What should I do if I fall in love with someone I can t love?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-25
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't force yourself to give up this feeling now, otherwise it will be very painful in your heart. I think you can maintain a good friend relationship with this man, no one is perfect, and the more you have contact, you will naturally find some of his shortcomings, and more and more, at this time you will never feel that he is perfect again, and you will even think about how you fell in love with this kind of person in the first place. And your boyfriend loves you, so he will always accommodate you and be good to you, at this time you will love your boyfriend more, and you will no longer feel so much for this man, and finally you can let go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hide your love for him deep in your heart, if you don't have the right attitude, maybe you will lose both of them, a little more love for your boyfriend is even a sustenance for him who can't be loved, love the boyfriend who loves you more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't know what it means to be unloved.

    If it's just because you have a boyfriend, don't care, the friend on the third floor is right.

    It is happiness for a person to find someone he loves to live his life, and it is a kind of satisfaction to find someone he loves.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If it's impossible, just forget him, just appreciate it with the eyes of a friend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you know it's impossible, don't start that relationship.

    Sometimes you can leave a good memory in your heart before you start.

    Set your mind right and be a good friend

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's better to find someone who loves you, and you will be happy for a lifetime.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Give it up! Don't be sorry for your boyfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You want to point. If you like one by one, choose one by one.

    Don't pay attention to other people's samples

    The most important thing is to live by yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is a sad fairy tale.

    Anyone who has read it has been left with more or less regret when we read it

    will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything.

    It doesn't hurt when we give up someone who loves you very much.

    Because we are likely to have a relationship with this person but have no part, and it is painful when we give up someone you love very much.

    Because it is very likely that we have a relationship with this person but have no relationship, when we fall in love with someone who does not love you, that is the most painful, because it is very likely that we have no relationship with this person and have no part.

    If there is fate, time and space are not distances.

    If not. Even if you get together, you can't understand.

    Don't worry too much about anything.

    There is no need to force it.

    Let's just let everything go with the flow.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't have the right to make you give up, but I think the most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, let alone an excuse for a negative life, giving up is a rational choice, a kind of cherishing, a kind of beauty, a deeper love. There is a saying that has not been said: sometimes the fate must be there, and the hit is not always forced.

    Every choice is always accompanied by pain, because the choice will lose some people and things that we do not want to lose. In life, we are always making choices, giving up, only by giving up, we can have the opportunity to find our own life, so that we will not miss the person waiting for us at the next intersection, in order to get out of the past and no longer indulge, in order to be painful and happy, in order to live happily. If one day, we can't have or give him (her) happiness, then why can't we choose to give it up sensibly?

    Even though every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to bear, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our life more fulfilling, which is also a kind of possession. Only those who know how to give up can truly heal the pain of the past, feel the pain, and have real happiness, which is by no means indulgent and avoidance, let alone forced to make joy and forced to forget.

    If you and I are destined to have no chance in this life, if he is destined to be a hurried passerby, then please let us learn to let go and know how to cherish it.

    Human life is entangled in many difficult and perplexing trivial matters, and what is needed at this time is to give up and make wise choices, and the only thing that will limit us is our own determination. Sooner or later, it will be yours, and if it is not yours, you will not be able to keep it.

    If there is fate, time and space are not distances. If you don't have a chance, you won't be able to meet all day long. If you don't have to care too much, you don't need to force it, just let everything go with the flow!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are some people who you have watched for a lifetime, but have ignored it for a lifetime; There are people you look at, but it affects your life; Some people are enthusiastic about you, but you are quietly neglected; Some people's unintentional expressions have become your eternal thoughts; Some people have been in love for many years, but you have rejected them for many years. Maybe that's life. Every one of us misses something every day, misses it without realizing it, and regrets it afterwards.

    So, I think it's best not to miss two things: someone who truly loves you and the last car home...

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is always too much helplessness in life, which is not something that people can control, love itself is right, what is wrong is that you love someone who should not be loved, since there is no result, then let it go, don't let yourself live too tired! It's hard to turn someone you love into a friend, a brother or sister, because you have to face her every day and have feelings for her. Try to treat it with a normal heart, think about it, try to find another love that belongs to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In everyone's life, you will meet a lot of people, all kinds of personalities, all kinds of different people, how many are your bosom friends? And how many people love themselves deeply? And how many of them do you love?

    Instead of seeking thousands of times, it is better to cherish the people in front of you. Love is not to wait for you to be free to cherish, we meet, it is fate, for this fate, we may be trying to adapt to each other, everything just wants to go with the flow.

    If you can find a person you like, who really loves each other, it is not easy, but what a great honor, maybe everything is not what you think, not so perfect, maybe not as good as you imagined, it should not be so bad, life is not so beautiful, all happiness must be cherished and cherished, say more caring words, less blame words, people need to understand each other. Lovers likewise wish friends happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Loving what you love is the most important thing. Since you are in love, you must dare to confess. Dare to face it. Of course, it's easy to say that. It's up to you to do it.

    If you still like him a little bit psychologically, then give her a chance. It's also a chance for yourself and love.

    To believe in him is to believe in yourself.

    Loving someone who loves you is happy.

    It is painful to love someone who doesn't say a word to you.

    If she is still indifferent, she will learn to give up.

    Giving up is also a form of love.

    This kind of love is to love oneself and not be hurt by others.

    True love doesn't. It's smooth sailing.

    But it definitely is.

    indestructible) - it depends on how the two sides grasp it...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If I were you, I would fight for it, and if he really didn't want to be with me, then let it go, and emotional things can't be forced by me.

    I once fell in love with someone I couldn't love.

    I never made it clear to him Later we graduated His friend told me that he liked me too I cried after listening to it I cried very sad because I missed the person I love Friend, if you really like him then you go for it Otherwise you will regret it in the future I support you If he rejects you Don't be sad Because at least you are brave You are brave You are brave enough to say what is on your mind Such people are rare Concentrate on me to support you Come on

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    That's because of that. It doesn't seem like so.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love someone and be a little more tolerant of him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, you'll be so tired that your heart dies!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Is that what you shouldn't love?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As long as you are not a close relative, you can love and be brave.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Learn to forget, forget what you shouldn't remember;

    Forget what is not your own; No matter how beautiful the scenery is, we can only do it for a short period of time. Life can't be perfect, it's too perfect.

    On the contrary, there are shortcomings.

    Forget the friends who have no fate, forget the feelings that can't be harvested, forget the troubles of flowers blooming and falling, and forget all the things that don't want to remember.

    West, don't deliberately pursue everything, what is yours is yours, not yours, no matter how hard you ask, you can't get it, it's good.

    Cherish what you have in front of you; Since I have lost it, I only hope that I can forget everything; Don't complain, don't hate; Indifferent one.

    Cut, the past is like smoke, experienced, drunk, broken, over;

    I have loved, hurt, and owned, and I have been deeply moved; Let everything go with the wind, and let the good stay in my heart forever; This.

    It's also a kind of happiness!

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In a word, you're a fool, and you hold back your feelings in your heart?? Torture yourself, it's better to say it, it's good for yourself, it's good for that girl, if you don't say it, it's never possible, you say you don't dare to love, you can't love, you will position yourself, and let us help you, you don't say now that you dare not love, you can't love, it's that you don't dare to admit that you have loved, if you don't love, you won't ask questions here, let go and chase it, even if you don't chase, tell him what you think, so that what you are waiting for is a result, I am a few years older than you, I am a person from the past, I've made your mistakes too, because of your timidity, you lost the girl you loved for several years, don't you feel sorry for yourself?? The girl I used to like, but now I have a boyfriend, and now I talk to my friends, and I know that the girl used to like me too, but I buried my feelings deeply, so don't make such a mistake, good luck.