I feel that my parents and relatives are really ruthless! 20

Hello, in the face of the problem you said, in fact, now this person is more realistic and very realistic, now some parents will not care even if they have children, everything about the child, only care about their own life, in fact, you should now think about your future life, earn your own money and spend it, be able to support yourself, face you, the second floor, think about some of the things they do, perhaps, some are too much for you, now relatives are like this, you are the sky if you have money, no money, you don't have a handful of dirt to step on it, so people nowadays are very realistic, sometimes money is indeed able to meet everything in people, but sometimes money can't buy anything.

Now the trend has changed, everything looks at money, and the competition for wealth is made. Even my uncle and nephew, I don't do anything if I don't get paid. Pro-wealth is pro-wealth, kindness sends out a monument of kindness, you don't need to be emotional, you want a salary to take it for granted, you don't want you to talk about family affection, and he doesn't talk about family affection.

Mother's relatives think that the proportion of a married girl with a foreign surname is like a sold field, and there is no need to think about your mother. Take advantage of your mother's relationship to get money, there is no sincerity, it is difficult for people to have sincerity to others, relatives have real intentions, people die for money, and birds die for food.

One generation is the second generation. The contemporary trend does not talk about kinship, only about love, and ruthlessly about fairness.

You can take a look at "What is Home"**!

Not everyone is suitable to be a parent, the same is true for relatives, those who can be stained with light will be close to you, and those who can't be stained will look down on each other, there is nothing to care about, work hard, live well is the essence!

I feel that my parents and relatives really hate, in fact, of course, because of the lack of material or money, they will show their own nature, and sometimes they will really recognize money and not people, you have to look at it.

I don't know if they are as you said, but I feel that since your parents and relatives are already like this, the only thing you can do is to be yourself, you can't change them, the only thing you can do is to adjust your state, work hard, live your own life, and be more self-reliant.

You may not be very old yet, if you go to school, just live on your own, if you're an adult, why not leave them? It's really important to go to school, and you can't run away from home just because of your parents.

Friends, society is like this, the world is now a turbid and evil world, and worldly life is full of traps and suffering, hurry up and learn the Dharma, and only after learning the Dharma can you get liberation.

Hehe! They're all old fritters!

I can only wait for that group of people to hang up!

They can't really play with them alive!

Now society is a money society, there is no way.

Probably not, are there such parents? Are you thinking a little extreme?

Can you play with him, you can make money desperately, make a lot of money, look at money as dead, how do they like to play with emotional intelligence, that is, we don't use money, and we are beautiful at will. It's just as carefree.

Why is it that the more parents are, the closer they are, in other words, the real relatives, the ones who introduce us to are precisely the ones who are the least suitable for us? Because these relatives often do not understand the child. Yes, you read that right.

My view is that our parents and these close relatives, they love us, but they don't understand us. What's even more terrifying is that they think they know us well.

Parents and those close relatives who care about us and love us always think that they know their children very well, know what they need, what kind of partner they like, in fact, they go to find a partner for their children according to their own preferences, in other words, what they think their children like. But in fact, when children become adults, their communication with their parents and relatives begins to be stylized, that is, they are very close on the surface, live together, and seem to see each other often, but they rarely communicate effectively. The words are simple communication in daily life, the kind of thought communication that is deep and touches the soul, and it seems difficult to achieve with parents and relatives.

First of all, there is a generation gap between the two generations, different values, and different views on many things. Therefore, it is difficult for young people to open their hearts to these elders, and their true thoughts will not be confided in them. Because they don't understand it, they are likely to interfere in their own lives.

Therefore, parents and elders are always wishful thinking about their children, and they think about it with their own ideas. The same is true for emotional matters. And this kind of speculation is often inconsistent with the child's real thoughts and actual needs.

You may say that parents have also been young, how can they not understand their children's emotional outlook at all? But in fact, that's how it is twisted. Many times, parents will feel that they have taken some detours and stepped on some pits emotionally when they are young, and they don't want their children to fall into them.

It is precisely because he was young that he had those wrong ideas and wanted to help his children correct them in time, so he is likely to follow his current age of thinking about feelings, and feel that what kind of person is more suitable for marriage and life, to shoehorn his own children, and also hope that his children will fully accept his emotional values.

Because you were born to your parents, and you are closest to him by blood.