I was scared of getting old and losing my love

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Silly, women's capital is not youthful, pure and beautiful, those are very short-lived and superficial things, I said ugly, women who simply use these things as capital, do you need to be afraid that they can't compare to them? Their shelf life may only be one night, and when you are 38 years old, you are not old, nor are you young, but the vitality of the past has become a quiet temperament, and there is wisdom. You have love, you have memories, you have the beauty of the present, what do you still owe, don't be depressed about some impossible futures, love well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's just a mentality, those are not important, there is no age limit for real love, as long as he really loves you well, it is enough, be kind to yourself, manage this love well, appearance is not important.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My answer is no, you also said, your man loves you very much now, and you are worried that you are also a man who judges people by his appearance, you look down on him Oh, yes, you will get old, and he is also a human being, he will also get old, men may become more attractive in their forties, are you worried that your appearance will no longer attract him? But true love is long-lasting, and it has nothing to do with what you look like, and I want you to understand.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People who know love don't ask that!

    Don't be angry, I didn't blame you!

    Love needs to be experienced with our hearts! Love is the eternal theme of this world!

    You should have a love that everyone else envies, why do you have to ask such a stupid question as if you are stupid? Why don't you hurry up and immerse yourself in your love and enjoy it?

    What you are satisfied with now and what you have is what you are most precious to! Enjoy it with your heart and don't get distracted!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If he really loves you, then he won't care what you look like. And women pay attention to maintenance, and they will not age particularly quickly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    After the age of 30, what you have in you is temperament, cultivation, as well as your income, your children, and so on. To capture a man's heart is to make him feel that the price of betrayal is too great.

    Don't get obsessed with your own disadvantages, you have an advantage over young women for him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are no ugly women, only lazy women.

    Pay more attention to maintenance, so that you can stay young forever.

    The details of maintenance are very important, don't be lazy, pay attention to every detail!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hehe, the problem you are facing now is not given to you by others but by yourself, where does the lack of confidence come from?

    Do people get old? This is a fact that cannot be contested, are there vampires? Let me know if there's any trouble.

    Since everyone will grow old, then we have no other way but to face it, you are now in your 20s, do you think there are many women who are 38 years old and are worried that you will snatch their husbands? You may say, "I would never do, but people are pretty much the same." You won't be and no one else will be, you will and maybe someone else will too.

    Let's talk about what can attract men, in fact, there are some things you should understand, men just need to know the way home. Maybe you'll be out playing, but it's nice to know that you're going home.

    Besides, why do you think men get married? For the sake of beautiful women? In fact, you just need an expectation, a warmth, a harbor, so whether you are old or not, you give men enough psychological things, I don't think any man will leave you.

    And a woman who doesn't have self-confidence will really be easily abandoned, and you have to make a man feel that he can't do without you. It's not that you can't do without him, remember that the initiative is in your own hands. And if you're worried about it all the time, your husband will feel tired too.

    Finally, I'll tell you a story, which may be particularly bad, but it's not derogatory, it's just a funny story.

    There was a fly, found a lot of poop, it was very happy, afraid that someone else would snatch it, at this time an elegant swan came, the fly was very nervous and said to the swan, are you going to snatch my poop?? The swan glanced at the fly and ran away, and at this time another cat came, and the fly was very nervous and said to the cat, "Are you going to snatch my poop?" This is what I found, it is my most precious, the cat took a look and ran away...

    Sometimes what you think is the best thing may not be the same as others.

    Hope mine is useful to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why am I afraid of getting old?

    Because I see that there are some shortcomings in the elderly, and the young people don't like it. I'm afraid that when I get old, I will have such and such shortcomings, and young people don't like Sun Tuan.

    When people get old, they will first become timid and have too many worries before doing something; second, they will become dislike to learn new things and be lazy in their thinking; third, they don't trust others, and they always want to do things by themselves. Fourth, become slow.

    The above changes are not due to the fact that the overall physical condition and mental condition have not been so good as the person is getting older, so the above problems have arisen.

    How can we find ways to reduce or delay the problems that these elderly people are prone to?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I thought that getting old was far away from me, but I suddenly found that I had begun to have the characteristics of getting older, I didn't seem to be young anymore, I was actually only 25 years old.

    I looked at myself in the mirror, and I already had fine lines around my eyes; Where the fine lines pass, there is a wide range of dark circles; There are a lot of small pimples around the eyes, and there is a big pimple on the left side that has been with me for almost 2 years; There are a lot of spots on the face, plus a patch of pimples.

    I started looking in the mirror incessantly, I started looking at my face incessantly: I started constantly touching the pimples on my face with my hands, even though I knew there were bacteria on my hands; also began to stare at others, and found that they were good with them, no spots, no dark circles, and no white acne.

    I began to get scared, afraid that I am now like this faith, what will I become in the future?

    I want to be young, forever young.

    I had to do something.

    If you have dark circles and wrinkles, go to bed early and don't stay up late; If you have acne, eat less chili peppers and less sweets; Eat less greasy and more vegetables and fruits, and don't eat any more when you're full.

    Life is about movement, I have to move, whether it's running, whether it's yoga, I have to act.

    Read more books while you're young and be a talented woman.

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