On the question of paying for dating, should men pay for dating?

Let's give you a closer look at this problem

Clause. 1. You and this girl have known each other for more than a year and are not boyfriend and girlfriend, and the relationship is ambiguous. In this way, there are few opportunities to develop into lovers.

Clause. Second, it can't become a climate after a long time, and you haven't taken the initiative to chase others, which means that you don't mean much to her.

Clause. 3. The relationship is so ambiguous that you can't become a boyfriend and girlfriend if you date once a week. It can be clearly seen that people are just taking advantage of such an unclear relationship to eat and drink you for nothing.

Clause. Fourth, you are willing to pay anyway, and maybe you have a good relationship. One is willing to fight, the other is willing to suffer.

Reasons for maintaining the status quo.

Clause. Fifth, you don't pay attention to whether you really have development with her, you have to figure out whether you like each other or not, if you don't like it, just don't continue dating. Whether you ask her out or she asks you out.

If you like it, confess. It's been a year, so what are you waiting for?

The reason for cutting the mess with a quick knife.

Summary: It's all about what you think. Do you want to invest or give.

According to my analysis, my idea for you is to hope that she cares about you and hopes that she will send you something, which is to hope that there will be a gain.

You'd better figure out what you want first. And then solve this problem.

I don't like it or I'm not boyfriend or girlfriend, and people must ask for a turn of treating.

If it's a boyfriend or girlfriend, it depends on the other party's conditions. Generally, there are more men than women.

When my girlfriend and I go out, usually the two of us get the money together, it's almost 64, the money is not important, sometimes my girlfriend advises me to spend less money for her, save money for the wedding in the future.

It's a gentleman to pay a few times once in a while, but she's not your real girlfriend now, so it's very bad to feel anything!! You're not an ATM, so try to avoid contact with such a woman!! out。。。

No, it's been almost a year, and the relationship is still there. Oh,Why don't you make it clear to her directly.,In the end, do you want to have a relationship.,If you do.,,It's not like this every time.。。。 She doesn't feel embarrassed like that, huh??

Do you just like your money? Scold. Did she automatically ask you out??

If she asked you out automatically, it wouldn't be like this every time, would it?? I think it's normal for men to be more.,But it's a man who pays every time.,It seems a little unreasonable.,,After all, it's a matter of two people.。。。 Right??

If you feel like you're stuck, it's possible for you to be together, so don't be heartbroken, and if the relationship is not good, don't pay attention to her.

Most of the time it's me, but my girlfriend always realizes that I might be using too much money and asks for some ...... herselfSo it's almost 7:3.

Mine is 10:1, and mine is basically spent before she saves me.

Actually, money doesn't matter, but it's up to you how you look at it. I don't care much about money, my money is moonlight. Hehe.

You can also find the kind of girl who is more sensible, and some girls are willing to pay. I've come across it.

I'm a girl, and when I go out to dinner with my friends in general, I don't pay for it, because next time it's my turn

Going out with a hopeful boyfriend doesn't usually cost me.

The ambiguous suggestion was thrown directly by the landlord.

It's been a year, and your old man is good enough to stick to the drip!!

Isn't it easy to eat and drink for nothing?

At the end of the day, throw it away, hello, drop a joke.

There are enough women... Alas!

Teach you, since you like her, it's heartbreaking to keep dragging on treats like this.

As long as the girl really likes you, she will carefully find that you don't have much money, and then she will take out her own money to share.

The woman who makes someone else pay for herself already thinks of herself as a chicken, hehe, I'm sorry, it's a bit vulgar to talk but it's a fact. The AA system is the respect for the other party, but if it is a love relationship, there is no such problem, and the relationship without love is still the AA system, but some women are very low-level

At present, I am in the stage of love, spending money in love is inevitable, some couples think that talking about money hurts feelings, but we know that the problem of money can not be avoided, therefore, how to solve the problem of dating and spending money in love We use the following methods:Small money asks each other for the stove, big money AA.

As college students, our financial income mainly comes from our parents. The living expenses given by the parents of the average family are not enough to support one party in the blind payment in love, we say that love is mutual, not only in the emotional aspect, but also in the material aspect.

At the beginning of a relationship or during the period of passionate love, one party may not care about their blind giving, but when the relationship gradually flattens out after a long time, the blind giver will begin to care about the gains and losses in love, and think in his heart how much money he has paid for this relationship. Therefore, only one party blindly pays money when dating is not conducive to the development of the relationship.

During a relationship, the two can discuss spending money and come to an agreement. During our relationship, my boyfriend and I often went on dates when we had time, and sometimes we would go for a walk together on campus or make an appointment to eat together in the cafeteria. On Saturdays and Sundays, we go out to eat, go to the movies, go to the park, and spend money on dates together, but the consensus we reach on these small amounts of money is:

He paid for the meal, so I invited him to the movies; He paid for a taxi, so I invited him to drink milk tea.

<> our boundaries are blurred in terms of small money, but there must be some cracks and some futures. In big money, our capabilities are limited, and we will choose AA.

My boyfriend and I are from the same place, go to the same university, and we are both children of ordinary families, and every time we go home together at the end of the semester, the train ticket usually costs three or four hundred yuan, and we all choose AA for this kind of big money. We all AA when we spend more than a few hundred dollars on travel or play.

When it comes to gift-giving, we all choose gifts based on our financial strengthI don't give too expensive gifts. Because we all know that too expensive gifts are not something that ordinary students like us can afford.

Finally, I want to say that the issue of spending money on love dating must be agreed with the other party, and you can't avoid mentioning it because this topic is too sensitive.

1. The ab system is implemented in love.

The amount you pay should be equal in general, he invites you to dinner, you invite him to watch a movie, etc., I think everyone should understand this issue, mainly because no one owes anyone when they break up.

Is it possible to borrow money?

It can't be said that you can't borrow it, look at the other party's character, and see what kind of attitude he usually has towards his friends. See if he has the ability to repay, and see what he is doing with the money.

If he usually detains and searches his friends, and it is very inferior, then don't borrow it. Don't borrow money to play games with money, and don't borrow them if you don't have anything to do.

It's better not to borrow tens of thousands, but if you borrow, you have to make an IOU or tell his parents.

3 Are the views of consumption and money consistent?

This is very important, I have a friend, she and her boyfriend have a big difference in consumption views. Her boyfriend has to take care of everything she buys, thinking that she spends too much money and is too expensive to buy clothes and bags that are not practical, and before he has spent his money, he began to interfere with her consumption. It's because of the inconsistent view of consumption, it's difficult to be together.

4 The extent to which a man spends money on you.

Whether he is willing to spend money on you or not, you can see whether he is really willing to pay for you, in fact, it doesn't need to be a man, even myself. For example, when I buy clothes, I would rather buy cheaper ones for myself than better ones for Xiao Cui, and I choose gifts that are best for him within my ability. This mentality is easy to understand, if you love him, you want to give him the best, and the same goes for a man.

5How to talk about money naturally?

Your view of money can lead to his.

Your usual views on money and your attitude towards spending money are all telling him about your view of money. Two people should be complementary.

Example: I spend money in a big way, but he is more rational and rational, so between us is a little Cui Yu stool to manage money, because I am either deceived or cheated, I also know that if I am in charge of money in the future, it is estimated that it will not work. Therefore, with my concept of consumption, I can lead to his concept of consumption and tourism.

If you want to know his view of consumption, you can say this:

Example: You bought a ** expensive clothes, and said to him: You see that my clothes are good-looking, I really like it, but the expensive ones are different, what do you think?

After we got married, I would like to have a cloakroom, but it must be if the conditions allow, okay? ( You can know 3 points by asking this question: 1

Through his words, you can know his view of consumption2Are you willing to spend money for your pleasure3Whether he agrees with your view of consumption).

I think it's better to get straight to the point, you spend money on a date, but in the usual relationship, there should be a back and forth.

I think so, it is considered traditional dating etiquette for men to pay bills, while in other countries it is believed that the bills should be shared equally. In addition, the specific situation can also vary from person to person.

However, we can provide some advice to help you decide. First of all, it is very important to understand your girlfriend's views and attitudes. Some women expect men to pay their bills, while others believe they should share.

If you're unsure, talk to her about the topic before your appointment.

Second, consider your financial means. If you don't have a lot of money, maybe you shouldn't rush to pay. This can cause you to feel stressed later on a date and may also make your girlfriend feel uncomfortable.

Finally, try to avoid overly extreme practices. Being too quiet and asking for money may not make a good impression, while being overly generous may make his girlfriend Qi Zheng feel uncomfortable or uncomfortable.

Overall, the answer to this question depends on the specific situation and cultural background, and it is advisable to make a decision after considering many factors.

In today's society, the concept of equality between men and women is becoming more and more widespread, but in some traditional beliefs, men are still seen as the breadwinners of the family. Therefore, when two people go out to eat when they are in a relationship, the notion that the boy pays better. However, I think this notion is wrong, and I will discuss it in several ways below.

First of all, the concept of equality between men and women in modern society has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. In the past, men were often the breadwinners of the family, while women were responsible for household chores and childcare. But now, with the advancement of women and the increase in employment opportunities, women have also become financially independent.

Therefore, men and women should fight each other financially, rather than unilaterally. When two people go out to eat, it may be considered a sexist act for a boy to pay.

Second, the responsibility to pay the bills should be decided based on the financial capacity of the individual. If a guy has enough financial means to pay the bills, then he can do so. But if he doesn't have enough money to pay the bills, he should offer to split the cost or choose a cheaper restaurant.

Otherwise, it may cause unnecessary stress and burden on the girl.

Finally, the issue of money in a relationship is also a reflection of one's values and charisma. If a person believes that men should pay and women should not, then this perception may affect his relationships and charisma. On the contrary, if a person is able to face money issues calmly and is willing to share the costs with his partner, then it shows that he has mature and stable qualities and noble personality.

To sum up, I believe that men and women should support each other and respect each other's economic energy in a relationship. When two people go out to eat, the guy doesn't have to pay, but it should be decided on a case-by-case basis. In this way, the concept of equality and mutual respect between men and women can be truly realized.