What should I do when I am in debt and think of death?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In fact, this kind of despair is not brought to you by debt, and gambling is given to you, if you continue to gamble, this despair will haunt you forever, I am also because of gambling debt, although I am not as much as yours, but your income is indeed several times mine, that is to say, the degree of debt we are the same, there is no other way, only quit gambling to pay off debts.

    First, you have to sell your property as much as possible to pay off your debts, you are a bank employee and you should know better than me, and if you are not sued, your property, including your house and car, will be confiscated. So I suggest that you sell what you can! After the things are gone, you can still make money to buy.

    Second, confess to your family and try your best to let your family help you, because there is great power in numbers, and now the only people who can help you are your parents, and no one else.

    Thirdly, keep your job as much as possible, I don't recommend running away, although you will be under a lot of pressure, even very painful, but these are because you have done something wrong, you have to accept punishment, run away, you can be sure that you will be okay? Do you think you can run away from this? Have you spent the rest of your life on the run?

    Your job now earns a lot of money, you go out, you don't earn so much, remember what I said.

    Fourth, and most importantly, that is to leave gambling forever, if you don't leave this thing, even if you pay off your debts, you will repeat the same mistakes until you waste your life.

    As for suicide, I think it's nonsense, at the age of 28, you want to commit suicide, I think it's ridiculous, don't you think? If you are 58-68, you will commit suicide, but you are only 28 years old, your life has just begun, how can you give up easily, if you pass this level, there will be nothing difficult for you on the road of life in the future.

    Mentality, you need a strong heart now, you need a calm mind, and you need to be calm in everything you do now. Friends, we just owe money, we don't owe life. Don't choose to run away, face it positively, and pay it off in about 10 years with your income.

    Maybe it won't take that long, and it won't be a lifetime to pay it back. It's useless to say, you have to think calmly, how you go your own way still depends on yourself, what others are saying is meaningless!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Such an idea is extreme and meaningless, and should be reinvigorated, or at least take another risk.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In addition to life and death, what other major events are there in this life, if you are not even afraid of death, there is no flame mountain that you can't pass.

    Debts must be repaid, because you have to be reputable, but when you die, your debts will be rotten. I will negotiate with the other party to repay it in installments, and if the other party is still unwilling, let him sue the court, willing to gamble and lose, and be willing to go to jail, so as not to drag down the family.

    The old man often says: There are always more ways than difficulties, and no matter how worried you are, it will not help, what should you do? Put down your body, put down your face, you can't make big money, you can earn small money.

    Hangzhou express brother gets up early every day, earns a little money every day, and buys a house in Hangzhou.

    I once read a story about a coachman pulling a cart of porcelain, and due to the bumps, he accidentally fell and broke one of them, and he just glanced at it and left, without even stopping his steps. Passers-by asked him: Why don't you go and look at the porcelain when it is broken?

    The coachman said, "Since it has been broken, even if you stop and look, it will be useless, so why bother?" It's better to keep going.

    Life is not easy, work your own, everyone has their own difficulties, living is a proof, life is a competition, see how you taste!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1. The wrong mode of thinking will lead to a tragic end.

    2. Money is dead, whether it is paper money or digital yuan, it will not force you.

    3. In most cases, it is you who can force you.

    4. When the creditor collects debts, he generally will not urge him, otherwise he will break the law. It's not the old society anymore, you can fight and kill.

    5. Being in debt shows that you have dared to think and fight. This is your advantage and cannot be forgotten. However, we need to sum up the lessons and see what we have not considered well and improve them.

    6. Don't stay at home, go out to find a job, you can consider changing cities. If you continue to improve yourself in your work, you will definitely have noble people to help you.

    7. You don't have to pay the bills, but you can keep the accounts, and if you earn it, you will pay it back little by little. Get it right, and you'll be done in a year or two. I've seen a lot of people like that. Even if it's five years, ten years, what's the matter!

    8. Ten years later, use your own performance to witness your own growth and prove your strength. It's not too late!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, do whatever you want, just do it, no one will drag you down. If you die like that, it's really not worth it. If you have to die, buy an insurance policy to make a final contribution to the family.

    Don't just die silently, it's not worth it. On the other hand, there is nothing to die for, and it is not to fight and take the lead. If you take the lead, it's not yet certain if you'll die.

    There are still survivors. Some are alive, and he is dead; Some are dead, and he is still alive. You can't do the latter thing, but it's good to ask you to do the former, and contentment is happiness.

    Live with your dead mind, it's the best way to deal with debt. So I think if you're in debt, you feel cornered, and you're forced by money to think about suicide.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I am in debt, but I am relaxed, adjust my mentality, live according to the original way, slowly increase my confidence, just get through it, don't think about suicide at any time, read more books, learn lessons, and start learning again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the debt is so heavy that I am cornered, I will not commit suicide, because it is not easy for people to come to this world, it is not easy to give a life, and my younger brother will go to work to pay off all the debts, and one day he will pay off the debts, and there will be a bright future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When people come to this world, it is not easy to give a life, and they actively work hard to pay off all their debts, and one day they will pay off their debts, and there will be a day when they will come out. One cannot give up on anything easily and approach things with a positive mindset. Only struggle can lead to hope.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Put down your money, find a place to work honestly, and pay a fixed amount of money every month. Set yourself down first. It's all useless to settle down. I owe the bank and so on.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Think of the good things in this world.

    As long as you are willing to work hard, you can pay it back.

    Luo Yonghao has a debt of 600 million yuan, and he will sell the company and start a new business is almost over, and the world will not treat a person who works hard.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Dispel suicidal thoughts in advance, lay out your life for the future, and work step by step to earn money to pay off debts.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, I think that only by being brave enough to face these problems, suicide is useless.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can't pay off your debts if you commit suicide! Although you committed suicide, maybe these debts will fall on your relatives, but aren't you too irresponsible? Although they may help you pay it back, you are still in debt, and it becomes a debt to your relatives.

    Debts must be repaid, don't think that you don't need to pay them when you die, it will be converted to another way. While you are alive, you can work hard and make money, and you may pay it back, and you can live well again if you pay it back. Even if you can't pay it back, you will always take a little less debt.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you pay off the debt, you want to kill yourself again, at that time, no one will stop you!! If you don't pay off your debts, you want to escape, no wonder you are so sad!! A person who has no sense of responsibility, who has no responsibility...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you're stressed, go eat something delicious and don't overthink it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I understand, but don't!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello dear! Seek help from relatives and friends; If you owe too much debt to repay, you can confess to your family and tell the truth. Enlist the help of relatives and friends to help you get through this temporary difficulty, and promise to pay it off in the future, and if necessary, write an IOU.

    sale of property; If you have a property or a vehicle in your name, you can sell it first to repay the loan, and you can buy these things again in the future, and get through the current difficulties first. This method can solve the urgent need, but it is also a last resort. negotiate repayment; Whether it is an individual creditor or a lending institution, don't run away from the repayment problem first, the money you owe always has to be repaid.

    Express your good willingness to repay, then explain your current situation, negotiate a postponement of repayment or installment repayment, and reduce your repayment pressure. Generally, you will agree to the installment that you do not repay, after all, blind persecution cannot solve the problem well. Life is very good, you can't give up because of this little thing, you can make more money if you don't have money, people are really gone, think about your family.

    If you have any problems, you can confide in me, maybe I can help you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Everything can be solved, not by ending a life. The debt can be paid in installments with the consent of the creditor.

    Legal basis: The parties must perform on legally effective civil judgments and rulings under Article 236 of the Civil Procedure Law of the People's Republic of China. If one party refuses to perform, the other party may apply to the people's court for enforcement, or the adjudicator may transfer it to the enforcer for enforcement.

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