If you don t love me, why did you accept me in the first place?!

Updated on psychology 2024-06-20
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Let's connect with the same fate!

    I don't think such a person is worth your nostalgia, and the person who never tells you about the future really can't be your husband. He and the woman will not walk into the wedding carpet together. Such people have no sense of responsibility.

    Personally, I think he's not mature enough now, he just treats love as a fun thing, and he likes the new and hates the old, so don't be so sad about yours. When I think of him, I shout: I hate you.

    Then put your mind to something else ... It's going to get better.

    It is easy for someone who has just fallen out of love to fall in love with another person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't want such a man!! I want to open a point.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Hello. If you listen to my thoughts, it's to give up, there's nothing to be nostalgic about, you're just a guest of his, and a woman has to find someone in this life who knows how to hurt herself. In the world of love, no one is perfect The sky is still beautiful without him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Have you been stupid once and are you going to continue to be stupid again?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This kind of male. You don't have to be so upset.

    Seriously. Then learn a lesson next time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Only when you lose do you know how to cherish, and what you lose is the best, but I think you should fulfill them, in my opinion, there is a great possibility for such a boy to play.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sex is only part of the story.

    Look away, he doesn't deserve to be so sad about you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Straight to beat him to death.

    Throw it into the Pacific Ocean.

    What can a guy with a lot of brains achieve?

    He won't give you happiness.

    Leave him, this is advice to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Men are basically like this, 95% of the time is likely to be that he has been with you for a long time, a little numb, went outside to find a fresh one, and now it is still in the fresh stage, after a few days or a month, he is tired of the woman, and he will come to you again, rest assured, the probability of coming back to you is 99%, hehe It's normal for men to betray you women physiologically, it's just the difference between you you and you don't know, wait, I'll come to you in less than a month, because I have had this situation before, and my girlfriend for more than a year, Suddenly I was obsessed with other women for a month, and when my ex-girlfriend forgave me, I still went to the latter, but when I slept with the latter for a month, I would think about the former, and within 2 days, I resumed the relationship with the former.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You're not wrong, everyone's needs are different, and the limits of what you can wait are different. Maybe you have tested him for more time than he can bear, maybe you worry too much, or maybe he is not the one who can stay with you for a long time, please don't be overly sad, I hope you can find the ultimate happiness.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think you broke up with him very right, he is not a man worthy of your love. It's changed just because you don't give it to him. In the past, I used to take you to travel to get you, such a person will not be happy even if you are with him again, I think your reserve is very good.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The earth is round, people will change, the original promise and the vow are bullshit, you can't have any illusions about him, can the chrysalis that has become a butterfly still be called a chrysalis? Give up this painful experience, calm down, and continue to find your true love.

    Some people, some things, seem to be fate, seem to be destined, but in fact, God just played a joke on us, don't take it seriously.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He doesn't love you anyway, he just needs you, and since you can't meet his needs, he leaves!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not too late to leave him now, the pain is temporary.

    In the long run, you are lucky, you are still young, which is better than suffering for a lifetime.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let him go, you have wings and can fly higher.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is the nature of men, and since they are already together, let them be together. If you want to open up, a good man has, not to mention that he treats you like this. Be resolute and don't want him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's more likely that it will be needed

    Looking at what you wrote, I think you should forget about him early, no matter how much you love him, but he is not worthy of your love

    Your insistence is correct, he is unreliable, he just broke up with his ex-girlfriend and found a new one, and he can imagine how serious he is about his relationship So I think you are still quite lucky that you did not entrust him with your lifelong happiness

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A man who can't give himself a future, what do you want him to do? Whether he loves you or not, you are not destined to be together, long pain is better than short pain, separation is good, time is the best medicine, slowly re-evaluate your wounds, and there is another man worthy of your love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes! Because of an insecure man like him, you better give up! You should be glad you didn't give it to him! And the woman he is looking for now is just a momentary coolness, and it is estimated that it won't be long before he gets tired of playing and changes again! Forget about him sooner! There are a lot of good men!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is nothing that this kind of man likes or dislikes, he just needs it! It's not worth your sorrow for him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't be sad for this kind of man, break up and get rid of it, and you will find someone more suitable for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    He doesn't love you.

    It's acceptable for men not to love, unlike girls.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's really not worth it for this garbage.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In my opinion, you should pick up your self-esteem and leave

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    A white-collar beauty friend confided in me about such a thing, and the following is her account:

    He was very good to me, but I found out that he was not very rich, he had worked for almost 1 year and had no savings, he didn't earn 3800 a month, he couldn't afford to buy a house and a Ferrari, I was a little hesitant, if the two of them didn't have a house to live in the future, they couldn't open a cannari, and they probably wouldn't be happy. In order to avoid him, I went back to my hometown for several months and did not see him, and during the Lantern Festival, I ran to my city to see me without permission, and I said to him: I won't see you, how can you tell me to see happiness if you can't afford a house?

    Then he went back in disgrace. Since then he's been working all day long, saying it's for me to work hard to buy a house and a Ferrari.

    Who knew that I was actually pregnant that time, I didn't dare to tell my parents, so I told my boyfriend, he persuaded me to take the child, but how painful the miscarriage was, and the child was innocent! He said, "If you don't take the child, what will you do in the future, who will feed him, and then tell me how the child will behave in the future?"

    Tell me, "What is this that he is talking about?" Since he loves me, he should accept my children, he should love the house and the Wu, as long as I gave birth to you, you should feed you, right?

    I reasoned with him, but he said it was my fault.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't be sad, sister, in my opinion, he didn't really care about you before, he just scolded you, in order to get your body, if he really loves you, why wouldn't he want to wait for you anymore? If you love someone, you will be willing to wait for her, and the one who wants to get your body so quickly will definitely not be a good man, so there is no true love in his eyes. Personal humble opinion, for reference only.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    He needs sex, not a wife for the rest of his life! If you can't accept him and he doesn't understand you, I don't think we will be happy even if we are together! I don't know how many encounters there will be in my life? One day you'll be enlightened!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're lucky enough to meet a man who isn't very bad (I'm talking about him for you) and who has not forced you to do something you don't like.

    What do you want to do? And didn't you say that he just broke up with his ex-girlfriend and was with you? Do you have one.

    Ever wondered what state he was in? Security! Men sometimes need more than women, and he also wants to find a place to lean on!

    It's very simple that he broke up with you, you can't give him what he wants, and you don't know him very well.

    It's only sexual) Being with you makes him feel very tired (maybe he can't forget some of the previous things at the time, or maybe there are other reasons) He tries his best to disguise himself, because he doesn't want to continue to hurt you! Didn't you also say that he was nice to you when he was with you? If it weren't for the fact that he still has feelings for you, what would he do?

    It's definitely not just that, you forgave him, and you didn't keep him? Why? Have you thought about it?

    In his heart you may be a good girl, he doesn't want to hurt you, maybe he feels unworthy) If he is really bad before you get you, you keep him, he must eat you and let go!! That's when you know what a deep hurt is. How do you know he's happy right now?

    How do you know that he and the woman must have done that kind of thing? Didn't anyone say you did that kind of thing when you were together? But have you done it?

    Even if he does it with the woman, it's nothing (because you may not be the same as the woman in his heart), and the girl who is with him now may be more miserable than you in the future. He was right to break up with you, you were right to leave him, you weren't suitable for him, he must have been very conflicted, and at the same time very complicated! He probably doesn't know himself.

    Leave him!! Be nice to yourself!! He also felt better.

    You're talking about him, very much like me before and doing the same thing, really like, two years later, it's still so heartbroken! It's still hard to forget her, but I don't regret leaving her at the time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your question is quite poetic!

    But things don't seem so poetic!

    Admit your bad luck! There are many good men in the world! Out of the shadows, the light is in front of you, I wish you a happy soon!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    His love for you is not a need, but at least he has liked you, if a man is willing to spend money on you, how much is there for him, but for him, the woman who gives him his needs is more suitable for him at this stage.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No one can say this well. Because we're not, he simply doesn't know what he thinks! Love is like that. Sometimes it's simple, sometimes it's complicated. It may be that he loved you and now he doesn't love you, or it may be that he wants that, only he knows best in his heart that what I want to persuade you is if he changes.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Sometimes I feel like watching these things is really like watching a movie, and sometimes I really think that there is only such a plot in TV dramas. I can't say anything to you, only good luck . Tomorrow should be better ...

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    He seems to be more sexual. If you really love him that much, you can go to him and ask him for clarification, and give yourself a decision. Don't be miserable here anymore.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's good if you continue to love him, it's useless to care so much!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Admit to meeting a rotten man, that's all.

    You don't have to care if he really likes you, it has nothing to do with who you are today. Looking ahead, if you were bitten by a dog, why should you care why the dog bit you at that time?

    Have a good time, you will meet a man who is suitable for you, there is no need to worry about a broken man in the past, he is insignificant, only you are uncomfortable.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hey, he values sex more than you, and there's no way around it, so forget that he found someone who is more suitable for you!!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    That's a prejudice, but if you're married and you're not divorced, it's unacceptable if you don't.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Think about it clearly, whether he really loves you, if he really loves you, he will care about your past, he cares very much, but that is from the perspective of caring, but will insist on being with you, if he can't accept that you are married or not, you cheated on him, you didn't tell him that you were married when you were in love, if so, then you are wrong. The premise of true love is not to hide from each other and to open your heart.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's really a headache, and I feel the same way.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Somehow, as soon as I heard your voice, I had a special sense of relief, as soon as I saw your appearance, I was very down-to-earth, I was originally a particularly greedy, particularly restless person, but since I saw you, I found that people are really not unchangeable, whenever I walk beside you, feel your presence, smell your breath, I will have an extremely strong sense of satisfaction. I am a person with ideals, I have my own goals in life, and I have no intention of changing the path of my life, but why do I have such strange thoughts? The feeling I felt after meeting you was something I've never felt before, I don't know why I felt this way, I didn't know what it meant?

    Do you know?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Girls actually want you to tell her how much you love her with actions, rather than saying some sweet words, of course, sometimes you have to add words to express your love, what you really say to her is your own sincere words to her!!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's very simple, but I don't know what kind of person he is, it's quite difficult.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    After all, every girl wants to enjoy the feeling of being chased, and maybe she likes you, but she is not ready to be with you, after all, it is not easy for two people to be together. Keep insisting, you have to believe that love never always rejects love. Most of the girls are easy to chase, but you must treat her well.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    What Q told her... She needs a time to prepare.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Like and love are two different concepts, you can figure this out first.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Well, I guess she just likes you. You've thought about it too much.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's normal, girls like a lot of boys. However, that doesn't mean she's willing to be boyfriend and girlfriend with you.

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