An ordinary friend is in love, why do I feel depressed after knowing it? Am I stupid?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Reason 1: You may have feelings for him, but you haven't noticed it before.

    Reason 2: You can't go back to the old days, and you're sorry.

    Reason 3: After a long time together, you have become accustomed to each other, and you can't adapt to the loneliness all of a sudden;

    Reason 4: You are worried that he will be bullied;

    Reason 5: You are jealous. He has been single for a long time, and you continue to be alone.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's miserable. Judging from your high school life, you are not ordinary friends, and he cares about you so much that you have a sense of dependence on him, and subconsciously have a good impression of him, and you can't help but subconsciously feel it.

    You like him, but it's not very deep, and it's much better to go out and relax.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He cared about you before, which means that he likes you, maybe you don't realize it. You may think that he is just a classmate who cares about you. Now that he has found a girlfriend, you realize that you like him and care about him.

    So you will be sad, no matter what, it's all over, treat him as your best friend, and sincerely bless him. I believe you will also find your true love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you are a man, you are jealous of him, why is he better than me.

    If you're a girl! It's just that I have other ideas! Probably! ~!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This may be a kind of liking for him.

    If you can, go and grab it.

    If you can't get it back, call me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You like him, but you don't know it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I kind of like him. But since you missed it, be happy to see him happy, and find your own happiness. That's for the best.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    o() o Alas, I think you also like you as a friend, because usually he cares about you, helps you, makes you dependent on him, and when he has his other half, of course you feel uncomfortable, and I used to be like you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because you like him too.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Are you in love with him? Or do you think that someone is with him, and he won't spend so much time playing with you in the future? I guess you still have some feelings for him in your heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's what I want to ask, well, that's the difference.

    You can also touch and fiddle with it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, people are not animals. The difference between a lover and a friend is that you ignore your friend for the sake of your lover!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is called bonding, not necessarily love, it is a kind of emotion, it can also be sister and brother love, close friendship, and care. (It may also be a so-called crush, so like it silently.) )

    Don't try to know the answer, just enjoy it, time will slowly unravel the feeling. Observe for a longer time and take time to verify it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm jealous of you.

    You'd do this to her, but not to anyone else, would you?

    In this case, I like her.

    Maybe you don't admit it yet.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Not necessarily.

    Sometimes it's because you're in good tune together, and then someone of the opposite sex adds you and loses your security, so you think you like her or don't feel right.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I guess so

    It should be a sign of jealousy

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There's no way, fall in love, either make it clear to her, or accept your fate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Definitely... I'm going to do the same... Hey, I don't feel good.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It looks obvious! Tell her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think so! ~

    Because you care about him!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Ask yourself, what is fearing? Is it love? I'm afraid of losing.

    Humility and freedom lie in the fact that one is bound and the other is faced.

    How can there be joy in living in fear, with gains and losses in everything? Only when you come out of fear and discover the beauty of human nature will you feel the beauty of life.

    Don't be cautious and tremble because of momentary gains and losses, the more humble you are, the more you can't grasp true happiness. Life is not everything as expected, but we must do our best, face it sincerely, and let God decide what the result is. But I think that if you face it sincerely, even if you don't get him, your heart will be more beautiful, and in this way, more people will like you because of it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Someone told me to seize the opportunity and don't regret it later.

    I listened to it and thought about it for a long time, but I still seized the opportunity, and my current girlfriend is 13 years younger than me.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can't be an ordinary friend for the rest of your life.

    First of all, you have to learn to adapt, how to fall in love, learn to fall in love ......Continue.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it doesn't feel bad and the two people have a deep understanding, you can try to date and see if each other's personalities are suitable for boyfriend and girlfriend. If it was the right one, what a great choice. If it's really inappropriate after dating, it's too late to refuse, in short, don't leave yourself with any regrets.

    I hope you will finally be able to come together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Fate is in the sky, everything is fate. Do what you do now and don't delay your normal life.

    If you think it's impossible not to delay, you've already started to think about it, and you don't want to eat, then promise her. Because you like her very much in your heart ...

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I've met it too, but she didn't say it, and she didn't talk to me as a childhood sweetheart.

    As long as it hasn't started yet, it's okay to politely refuse.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Learn Kudo Shinichi and find an aptx-4869 to eat.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What's the trouble, a woman will meet three men in her whole life, one is that he loves you very much, one is that you love him very much, and the other is your true destiny, you love him and he loves you... So chick, all you have to do now is two things, one, clearly reject the boy who is chasing you; Second, tell the guy who seems to like only himself that you like him. Three, leave the rest to fate...

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, you have to be honest with him what you think, indicating that you have no good impression of him, you have no future, you can feel that your attitude towards him is very resolute, so you must make it clear, so as not to hurt others, emotional things can not be forced, I think that the long-term love is mostly the enhancement of friendship, and the face of a person who does not feel at all will really only become more and more disgusted!

    Secondly, you say that the person you like only likes yourself, you don't know him or he doesn't know how you feel about him, I think you still have to understand his personality, preferences, etc., and then consider whether you really develop with him!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think you should try to like the one who is good to you, and I don't recommend that you like one who doesn't like you. Because the former can give you joy and happiness, while the latter needs you to give him joy and happiness. Otherwise, you will bluntly say to the former that he said, "You are only ordinary friends", he should stay away from you sensibly, and the latter him, you still have to put the liking in your heart, otherwise you will be disappointed.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Reject his kindness to you, and he will understand what you mean. This needs to be insisted on, you can't refuse it this time, accept it next time, that will never come to fruition.

    As for the person you like, I don't know what to do anymore if the person you like doesn't like you!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You know? It hurts to love someone, it's good to be loved, you think about it yourself, feelings are a thing that can be said to go, what are the conditions of the people who like you, what are the conditions of the people you like? Let's make a comparison yourself, don't just like it and look at it, look far, your own life, beauty,

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There is no friendship between ordinary friends of the opposite sex, let alone that he still likes you, it is impossible to be friends. It's better to cut off his illusions, and don't care about feelings, it's good for all of you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Cut off all ties for a while, and time will change the status quo.

    Approve of some of his actions, slowly approaching.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's best to go with the flow.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Brother, why does this sentence read so tongue-twisting.

    It's also a little dizzy to understand.

    I guess that woman was kind of interesting to you, but that was just an excuse.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    What is this? Falling in love in order to be an ordinary friend with you If I really want to be an ordinary friend with you, I shouldn't fall in love with you If I talk about it, it's hard to be friends again Being a friend is not a relationship in the first place Can I still be friends after I break up? I can't believe it, or she thinks differently than anyone else, hehe.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Silly, I just want to be nice to you

    Generally, if you want to be a couple, you will first be an ordinary friend

    You're so coquettish, and you still ask everyone

    Sure enough, it's going to be stupid if it's its own

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Genuine concern doesn't mean talking about it, it's about knowing her mood and understanding her mood at the first time, even if you don't have to say it, but your actions speak for itself.

    Trouble, thanks!

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