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Really powerful people are "silent" and insist on different ideas.
What is this society most afraid of? It is a very sad thing for a person without a mind, if a person cannot think independently and has no ideas of his own.
A really good person is definitely a silent person, because they know what they have to do and how they can do it. Instead of being in groups as a whole and not doing business.
A really powerful person absolutely keeps this idea of his own, even if his idea is different from that of many people, but they still insist on it, because it is their own idea. The scariest thing in this world is that everyone thinks the same way. There is no other idea.
So many people, if everyone has one opinion on one thing, it proves that all people are assimilated.
Silent people seem to have few words, but in fact, they don't like to talk nonsense, because they know that talking nonsense is not beneficial, it is better to do more meaningful things.
And insisting on their own different ideas, that is the persistence in their hearts. No matter how much gossip there is, they will only stick to what they think in their hearts.
Very good people, really good people, often their goals are very clear, and they don't need others to guide them at all, because their ideas are very independent, they can see things clearly by themselves, so they don't need the guidance of others.
What's more, some people don't really mean to help you, they just like to impose their own ideas on you, and they don't really care about you.
Therefore, really powerful people like to be alone, they don't like to be disturbed by ordinary life, they don't like to be controlled by ordinary life, and they don't like to be controlled by ordinary life.
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I feel that people who are really powerful are relatively low-key, they will not show off their talents, comparative strength is not to show off, it is more important to silently improve themselves, of course, some people are more silent because of their own character.
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Why the more silent people are, the harder to mess with, is as follows:
1. Don't say it, it doesn't mean ignorance, many times, I just feel that it's unnecessary, I don't see through it, it's a kind of maturity, I understand that some things should be said and some things should not be said; Silent people know how to observe, they observe the situation around them, they observe the character of the other person, what the other person wants, so as to think about what they should say.
2. People who know in their hearts know who is right and who is wrong, and they do not easily judge who is right and wrong, they understand that other people's lives are someone else's, and their own life is their own, and they don't need to ask for trouble.
3. The more people who don't say it, the more they know in their hearts, they are not impatient when they encounter problems, they can stabilize their emotions, and they will not be easy to lose big because of impatience. There are contradictions everywhere in life, there are rights and wrongs everywhere, we need to deal with them with a peaceful mind, avoid contradictions, and solve problems peacefully.
The Silent Man:
1. My mood is very silent, I will not go up and down, and I can always keep calm and think.
2. When encountering entangled things, he is very silent, knows how to "brake with static", and will not let himself fall into endless entanglement.
3. He is very silent in love, "talk less and do more", and use practical actions to capture the other party's heart.
4. He is very silent when it comes to money, "wealth is not exposed", even if he has a lot of money, he will not be envied.
5. He is very silent in terms of development direction, which makes others feel "unexpected", and when he succeeds, others can only be out of reach.
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A silent person, always inconspicuous, can't even feel his existence, a little silly, but all this is superficial, when you really understand a silent person, you will know that his heart is very strong, he is with a strong heart, inclusive of all things, so that all restless things, tend to calm, into invisible.
Lu Xun wrote in "Hometown": "I think: hope is indifferent to what you have, and what you don't care about. It is like the way of the earth; In fact, there was no road on the earth, but when many people walked, it became a road. ”
There's nothing to fuss about, everything can be fine. "In this life, except for life and death, everything is a trivial matter." A person's success is not a road to the dark, but to know how to adjust the direction, even when there is no road, as long as you insist on walking, open the road in the mountains, and build bridges in the water, you will also walk through.
Really powerful people, when they encounter anything, keep silent, control their mood, and look for an exit in calm. He knows that there is no road in life, only those who do not want to go. Instead of complaining about life everywhere and chattering about God, it is better to "forge ahead".
The more silent a person is, the stronger and broader his heart becomes.
Those who are in a mood with ups and downs, and those who can't keep their calm, are always impetuous in doing things, and even easy to give up halfway. It's not that things are hard to do, it's a lack of patience and perseverance. When the mind is confused, it is chaotic to do things and create a chaotic situation by itself.
Really powerful people can always get out of those tedious things, maybe they will lose part of their interests for a while, but they also get if they lose. At least I got a chance to do it all over again.
If a person is always entangled in letting go or not worrying about the past, then he will slowly lose himself, and the present day will be full of fear.
A person, the more things he is entangled in, the more time and energy he wastes, and when he entangles others, he loses both. Even to have hatred for their own children, they have to guard against other people's "revenge" anytime and anywhere. A smart person knows how to "settle a grievance rather than a knot", be kind to others, and get rich in harmony.
It's better to put down all the entangled things, keep silent, let others be embarrassed to say anything, and give yourself a "sigh of relief".
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Most of the people who are very "silent" in these 4 aspects are really powerful people! How many do you know?
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Really powerful people have keen insight and thinking ability beyond ordinary people. "The Tao is different, do not conspire with each other", know how to stay away from people who have left opinions with themselves, because in each other's inner world, the most difficult thing to make up for is the distance caused by the difference in IQ. A really powerful person is a low-key person who will not show himself in the circle.
He rarely speaks in the circle, and is a "lonely" bystander. I didn't meet someone at the same level, I didn't meet someone who understood him, "I don't talk more than half a sentence", and it's useless to say it. Really powerful people generally have various resources beyond ordinary people.
They will hide their strength and operate their own business and life alone. Not ostentatious, not impetuous, not showing off, will not let you know how much strength and energy he really has. He is like a ripe rice with his head bowed humbly.
It's not like an empty shell of straw, showing off in the wind! Low-key humility is the way of life, but also a virtue!
The emotional collapse of adults is always unprepared and quiet and terrifying. A sudden collapse is often a grievance that has been endured for a long time. During the day, he is desperately tense, he will laugh happily, he will patiently make a cup of tea, and he will smile at strangers.
In the middle of the night, the sadness that has been suppressed for too long wells up in my heart, and the mood is extremely bad, but you can't scold, you can't do anything, you can't cry, even if you reach the limit of what you can bear at that moment, you just don't speak. This is the collapse of adults, they don't want to live, but they don't dare to die, they want to say something but they still don't say a word, and they stay up night after night.
People who go to bed early seem to avoid the sudden emotional breakdowns and tossing and turning every night. People who go to bed late always listen to the song and secretly swallow the darkness and silence behind the night. It turns out that such delicate makeup, so many smiles are cover-ups.
Masters are always lonely. It's not that he is willing to be lonely, but there are not many people who can stand up and look down on the world. Therefore, loneliness is not pain, only the lonely can have the world.
Therefore, loneliness is not sorrow, only the lonely can reach the wilderness.
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Yes, it's because these people are generally more scheming, and they know more things, but they will keep all these secrets hidden.
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Yes. Because such a person is very thoughtful, and he is also very scheming when he treats others, he actually has a lot of thoughts in his head when he is silent, and this kind of person is really not to be underestimated.
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Yes, because only the silent can calm down and do something, and it will be a little more stable.
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Yes, people who know how to be silent are really powerful people, such people have a number in their hearts and are more thoughtful.
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In this society with developed networks, people generally choose to spend time on the Internet, and there are always some people in everyone's life who don't like or are not used to it, but people are complex animals. Most of the time, even if we don't like the person, we still maintain basic etiquette in social situations. But your heart is full of discomfort, and even in order to cater to the other person, you have to say something reluctant.
Since we don't think badly of each other, don't connect with each other. Many people naturally and slowly move away from social circles that think this way. I think many people think they can't socialize and may fall into the misconception that socializing means going out to various activities and having a good conversation with others.
But that's not the case. Social interaction is a kind of interpersonal communication, there are no clear boundaries, and when you talk and eat with friends, you are socializing.
Someone else chatting with a community is social, it's just a matter of scale. If he could meet someone like him, he would be more and more silent. As an example, it's clear that you're talking to someone:
You talk about Mo Yan's **, he talks about tomorrow's**, if you don't speculate in half a sentence, you might as well not say it. When a person has an independent and complete personality, he rarely needs to get a sense of survival from the outside world and play with himself: reading, writing, growing grass, having pets.
So it's good to say that most people are becoming more and more silent in a sense, because it shows that our hearts are strong enough not to be recognized and appreciated by the outside world, but to use our time wisely and do more valuable things.
Luo Yonghao himself is a logical thinker, he exhibited some points of view in **, especially tasteful, can be thought-provoking, the essence of a book in a very short period of time to dissect it, as if he finished reading this book, can save us a lot of time to provide us with great convenience, so everyone likes him very much.
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