Think of four things you can t do to get ahead, can you talk about it?

If you want to get ahead, don't do these four things, if you do it, you will hurt your body at least and you won't be able to turn over for the rest of your life.

First, don't fall in love with the brain. If you are at the age of 20 to 50, when you should be struggling, you are thinking about the love of your children every day, trivial things, and even gullible women say, I don't care if you have money or not, just be good to me, then you will lose a lot sooner or later, because the good she wants and the sense of security she wants are all inseparable from money. If you don't have money, you won't have a house, no car, no ticket, you will only be looked down upon, and in the end, you will be ruthlessly abandoned by the people you love.

Second, don't let anyone touch your bottom line. If you can't accept the betrayal, when the other half is chatting ambiguously with others, you should stop it in time, resolutely shout to stop, and don't let him be half-hearted in the relationship. If you can't accept other people's unreasonable requests, at the very beginning, you will decisively refuse, don't be too soft-hearted, don't be too kind, and don't be too real, it's human nature to pick and pinch softly, this is human nature, you don't want to be that unlucky persimmon, you have to stick to your bottom line, others know that you are not easy to mess with, and they will know how to respect you.

Third, don't hand over all the money to women, you have to leave a little for yourself, one is to package yourself, spend some money, and clean yourself up a little more decently and brightly, so that you can hold your head high, walk with the wind, and have the confidence to fight for your career. Second, it is used to improve oneself, whether it is to arm the brain with knowledge, or to accumulate contacts with entertainment, nothing can be separated from money. If all your funds are in your wife's place, and you have two dates in your pocket, it is estimated that you don't even have the confidence to talk and walk, how can others trust you?

Fourth, the last point is especially important, don't wear yourself out. A man must know how to feel sorry for himself, because no one can empathize with the suffering, tears, and grievances you swallow in your stomach, let alone bear it for you. When you are tired, just rest for a while, sleep for a while when you are sleepy, and don't exhaust yourself, otherwise it will be someone else who is cheap.

Don't be bullied by others, when you are bullied, you must be bold and fight back, don't be particularly timid, learn to fight, show special courage in opportunities, don't dare to negotiate conditions with the boss, be particularly bold when looking for someone to do things, don't be particularly afraid.

You can't not study, you can't betray your family, you can't betray your feelings, you can't be filial to your parents, you can't be dishonest.

You can't betray your friends, you can't be treacherous, you can't abandon your parents, you can't do illegal things.