How should sons be trained, and what are the things that must not be forbidden for children to do?

Many parents have their own set of education methods in educating their children, whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as the child's behavior conflicts with their own educational philosophy, it is the child's mistake. In fact, the educational methods are not fixed, and the educational methods for boys and girls, as well as for the education of children of different ages, are constantly changing.

Girls love to play with dolls, play house, hold hands with friends and whisper, and play coquettish with their parents; Most of the boys are running and jumping, shouting loudly, and chasing after me with friends. The book "Essential Differences: The Truth About the Brains of Men and Women" states:

The differences between boys and girls stem from their nature, but also from their different brain structures.

Therefore, in educating children, it is particularly important to understand the differences between boys and girls, so that children can be better educated, relatively reduce misunderstandings about children, and understand more children.

This is especially true for boys, many things may seem "incorrect", but please don't get in the way of your child's doing

Boys should have heard such a sentence when they were young: "Look at other people's little girls, sit quietly, can't you live in peace for a while?" When boys hear this, they are often very aggrieved, and then sit silently next to their parents, quietly.

Crying is actually a good way to vent, but adults often educate boys that "boys, crying is embarrassing", which leads to children's misunderstanding that a type of emotion that leads to "crying" is not allowed to be expressed, which will lead to children's low mood, which is not conducive to the venting of negative emotions.

Most boys have a rather heroic dream, whether it is an excavator or wanting to be Ultraman, this is a manifestation of boys' natural "aggressiveness", because boys have "aggressiveness" in their blood. Therefore, when educating boys, don't treat your child as a child who needs help anytime and anywhere, you need to think more about your child's request for help, and the more your parents "show weakness" in some aspects, the more your son feels stronger.

When raising children, we must let children use their imagination to do something they are interested in, we should let children do some things with strong hands-on ability, and we should let children like games such as Lego, which has great benefits for children's brain development.

The son should cultivate his independence, sense of responsibility, let the child decide his own things, let the child think for himself, do not prohibit the child to try, do not prohibit the child from expressing his ideas, do not prohibit the child from doing things that interest him, do not prohibit the child from making friends.

Children's creativity, thinking and self-reliance, parents should not interfere too much in these aspects.

In life, there are many parents who are faced with their children doing things, and the parents obviously do not let their children do it, but the children want to do it. When faced with such a child, parents should first understand why the child has some rebellious thoughts when educating the child. In fact, the first rebellious period of the child is generally when the child grows 2 or 3 years old, and the child is in the rebellious period.

When parents go out with their children, they do not let their children bring their toys, but the children are disobedient and have to take their toys on the road to play. Parents mainly because they should not have something inconsequential in their hands because they should not take something inconsequential in their hands because they are going out with their children.

As a parent, you should know that when educating children, there may be some children who will have their own ideas. But parents are always willing to impose their own ideas on their children, and even when they take their children to meet the door, they know that their children like to eat strawberries, but they will not consider buying strawberries for their children, but will directly buy watermelons for their children to eat. Because the parents of Jane Pants thought that in the hot summer, their children were only suitable for eating watermelon, but not strawberries, but the parents never considered respecting their children's opinions.

If you find that your child has rebellious thoughts at a young age, you should use language to educate your child and let him know that it is wrong for him to do so. At the same time, it is also necessary for children to understand that their own behavior is completely different from that of their parents. Only by letting the child understand why the parents do not let the child do this openly can the child become more obedient from the bottom of his heart.

No matter at any time, when parents educate their children, they will want their children to be more obedient at home. However, children are independent individuals, and children will also have their own ideas, and parents should not impose their own ideas on children. It is also important to understand that children are thinking from each other's point of view.

Parents should let the child bear the corresponding post-rolling dust, but also let the child know that such a thing can not be done, when the child bears the consequences, the child will not do this in the future, parents do not need to worry too much, and do not force the child to grind respectfully, should let the child try it appropriately, so that the parent will tell the child in the future, what can not be done, the child will not do it in the future.

At this time, parents must communicate with their children, understand their inner thoughts, praise their children more, and encourage their children.

You must praise your children more, care more about your children, and educate your children in an encouraging way.

Introduction: Parents in the process of educating their children to adopt the model is different, some parents pay more attention to their children's grades, so they choose to let their children focus on learning, parents only let their children learn, do not let children do other things they want to do, is this practice correct?

First of all, every child cannot regard learning as the whole of his life, especially learning textbook knowledge, which is actually just a stage in the process of growing up. So the child will definitely not want to do anything else, which is a normal situation that will happen to children. If parents ignore the development of their children, imprison their children's free thoughts, and let their children just study, the children will be very depressed.

If the individual's needs are not answered, then the child will be rebellious, or some of the more extreme situations. In addition, if parents only let their children study, their children will not improve their academic performance due to the increase in their study time, but will get worse and worse. Therefore, it is not correct for parents to do this, it is not conducive to the development of children, and it is not conducive to the cultivation of parent-child relationship.

And sometimes children will have some boredom when they are learning, and if you use your own interests to solve it, it is actually conducive to your child's growth. Therefore, parents like this method are relatively short-sighted and do not have any foresight.

In fact, in the minds of parents, the child should be an independent individual, not a child. If parents can establish the right awareness and respect their children at all times, then they will be able to see some conflicts in their children's growth, as well as changes in their children, and maintain a good relationship with their children in the process. In fact, everyone is constantly struggling and developing, parents need to grow, and children also need to grow, so we must respect children's development needs and children's ideas.

In this way, children will be more likely to succeed and more motivated in the process of social life.

Not correct, doing so will make the child withdrawn and will also affect the child's development, so the father's approach is very incorrect.

This approach is not correct at all, as long as the child learns and does not let the child do other things, the child will slowly become a learning machine, except for learning.

This is not correct, as it deprives the child of his hobbies and also deprives him of his freedom.

Family affairs, national affairs, and the world's fighting affairs, education is a major matter. Our children are different because of their gender. When we educate, we have to choose different ways.

What should we pay attention to when educating boys? I think it is important to educate boys about their bravery, their sense of responsibility, and their tenacious will. Only when the boy's physique is exercised well and he has a strong physique, the boy will be more manly.

In addition to daily life experience. In terms of reading, we must not be negligent, and we must let boys read the biographies of ancient and modern Chinese and foreign heroes. Let the boys know how heroes can make a big difference in difficult situations.

And boys need such a kind of air, faith, quality and character. In ensuring that boys do not lack calcium in their spirit during their growth, they will grow up happier and healthier. In the process of spiritual calcium supplementation, in addition to reading the biographies of heroes, you can also show up and tell your children with your father's own experience or the entrepreneurial history of your grandparents that boys should be fearless.

Pay attention to the courage of boys. In this regard, specific situations can be created, such as asking younger children to go to the commissary to buy something. Let him go around the dark room alone and turn on the closed ones.

Let the boys sleep in separate beds. You can even let your child take your own things out on the street and buy them. Some boys may not dare.

This is when our parents should encourage their children and tell them that they can succeed. In the long run, boys will not be afraid of the dark. No longer afraid to deal with strangers, and dare to buy things back.

At the same time, you can sell old things. Pay attention to cultivating boys' responsibility, tell boys not to hold back in anything, and try to do it first, regardless of whether it is successful or not.

The process of raising and growing up a boy is a long process, and we parents need to have enough patience and confidence. In this way, it is more conducive to the cultivation of boys' qualities. (**From the Internet, the copyright belongs to the original author.) ）

Ways to develop a sense of responsibility in your child. Parents should not do what children should do. Let the child take on some family responsibilities and do what is within the power of the first wisdom.

Such as feeding dogs, raising chickens, serving tea and tobacco to guests, washing dishes and celery, sweeping the floor, shopping for vegetables, etc. Develop a good habit of being diligent and responsible from an early age. If your child does something wrong, you should hold your child accountable.

Let your child know that he is responsible for what he does. Tell your child what to do and what not to do! Only when children do not give nonsense can they control their bad words and deeds and take responsibility for their own behavior.

Let the atmosphere of love fill the environment in which the child grows. Love is the lubricant for interpersonal interactions, and love is a necessity for children's growth. The teacher's love for the students will stimulate the students' enthusiasm for learning; Parents' love for their children is conducive to their children's healthy growth and becoming caring people.

When educating children, we should not adopt stick education, but communicate with each other on an equal footing with a peaceful attitude, understand their demands, give them correct guidance, so that they can form a correct outlook on life and Zen values, develop good habits, and cultivate their independent ability; Parents should set an example for their children, pay attention to family education, so that children can form a sound character, exercise their abilities in all aspects, and let them have the ability to think independently and be independent.

First of all, we must cultivate the child's sense of independence, cultivate the child into a little man, and make him have a sense of responsibility and responsibility. Don't spoil him in a mess.

From an early age, children learn to make independent judgments, learn self-control, have their own opinions, and not be affected by any other environment or anything.

How can you keep your children unaffected?

Parents should teach their children not to be influenced by the outside world and respond to the need to talk to their children well, so that children know that they need to become an autonomous person.

Parents should educate their children well, and they should talk to their children first.