I m Chinese New Year s Eve a year old today, and I m not married until I get married, and I tell peo

Thirty-one flowers for men, normal, but you have to make one first, you want to get married before you start making friends, it's a little late, you can ignore the external pressure, you have a girlfriend, they won't talk about it.

Thirty-one years old is not married, in Shenzhen is very, very normal, don't care what others say, go your own way, you feel good is good, you just have a good life, don't pay attention to other people's words, let alone because people are terrible and find a random one to complete the task, then you will regret it in the future! Take 10,000 steps back and say, marriage is destined, as early as five hundred years ago, the time is not to force it, and the time is to bloom, the fate can not be stopped, everything is in vain when it is not reached, now the diamond king is so good, where you want to go chic, if you get married, can you be so chic? So now there are also benefits now, cherish the good times now, play to your heart's content, and take care of your family when you get married in the future.

So it's still the same sentence, go your own way, and let others say it.

It's normal for a man to be unmarried at this age, but it's different for women I think you better go find one, and if you don't feel lonely for someone else, you have to find it.

Just introduce you to marriage, you don't have to jump, just make do.

1. Communicate with him first, ask him why he is unwilling to get married, and analyze the specific problems. At the age of 30, they are all adults, and the children have no other psychological problems, and they are generally busy with work. At the age of 30, it is a good opportunity to work hard for yourself, and you have delayed your life's events for work.

The reason why you can't find a suitable person in the analysis may be because the circle is narrow, or it may be because you can't express it, and then you need the help of the seven aunts and eight aunts. 2. With his permission, you can find him a blind date and let him try to talk about love by himself. Some people are not reluctant to get married, but they can't find a marriage partner.

In some places, there are more men and fewer women, and their children are more stupid, and they can't find their favorite partners. At this time, parents can help the child introduce the partner, and if there is a suitable one, let him try to fall in love first. Maybe you will be able to get married at some point.

3. Know how to understand and be considerate of him, don't force him to get married, don't interfere with his privacy, and give him more freedom. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, parents want us to live a happy life. The crux of the matter is that parents and children do not experience the same level of happiness.

Some people hope that they can have their own opportunities, and they don't want to force themselves to adapt to others if they don't have fate.

Summary. The first is the question of whether it is important in your own opinion, in fact, in the process. No matter what you choose, there's no problem.

The first is the question of whether it is important in your own opinion, in fact, in the process. No matter what you choose, there's no problem.

If you think that not getting married at the age of 30 is a terrible crime, and you don't want to get married, then this is really a problem.

In general, you can change your own point of view, you think that not getting married is a wrong thing, and in another case, you can make friends with the purpose of getting married, and then have an intimate relationship that adapts.

The essential purpose of not wanting to get married is that the other party does not bring you enough security, so you don't want to try to get married.

Hello, I am the father of my son, the two babies have known each other for six years, and the certificate has been obtained for three years, and the girl just doesn't want to do the wedding, and she lives together.

That's another question. The two of them are already married, they have also obtained certificates, and they have also lived in Yida, in fact, what he resisted in this process should not be the problem of marriage, what he resisted should be after the marriage, that is, after the two of them have to bear all kinds of pressure like adults after the wedding, what he is afraid of should be the pain brought to him by this external environment.

If there is no wedding, he can live more freely, they can be a little more relaxed like lovers, and they don't have to face the problem of having children. Waiting.

I am Chinese New Year's Eve, the youngest of my generation, and my aunts' children are basically married, and I am still single.

Why don't you still get married? Sometimes I ask this question too. I've been in a relationship since I was 18 years old, and when I was younger, it was basically seamless.

But when I get older, it's time to get married, but I don't know what I want anymore. Most of my friends around me got married and had children, but I was still unmoved.

My girlfriend asked me what I wanted. I said I didn't know. They asked me why I didn't want to get married, and I said that when I saw your married life, I didn't want to get married even more.

What is the purpose of getting married? Is it just for the sake of inheritance? If it weren't for love, if my life after marriage was more tiring than my own life now, then why would I get married?

That's what I really think.

They will also introduce me to people from time to time. But when I talked to people, I started to find fault with them. I don't like to fall in love for the purpose of getting married, I hope my marriage is because of love.

It's not because you're old enough to find a suitable one. But my circle is too small, and the chances of meeting someone who likes him and who likes me and who are particularly compatible with him are too small.

Once, by chance, a friend pushed me a platform called Xiaohongniang, saying that her boyfriend was found on this, so that I could have an interview here. I'm also bored to sign up. I really met a guy who I could talk to very well.

Within a few days we made an appointment to meet, because I am the kind of girl who is more anxious, and I thought to myself, if I can't do it, I can't do it, and I don't want to waste our time. After meeting, I found that I was very handsome, and I had no way that I was Yan Kong. And the voice is good, and the people are gentle.

I asked him why he wasn't married yet. He said he didn't know either, probably because he was usually more homely. Occasionally going out to play basketball is also with my brothers, and I rarely have female friends.

We weren't sure about the relationship at the time, and I didn't dare to ask, because I was a little afraid that people wouldn't look down on me. I thought to myself, if I don't get in touch, I just don't like it. As a result, the next day the boy sent an invitation, saying that he was going to play basketball and asked me if I wanted to join us.

I said yes. He took me to meet his brother that day, and when he returned, he naturally took my hand.

After he sent me home, I was still a little uneasy. Just send him a message and ask him what our relationship is. He directly called and said:

Aren't we boyfriend and girlfriend? I said, "I don't know, you didn't say you liked me."

Yes. "That's how we were together.

Now we're getting married soon. I never dared to think that one day I would meet someone who would allow me to let go of my fear of marriage and roll up my long hair to marry him.

Summary. If you are not in a hurry to get married in your heart, and you think that it is good to be single, then there is no need to rush to get married. The so-called rush to get married, I think, is more caused by social pressure, herd mentality, and a lack of clarity about the meaning of personal life.

Of course, for women, there may also be fertility considerations. Most people are married in their thirties, and they can't get married again. This kind of thinking may prevail.

But I don't think it's advisable. There are many reasons to get married, whether you want to start a family life through marriage, or because of social pressure, or to marry with a child, or to marry to protect love, the meaning is different. The last thing to do is the herd mentality and the pressure to get married.

Hello dear If you are not in a hurry to get married in your heart, and you think that it is good to be single, then in fact, Wu Yinxian is not in a hurry to get married. The so-called rush to get married, I think, is more caused by social pressure, herd mentality, and a lack of clarity about the meaning of personal life. Of course, for women, there may also be fertility considerations.

Most people are married in their thirties, and they can't get married again. This kind of thinking may prevail. But I don't think it's advisable.

There are many reasons to get married, whether you want to start a family life through marriage, or because of social pressure, or to marry with a child, or to marry to protect love, the meaning is different. Among them, the most unimitated is the herd mentality and the pressure of society to get married.

If you want to get married, you can get introduced by a parent.

Hello, dear, you can also tell me about the specific situation, and the teacher will analyze it for you, so that you can better answer it, oh dear.