Do you continue to work for your husband? My husband doesn t want me to work with him, so why should

Updated on society 2024-03-14
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Dear, your question, I believe you will have the answer yourself, since you have chosen to get married, it must mean that your relationship is quite deep. Now you should be a happy expectant mother first of all, don't worry about anything, first of all, no matter what you face, you should be happy when you think of the baby! Secondly, your husband must love you very much, after all, you are now the closest and most trusted person around her, you are both in a difficult time, so you must support and understand each other.

    Quarrels can't solve the problem after all, it's better to talk to him, I believe you will understand each other and get through it! Then, you have to first determine what you can do well, what you are best at, if you are really unhappy, you can discuss with him, or accompany him to continue to persevere, first wronged yourself and try to do a good job. But after all, it's not a long-term plan, you still have to have a career you like.

    Women must also learn to be independent and not always rely on others.

    Calm down and think about it, if you want to be happy, then the people who love you will be happy! Babies will be happy, too! Also, you must know that he never uses others as punching bags, which fully proves that you are a warm family! Everything will be fine! Getting through it is victory!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Business people are no better than ordinary people, and their pressure is beyond the experience of ordinary people, because I am in business, and I deeply understand it! Your husband is under a lot of pressure, and he is very responsible, he wants to give you and the baby a good living environment, so he has to work hard! As his wife, you have to be more considerate of him, help him more, if work is not your forte, then you take good care of him in life, so that he can relax at home.

    You are now pregnant, of course, the most important thing for you now is to take care of yourself, you and your baby are the greatest happiness for him! Fate has made you together, don't be like leaving, cherish the happy life in front of you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can't be angry about anything in your current state, a happy life is good for the baby, as for your husband's attitude towards you, you don't have to take it to heart, he treats you as his favorite person and the closest person to you, just because he thinks you won't be angry with him, so sometimes he doesn't think about ways and means, he won't treat employees like this. That's it. Just believe that your husband loves you, and that's it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's better to communicate your thoughts with him, you don't know how to do it, and you can't help him much, it's better to ask someone who knows a little bit to help, and you can find a suitable job that you like.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can't get angry about anything in your current state.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Alas... There is always someone who is not satisfied!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Dear, glad to answer for you. <>

    <> husband doesn't want me to work with him, and the reason why he wants to bring you with him is: two people can take better care of each other together, take care of each other, earn more, and save more.

    My husband doesn't want me to work with him, so why should he take it?

    Dear, glad to answer for you. <>

    <> husband doesn't want me to work with him, let him bring your reason: two people can sail back together enough to take care of each other, take care of each other, earn more, and save more.

    But I still don't agree with it.

    Dear, did you ask your husband why he didn't let you go?

    He may think that I can't get on the stage and lose face, or he may think that I can't get on the stage, or he may feel embarrassed to him, or he may think that I can't get on the stage, or he may think that I can't get on the stage.

    Dear, do you have children?

    Could it be that because you all went out to work at the same time, there was no one to take care of your family?

    Yes, you might think I'm uglier than him.

    Dear, have you ever gone out to work before?

    Or is this the first time.

    Rarely, there is any ninety-eight way for him to agree to take me.

    Dear, you need to discuss the situation you said with your husband, does your husband know what you think?

    How to discuss. Dear, that is, you said in your heart that you think that your husband is afraid of taking you out, and you are not worthy of him, and you will be embarrassed by this idea, have you told him.

    Yes, but he doesn't face me.

    Does your husband work out of town all year round?

    In addition to not letting you go out to work with him, he didn't have any unusual behavior when he came home.

    Do you usually care more about you and your children?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. There are two kinds of psychology, the first psychology is that he feels very sorry for you and is unwilling to let you go out and suffer. The second situation is that you are not at ease, I am afraid that if you go out to work, you will be worried in your heart. <>

    Hope mine can help you.

    My husband earns half of my money and doesn't let me go to work at him.

    There are two kinds of psychology, the first psychology is that Orange Manuscript is very sorry for you and is unwilling to let you go out and suffer. In the second case, Yuanbi is that Jingzao is not at ease, and he is afraid that if you go out to work, he will be worried in his heart. <>

    Hope mine can help you.

    He didn't work with me in the morning and evening, I said to go to find all kinds of reasons not to let me go to his side to bury potatoes and work, he began to say that you came to hand balance to rent a house or something, anyway, all kinds of reasons not to let me go, I said to see him, he said what are you doing, I will go back in three months, what are you worried about?

    I don't understand it, today I tried him I said husband, are you willing to give up your job there for me to crack Hanpai, he began to say, the salary here is high and then the more he says that he will envy the two of them to consume a lot of children, or something to start teaching me from the old man, in fact, what your husband said is very reasonable, after all, the burden of a family is very big, if you suspect that Shouxu is planting a woman in the face, it is convenient to tell the teacher where he is working in the quarrel? How much is the monthly salary?

    Comforting, over there, doing game work, at first he said let me go, and then he didn't let me go when he went there.

    More than 20,000 a month.

    At least more than 10,000.

    If you only give me half and don't give me all of it, the pressure should still be very high, why do you say so? The pressure of being able to earn more than 10,000 yuan is not small, the teacher's previous work salary is a little more than 10,000 yuan, and the overtime work is not done until one or two o'clock in the morning, and there is a lot of balance and bend Jane, part of which is used for team building, and the subordinates will basically help if they can help anything. So it may be that you are overthinking.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Understand your helplessness now, and you have to consider whether your husband's career has a future and whether it is worth paying. It's hard to talk about this, getting married, living together, sometimes you do have to sacrifice some of your own things. But if your husband's career doesn't bother you so much, you can do what you like, and it is the happiest to be able to have what you like to do.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You're so pathetic. Have you had lunch today?

    How did you come together in such a strange relationship?

    It feels like you are his appendage, his slave, and you live for him.

    Fool: If the burden is too heavy, you might as well put it down. Always gritting your teeth, sooner or later you will be crushed.

    Fool: Love, is really not blindly giving, has he ever given dignity? You are a human being, not an object, how can you not listen to your thoughts and force you to do those unhappy things again and again?

    Fool: In love, men deal with things, and career matters are all men's affairs. And women, just encouragement on the side, support with love is fine. The most important thing for men is ability, and the most important thing for women is beauty. Always tired, you will be emaciated, will add.

    Rapid aging. Fool: Because a person is lonely and lonely, he will need love, and he hopes to have someone to accompany him, encourage himself, and encounter difficulties, he will also be reciprocal.

    Support each other, if two people are not as easy and free as one person, then this love, don't do it. Don't think you're done just because you're married. Now, there are a lot of divorces, the most important thing is that marriage, divorce, that's just on paper. Person.

    Classes set the rules.

    Fool: People live to feel life, and love is just a part of life. If you have your own ideals, you will be firm.

    Hold on, go for it. There are so many men, you will definitely meet someone who understands you and is on the same path as you. Why so much can't wait.

    of getting married! Let's get married for the sake of life, that is, messing around. So, you've got where you are.

    Fool: Think about it yourself, interpret your life well, a man who values money more than people, is worth guarding.

    Protection? Money is very important, but if you want to hurry, you can't reach it, and many things can't be rushed. It's like having to eat every day, and no one eats all the food of their whole life at once.

    Wishing you happiness! I don't want to say more.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is the price paid for the relationship, if you have time, communicate with him well, let him understand your good intentions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you can do a career in the industry you are good at and show them, and they will naturally stop talking

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The pros and cons of a family-run business are aside, but I think the following should be done:

    1.The division of labor is clear, and the enterprise is also divided into the main and the main outside of the main for its own master, cooperate with each other, distinguish the main priority, and take the main decision when there is a disagreement. Don't blame each other even if you do something wrong!

    2.Work is work, and you can't put work and the feelings of husband and wife together.

    4.Future generations are very important, and we must think about it in the long run.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In this case, you should change the atmosphere and talk calmly about your psychology, the most important thing in marriage is to communicate and understand.

    Specifically, you can go to a place that you were familiar with before you got married, or a café and other places where you can calm down, calm yourself down, and then slowly talk about everyone's thoughts.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Marriage is the most important thing, keep the marriage, and everything else is easy to say

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If he is now realizing his dream, then when there is a disagreement in the entrepreneurial stage, it is recommended that you follow his advice, or you do not express your opinion at all, so as not to get angry! He decided to start his own business, and naturally he had a lot of ideas in his mind, so he tried to let him decide by himself. As long as you objectively put forward reasonable suggestions, it is his business to listen to it or not!

    Once he doesn't listen to your suffering, he will obediently adopt your opinion in the future! I suggest you stay with him, after all, he needs you now! And it's going to be boring when you're at home for a long time.

    As for having children, I think it's never too late to wait for your career to stabilize, these two years are the time when he is the busiest and you can't be separated from God, and now I'm afraid that there will be some negative effects! And he is busy with his career, and you can only take care of the children alone, so there will be a distance between husband and wife! It is recommended that you consider:

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