Why don t you love it and still be reluctant to let go?

Because you covet the gentleness he (she) used to be, and miss the kindness he used to have to you;Because I'm used to two people, I feel lonely when I'm alone;Because there is still a little expectation, I hope he (she) can return to the original beauty. Perhaps, it's not that I don't love anymore, but when I am hurt by love, my heart is tired, tired, my life is dull, I feel that I don't love anymore, but in fact I still love. If you really don't love it, you will only feel bored, how can you be reluctant.

The reluctance to him (her) is all because of love, don't do things that you will regret in the future because of impulse!

There should be a certain emotional foundation, and if you don't love it, it's a feeling, and you're reluctant to let go because your spirit and life have been accustomed to having her, and you cherish the people in front of you.

To put it simply, we all have memories and feelings;If you have no feelings, no memories, it will be very easy for you to let go naturally, and you won't even feel a little heartache. As the saying goes, true love is eternal, love is linked to time, and the deeper the love, the longer the love. Actually, you yourself should know something very well, if you say you break up and say you don't love, do you really not love?

If you are a very attentive person and an emotionless person, you will not ask this question, right?

I don't love anymore, and the time when two people are together, the dependence and habits that arise, this thing is the most terrible.

In a relationship, many people will experience love but can't, but some people can let go easily, but some people are not willing to give up, in fact, this is because when everyone is reluctant to give up that time, the self who likes others to work hard. <>

In fact, many times, the feelings of love but reluctance, letting go are a kind of obsession.

It is likely that the object of obsession is just because that time was very good, and everyone dare not let go. In fact, when you like someone, you will feel that life is full of hope and sunshine, and everyone will feel very happy, and because of this very beautiful and brilliant time, many people can't give up, after all, if you give up liking this person, life will become a normal pace. Then in fact, life will lack a lot of fun, so many people are reluctant to let go, in fact, they are just unwilling to give up that period of green years.

And in fact, many people like the hard-working and favorite self very much, and feel that they were very confident during that time, and they are also desperate, so many people can't let go of the one who is willing to change themselves for others. Willing to keep improving yourself for love. The self that shines because of what you like may be difficult to see in the future, so everyone is unwilling to give up this love, in fact, because they don't want to become a gray self again.

And many times, love is not enough, and they are not willing to let go, which is completely due to unwillingness, because some people will indeed become psychologically distorted because they do not get what they want, which will produce some unwilling emotions. In fact, in the end, you may not still have particularly deep feelings for this person, but because you don't get it, you will be particularly unconvinced. Always hoping to conquer it.

But love is not allowed, in fact, this itself makes many people sad, in fact, he lets go is actually letting go of himself, so that he will not be trapped in the whirlpool anymore.

It is a kind of love at the end of the world, that moment of meeting, from then on there is a other party in the heart, but the fate of the other party is too short, can not know each other and love, this lovesick love, sweet and bitter, although love but not, but willing, only wish the person who loves a happy life.

It's a very sad feeling, feeling that my life is not perfect, feeling that I am very powerless.

It's a very bad experience, and it can also have a serious impact on your mood, and it can also make your mood very bad.

I can't count how many times I think about him a day, and I can't count how many times I feel sorry for him, knowing that the result of persevering like this will only bring disappointment again and again, but I still refuse to give up.

The reason why I am reluctant to let go is because there are too many good memories between the two, and those lonely times, you warm each other and encourage each other to move forward. On those days when you can't see the light, he is like a warm sun enveloping you, bringing you hope and warmth.

His existence makes you suddenly find meaning in your ordinary life, because of him, you begin to become soft and sensual, and because of him, you slowly understand love.

You thought you could always be by his side, your eyes moving with him, your heart rising and falling with him, as if the whole world was just you and him.

But sadly, you can't be together like you used to, or rather, he doesn't plan to love you anymore.

It's just that love is a thing, how can it be fair, even if he is gone, your heart is still stubbornly stuck in place, motionless.

It's like sometimes, I understand the truth, but my heart says no. I know that I don't love anymore, but I'm still waiting stupidly; I knew that I would be hurt, but I was still stupidly giving in, like falling into an endless nightmare.

And the only way to end this nightmare once and for all is to force yourself to leave, or let time consume all your love for him.

I myself have always been a humble existence in my relationship, always paying silently, and taking the initiative to lose. It wasn't until my boyfriend got along with another person during the Cold War that the last defense in my heart collapsed.

That night, I woke up crying and sleeping in nightmares all night, and the next day I continued to eat with my friends like I was nothing.

It was the other party's ruthlessness that completely consumed all my passion and love for him.

There really is no one who will be wishful thinking for long. Seepage.

I was paranoid that as long as there was one person who could make me love with my heart and lungs.

Even if he doesn't love me that much, as long as he's always there for me.

But now, I don't want to waste it anymore. I don't want to love someone who doesn't deserve it in my limited life.

Because that kind of love only touched yourself in the end, but couldn't move others, just like you stupidly gave all your youth for him, but he only used one sentence to deny all of you.

In this world, some people fall out of love, some people love to count but can't, we have all struggled, worked hard, hit the south wall, and also had the empty joy of a dream.

But at the end of the day, we're all tired, we don't want to be humble, and we don't want to take the initiative anymore with someone who doesn't respond.

I love you, but that's all it takes.

Summary. The so-called lack of love should just not have the intense emotions of the past, which is normal, if it really reaches the stage of hating and talking about breaking up, there will be no reluctance. You are reluctant to prove that you are used to having the company of the other person, and even if you really have no feelings, there will be some kind of "family affection" that is formed by some habit, so you can't do it all at once and not contact at all.

Hello. Hello, I want to ask, if you can't let go of a person, can you still not love that person?

The so-called lack of love should just not have the intense emotions of the past, which is normal, if it really reaches the stage of hating and talking about breaking up, there will be no reluctance. You are reluctant to prove that you are used to having the company of the other person, and even if you really have no feelings, there will be some kind of "family affection" that is formed by some habit, so you can't do it all at once and not contact at all.

He said that he couldn't let go of me, but he just didn't love me anymore, is this statement contradictory?

However, I could also really feel his love for me, and he said that when he came into contact with other people of the opposite sex, all he thought about was me.

But he just said that he didn't love me anymore, but he just couldn't let go, and he didn't want to start a new relationship and resist other members of the opposite sex.

This statement is not contradictory, it is because you have a good connection with each other, you give her a very comfortable feeling, and she can enjoy it without loving her.

How can it not be contradictory? He can't let go of that kind of deformity, and I can feel his feelings for me, if I don't love him, will I not be able to let go of someone? I don't think so, if you don't love it, you will let it go, and if you love, you will definitely not be able to let go.

He may be greedy, you don't refuse, he is the more, the better.

No. That's that you want to let go of him, he doesn't want to, and he still loves you.