyfriend man order.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Where there is oppression, there is resistance.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hehe,,, that's like your boyfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Play missing, but afterwards you must compensate for the injured heart ......

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You help me kj make sure he's going to be miserable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hehe, this should be the biggest fight, right? Since it was the most noisy one, how could the problem be solved by only using electrical signals?

    Let's meet! I'm afraid that all the problems will be cleared with a smile, and your quarrel is not a big problem in the first place.

    People can't get in touch anymore, you really have no other way now, wait for the meeting, and don't send some messages that you don't pick me up** and we will separate.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As long as you can say to yourself after you've done it, I don't regret it, it's not that complicated.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The boy is very selfish to his girlfriend and loves to be cranky....You don't want to go back, he doesn't understand what you think, of course he will be worried, this limit can't bear it, the boy is tired, and he can only choose to get rid of ......He is not hateful, but his heart is also very chaotic for a while, don't think that he has to take the initiative all the time, in fact, his heart is also very fragile, you take the initiative to be more sincere, beg him to let him know that you have always cared about him, and the most important thing is to let him have a sense of security that you will not leave by your side...He'll be back.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't fight **, take some practical action. Ask for leave to meet him, it's better to solve it in person, people with his character are the most soft-hearted, if you don't do something sorry for him, there is a way to redeem it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's hard! Let's see if he can remember your good hand after a while! See how much he cares about you! Or care more about your shortcomings! At that time, all the troubles were naturally solved!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It should have been back a long time ago.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Personally, I feel that the family factor is a big factor. Many couples come from knowing each other and falling in love, and there are not a few who are separated due to family reasons. Your question shows your heart, and it shows how much you love and nervous your boyfriend, and it is rare that you want to take the initiative and try to achieve some kind of result through your own efforts.

    I appreciate that!

    In fact, I personally prefer to negotiate with your boyfriend, make a careful plan, and use your boyfriend to communicate with his family and pass on ideas. And not on your side alone. Because after all, he is an adult, and he is a member of the family and has a lot of say and autonomy.

    Relatively speaking, you are an outsider, and it seems that it is difficult to get through the relationship single-handedly. But I don't know what kind of personality your boyfriend is, what is the inevitable connection between his family atmosphere and his sister being a strong woman.

    Finally, I wish you happiness! Very good girl!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There are some things that you can't force, but you can try to mention them tactfully, and if he has thought about taking you home to your parents, it doesn't matter much if he wants to take you home to your parents; If he didn't think about it at all, then it proves that he is just playing with you and is not prepared to take you back to meet your parents.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Won't he take you to his parents? There are three possibilities: one is that his family is very undignified, and I am afraid that you will break up with him after you have met; The second is that he doesn't love you and doesn't feel the need to take you home; The third is that his parents don't like you and are afraid that you will quarrel.

    Try to make him understand that you will love him with all your heart no matter what, and he may change his opinion.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'll take you home, but you're a **.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Take the initiative to go to their house and settle things down first

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If he wanted to, he would have taken you there a long time ago.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    1.Your parents have every right to be stubborn, and they are not obligated to bear the consequences of your choice.

    2。You also have the right to freely choose who you want to marry, but you are not obliged to ask your parents to accept your choice.

    3 Please think about it: If you insist on being with him, in case of a breakup or divorce in the future, there is no way out for your mother's family, have you thought about it clearly? How will you end up then?

    4 If you eat the national meal, you are a civil servant? Do you have a detached property in your name? That is to say, even if you cut off the relationship with your mother's family and your husband's family, do you have a place to stay?

    4. Have you considered asking your mother's family to help take care of the confinement and take care of the children after marriage? If you insist on being with him, you have to find a way to solve these things by yourself, and your mother's family doesn't care.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Only elopement, or find another boyfriend, if you are willing, the traditional thinking of parents is very difficult.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    A marriage without the blessing of your parents will not be happy, you can think carefully about what you like about him, see if your parents' opinions are pertinent, since you are working, don't have children's rebellious thoughts, your parents' opinions have their experience.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think the method of pregnancy will work, but it is an extreme and not temporary, and your boyfriend will prove it to your parents.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Let's not talk about the success rate of long-distance relationships.

    You've already said that your ex-boyfriend is more rational. He also said that he was going to break up with you. Then the chances of you being reconciled are low.

    Taking a step back, what if they are reconciled? Are you sure he was really moved by you to reconcile with you?

    I'm all too familiar with his personality, it's not that I want to hit you. It's better to reconcile than to break up.

    Of course, I don't know how you feel about each other, and I can't make up my mind. But as the saying goes, a twisted melon is not sweet. Barely getting something is of little use.

    Of course you should want to be on good terms with him, although I don't recommend that you make amends. But since you asked, I'll give you a way.

    First: You said that he eats soft and not hard, then you have to come soft, such as cooking a meal for him to eat (there are too many methods, not one by one).

    Second: you have to change your personality to suit his personality (affection needs to be paid).

    Third: If you can't do the second one, I suggest you give up.

    Finally, LZ I don't think your personality is mature, and your emotional side is far greater than your rational side. Don't be swayed by your feelings, learn to control them.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I'm also in this situation, and now I'm also very worried, his personality is similar to your friend, but he's not as ruthless as your friend, I hit ** or pick up, sometimes the tone is not good, but I only know how to cry, especially when I hit him **, I can't help it, maybe I'm very useless, we broke up for twenty-one days, I'm so uncomfortable, I can understand your pain, I always miss him now, I talk to him in a small book when I think of him, I plan to mail it to him, I didn't think of other ways, I just hope that you can heal yourself and make a final effort.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The landlord must have done something that your boyfriend can't accept, but you may find acceptable.

    I don't think it's very easy for you to hit the muzzle of the gun, are you still dealing with other people at the same time? I'm guessing. Your boyfriend is a very stubborn person, and there are other "small" things after you that make him continue to be uncomfortable.

    After a long time, it's far away, and you don't want to explain, and the feelings will slowly fade. Trust is the basis of two people's relationship, and your actions make him lose trust in you, and the relationship will slowly disappear.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You should have a good talk, it seems to me that you are still confused and don't know why you broke up. It's good to get together and disperse, even if it's a breakup, you have to make it clear.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Exchange sincerity for true love, the process of recovering love is tormenting and painful, many lovelorn brothers are not calm at the beginning, and they have a hot brain, and they have made a lot of big mistakes to recover, such as: stalking, SMS bombing, trying to track, begging and so on. ~~

    Tang Zeyang's path to redemption" (direct hundred. His story and experience as well as the redemption tips he shares should be of great help to you! Finally, I wish you a speedy recovery!

    In the plain, love is not to miss the fate.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I can tell you for sure that your boyfriend wants to avoid you, if it's just a colleague joking or your boyfriend really has something inconvenient to tell you, but you say that you can't contact him, then he must not want to pay attention to you, this kind of person is too rubbish,

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That's deliberately avoiding you.

    Since someone else wants to do this, don't look for him

    It's divided, it's useless to keep it, now pack up your relationship with him, and actively wait for the next relationship to appear

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think so. That's how I got it right before. It's because I don't like to pull or some other reason that I don't want to be together, that's it. It doesn't have to be about breaking up. Maybe it's because there's something else going on these days.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After my analysis of your description, it shows that it is unfortunate! You've been dumped!!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you're also close to marriage age, you can ask your boyfriend to persuade your mom to drag it out;

    If it is really like the pride of the sky, Qin said, "one 23, one 13", then it is over;

    If you don't love him very much, you can't be sure that you will marry him in the future, but don't delay others, hehe.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It won't be a 23 and a 13, right? In that case, I was really speechless.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Let him talk to her mother about it, you will be separated for a while, let the queen pretend to meet again, and let his mother believe that you are destined.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    How old you are, if you're only a year old, it's really not easy.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It depends on what the situation is, if two people happen to be on the way, and they are very good friends, and their boyfriends can't pick them up, it's normal. If you have been a person's car and have a mediocre relationship, then this woman may have a problem.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You don't know the terrible consequences of human words

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    One situation is that this woman may not be financially well-off, and she is not disgusted with this male colleague, and she is not very honest, and she wants to cover up her embarrassment. Just do it. This is short-sightedness.

    Another situation is that the male colleague has ambitions and finds a reason to hitchhike. Use various reasons to cover up your current intentions. This is called setting sail and seeing the stitches.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Boyfriend? Have you gotten married, your vanity is strong, and you don't take into account your feelings

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you go by the way, it's normal, but if you don't, then there's a problem.

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