Is my husband a wreck?

No I have a nest! Your husband at least gets you! I haven't gotten my wife yet!

Now that you're both married, trust Him! Anyway, after marriage, the shortcomings of both husband and wife are exposed! Some can be changed, but some of the problems of nature cannot be changed, so we must learn to accommodate!

Otherwise, there will only be divorce in the end!

Hey, let's go.

1. On the conditions for divorce.

According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, if the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, a divorce may be granted.

2. About child support and child support.

For the issue of child support, it is necessary to carefully confirm the circumstances of both parties from the perspective of being conducive to the child's growth, but the child during the breastfeeding period is generally awarded to the woman for support, if it is not a lactation period, it is necessary to see that party is more suitable for the child's growth and solicit the child's own opinion. The parent who does not support the child should pay monthly maintenance until the child reaches the age of 18, and the standard of maintenance is generally between 20 and 30% of the annual income. If one party is not suitable to raise the child during the future maintenance period, the other party can go to court to file a new lawsuit to change the custody of the child.

3. On the division of common property.

The property acquired by one party during the marriage is the joint property of the husband and wife, and the joint property and debts of the husband and wife are jointly owned and borne by the husband and wife, and are generally half of the same person. If one party is at fault, the division of property can be divided with less or no share, and the specific share will be determined by the court. In general, after marriage, the prenuptial bride price is treated as joint property and cannot be refunded, and if there is no marriage, the other party can be asked to return the bride price.

4. About the divorce procedure, required documents and fees.

In the case of divorce by agreement, after negotiation between the two parties, they should go through the divorce formalities at the original marriage registration authority with the divorce agreement, marriage certificate and ID card of both parties and receive the divorce certificate; If one party does not agree or repents of non-performance after signing the divorce agreement, then the divorce shall be filed in the court where the defendant is domiciled, or in the court where the defendant has resided for more than one year, or if the defendant's whereabouts are unknown or imprisonment for more than one year, the divorce may be filed in the court where the plaintiff is located. The first instance is generally 6 months, and the second instance is 3 months. If the court does not leave the first judgment, it can file a new lawsuit after half a year, and the court of the second prosecution should generally rule away.

If the litigation fee for litigation divorce does not involve the division of property, it is generally 50 yuan, and if there is a division of property, the fee shall be paid according to the proportion of the property, which can be referred to the "Litigation Fee Measures".

Hehe, no one measures people differently, in fact, the most important thing is what kind of person you think he is, talk to him well, if it doesn't get to the point of divorce, be tolerant, after all, you are not together for a day or two, if you can't bear it, then you can consider the consequences......

Let's leave, find a husband who is not afraid of heaven and earth, but only of God.

Hehe, after all, it's your husband, it's okay to do things like this to make you angry and vent here, don't you have to live a life, you can't quarrel about something, or divorce.

He's already like this, you don't have to think about anything else, two people will inevitably have stumbling when they live together, and they want to open some.

Don't think that men must protect women, and smart women must learn to protect themselves.

You know what? Your husband is like this, did you know it on the first day? Why didn't you find out before you got married?

Or are you not just having these prejudices against him?

If you really want to live well with him, relax your mind, otherwise you won't be happy.

Two people live together, don't always think about each other's bad things...

Men who are not successful enough to do more than fail ......

I don't know what a wretched husband is like, but I do know that my own husband is definitely not a wretched person.

Perhaps in some family life, there are some husbands who are not very happy with their wives. But I think the words. A talented and talented old man.

In fact, it was all built by this wife. Of course, if your husband is a wreck. Maybe in a sense, it's also made by yourself.

For a man, we, as his wives, should look up to our husbands more. Make your husband feel that she has a place in the family. Make your husband feel that she is very important in the family.

There are some things that can't be done without him. There are some examples of this around me. Not only is my husband very capable.

And the family is also very well run. I found that women like that all have one thing in common. That is, they think of their husbands as higher than themselves.

They all see better than themselves. But it doesn't mean that they are bad on the contrary, they themselves also know how to manage themselves, make themselves better and better, not just make themselves beautiful, not just make themselves slim. They can also cook a good meal.

Sometimes she is still a very smart, very wise woman. Because they know when to let go. What when.

Waiting for your own man? Become a real man.

A lot of men are not nests, but sometimes they don't meet their own platform. Or sometimes he lacks certain opportunities. But there are some women who will know how to create some opportunities for their husbands, or encourage them to do certain things, and give them some space and platforms that allow him to display his talents.

Only when I let my husband develop on the space and platform that he thinks is very good. Your husband will show his inner majestic ability. to be able to let you see a truly talented man.

So as a woman's words. Sometimes you have to learn to be smart. Learn.

In this way, after a while, you will definitely be able to notice the change in your husband. It turns out that my husband next to me is by no means a wreck. It's a very capable and nice man.

Your husband is not a wreck, but let you not be the same as you, if he doesn't let you, the two of you may quarrel or fight.

I have also encountered this problem, but my approach is different from yours, I do this: I first communicate my thoughts to my husband, then reason with my husband, and finally tell my husband my thoughts, and finally reason with him, and finally tell my husband my thoughts, and so on several times, my husband will understand my thoughts, and he will no longer mess with me, my husband does this. I think your husband did the same.

However, my husband is a more assertive person, and I don't know if your husband is such a person, if so, then you can refer to my practice.

You have to speak with facts.

You don't say anything, only you know.

, the husband's ability is poorThe two of them live, and if the husband is poor, he can't earn more money. And the wife will be angry when she sees that the people around her are very powerful, and her man can't earn money at home. If this is the case, the best thing to do is to communicate with your husband to see if there is any other way out.

Second, it will not deal with the problemWhen there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband will not deal with it, and the wife will feel her husband's nest and get angry when she sees him. If this is the case, the best thing to do is to be yourself and work hard to handle the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When the family is harmonious, it naturally becomes happy.

3. Communication difficultiesWhen I fall in love, I think my husband is very honest, but it's not the case when I get married and live together. I can't give you ideas when I have a problem. If this is the reason for the anger, the way to adjust it is:

Look at the advantages of him, if he doesn't make a fuss, you can drive communication.

If your husband is exhibiting a spitting behavior, there are a few ways to bury it:

1.Communication: First, you need to have in-depth communication with your husband. Let him know that you are unhappy with his actions and ask him if there is anything he needs to improve. Communication is the first step in resolving any issues, make sure you are open and honest with your husband.

2.Set clear boundaries: Be clear about what your husband is doing to upset you.

At the same time, tell him clearly what changes you want him to make. By doing so, he will be able to better understand your expectations and know how to meet your needs.

3.Provide support and encouragement: Try to find his strengths and strengths and give him support and encouragement. Let him know that you believe in him and help him build self-confidence.

4.Seek professional help: If your husband's behavior continues to upset you and doesn't improve through communication or boundary setting, you may want to consider seeking help from a professional counselor.

5.Self-adjustment: As a wife, you need to adjust yourself as well.

Don't let your husband's behavior affect your mood and life. Maintain a positive mindset and give him support and understanding, while also maintaining his independence. Remember, change takes time and effort.

Give your husband plenty of time and space to change, but also be firm in expressing your expectations and boundaries. If you encounter difficulties along the way, do not hesitate to seek professional help. I hope mine will let you, remember to like and collect.

1. Dependence.

Some time ago, someone asked me to watch the variety show "My Favorite Women", and I couldn't understand why Chen Qianqian was lazy and pretentious, but she could be spoiled by Yuan Chengjie as a little princess. It can be seen that Chen Qianqian is very dependent on Yuan Chengjie. She was able to call Yuan Chengjie fifty times early in the morning, for all trivial things, either asking him where the puff went, or asking him to help pour water, and asking for a water temperature of 45 degrees.

Many things that can be done with your fingers should also involve Yuan Chengjie, and it is also called cultivating feelings. It's really cultivating feelings, because she's cultivating the other person's sense of responsibility through dependence. Many times, feelings are sublimated in dependence and dependence.

What one person can do should also be done by two people together, so as to increase the participation of the other half in the whole family life and some large and small events, and experience it together in the process to form a strong sense of dependence. For example, when you are cooking, you can ask him to help wash the dishes, whether you really need him or not, and whether he washes cleanly or not, it doesn't matter. The important thing is that he participates, and you have to praise him, give him a sense of accomplishment, and show that he is dependent on you.

2. Emotional value.

Of course, it's easy to be annoyed by instructing the other person to do things so often, so the essence is that you have to give the other person enough emotional value. It can be seen that no matter whether Yuan Chengjie does a good job or not, Chen Qianqian will not lose her temper if she doesn't tell her pants, at most she is joking. And when Yuan Chengjie meets her requirements, she will praise her husband in various ways, this is a sense of proportion.

Therefore, you can often use some gentle and lovely language to directly express this sweet satisfaction of being cared for and taken care of, which arouses a stronger sense of responsibility from the other party, and he will take more care of you. 3. Sense of participation.

Men are a little clumsy, but if he gives up on him because of his mistake of bending two socks at a time and does everything himself, then his sense of responsibility for this family will be even lower. After many women become pregnant, they exude a kind of motherly temperament from the inside out, taking care of both big and small things, in fact, this has laid a solid foundation for your future widowhood marriage. Therefore, if you want to cultivate your husband's sense of responsibility, you must make him have enough sense of participation.

Hello, I think that husband and wife not only have tolerance to make the relationship more long-lasting, but also need two people to have my communication and understanding, so that each other's ideas, let each other guide effective problem solving, and should have their own principles and bottom line, so that they can get mutual respect and recognition.

In marriage, although you don't need to argue with reason, you should also love yourself well and don't swallow your anger with others. You should express your concept very clearly, you can back down, but you can't always endure it and live a life of obedience. In that way, I will also fall into an inferiority complex, this relationship, because of the concession of one party, patience will become more and more unequal, even if the relationship is long-lasting, it has no meaning, let alone happiness.

In marriage, many women will choose to tolerate their other half for the sake of a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. This practice is understandable, but from the perspective of love psychology, blindly forbearance is not only not conducive to maintaining the relationship between husband and wife, but will also accelerate the process of marriage breakdown; The reason why I say this is mainly because of the following two considerations: on the one hand, long-term forbearance will make you accumulate a lot of grievances in your heart, and you will be very unhappy; Especially during critical periods such as pregnancy, breastfeeding, confinement, etc., when your mood is more likely to fluctuate, then the pain you endure will increase exponentially.

For example, during these critical periods, you feel anxious, uneasy, and confused, and you have a lot to say to your other half, and you also hope that he can understand your emotions, give you companionship and care, and help you share some things; But every time you communicate with him and make requests to him, he looks impatient, perfunctory in a few words, and does not make any changes at all, and even sometimes he complains that you have a lot of things to do, and he doesn't know how difficult it is to understand him; You know that if you keep talking to him, you will quarrel, so in order not to hurt the relationship between husband and wife, you endured it, and you exchanged the way of wronging yourself for the temporary harmony of the relationship between husband and wife; But as the number of times you endure increases, the grievances in your heart will continue to accumulate and grow. On the other hand, blindly tolerating will make him not know and disagree with your efforts and hard work, and even accuse you of not doing well enough, which will make your marriage very difficult.