When people reach old age, what things can t be done, otherwise they will bring trouble to themselve

1.You can't be stupid if you're not in good health.

Physical and mental health is the most basic condition for everyone to chase their dreams and gradually do all their behaviors. If you don't have a healthy body, you can't do everything you want to do with 10 points of energy. Lack of energy is the most frightening thing, so it is the duty of each of us to maintain good health.

Since it is an obligation, there can be no carelessness, which is also a kind of behavior that is responsible for oneself and is responsible for life.

As the saying goes, in order to expand interpersonal communication and connect human relationships, there are more and more wine tables, and some people have to run several times a day, and it doesn't matter if the stomach is uncomfortable, all in all, as long as you can hold on, you will definitely drink darkly. And according to the emotions promoted by drinking, it is usually difficult to maintain for a long time, and in the end, it is indeed the least expensive to obtain with self-esteem and discomfort in the human body. Therefore, do not do anything that is not good for your health.

2.The stupidity of conniving at the children to gnaw on the old people cannot be committed.

Every child is the palm of their parents, whether they are babbling babies or parents who have grown up, in the eyes of their parents, they will always be children. They are hard-working, tired, and angry, and they just want their own maximum strength, and give him everything better while they are also capable. Some parents have a poor grasp of the limits of their children's love, overly spoiling, and develop the habit of reaching out for clothes and opening their mouths for food from an early age.

Therefore, when they grow up, not only do they not know the heartache of their parents, who have already grown old, but they will continue to feel that their parents should take responsibility for their own lives.

In life, we can see some people, thirty or forty years old, who have no job, stay at home all day long, stay up late every night to play games, sleep until the sun is three poles and can't afford to pay back, chaotic all day long, eat and drink together, and use their parents' little living expenses for daily life. This is the typical "gnawing old". As parents, we must cultivate children's correct three-view cognitive ability from an early age.

Otherwise, it will hurt the child and suffer himself, and he will only swallow the bitterness in his stomach.

You can't betray your family, you can't betray your partner, you can't lose your job, you can't lose your temper, you can't be unfilial to your parents.

Don't judge others casually, don't speak ill of others, don't be double-faced, don't have ambiguous relationships with other women, and don't smoke and drink.

Don't invest casually, don't betray your feelings, don't cut off contact with your children, don't always meddle in other people's affairs, and don't rely on the old to sell the old.

I think that this will not only pass the time, but also earn some living expenses for myself.

The first kind of work: cleaning staff in the life of the ruler When we go shopping, in the subway, in the office, in the factory and other places, we can always see the cleaning aunt, who looks about fifty or sixty years old, doing cleaning work. Although the salary is not very much, it is still very good to earn living expenses and pass the free time.

This is part of the income**, in fact, in addition to the normal salary, there is still additional income in the process of working. With this money, we can buy what we like, and we can also keep ourselves from being out of touch with society, and even when our children are in trouble, we can still have a little spare energy to help them, how wonderful. What's more, this work is not tiring, easy, only seven or eight hours a day, as long as there are not too many requirements in mind, it is still a good job.

The second kind of work: canteens and restaurants help workers in their old age, and they have been busy for most of their lives, and the gap in their hearts is big when they are idle all of a sudden. Many times we feel that we are still young and not yet old enough to retire.

But I have no job, nothing to do, I can only be idle, and I am very bored every day, except for eating and sleeping, or I am bored at home and watching TV. After a long time of idleness, people will be uncomfortable and uncomfortable when they are fine. In this case, it is better to find yourself a job, and going to the canteen or restaurant to help is an option.

Although this job looks unclean and a little dirty, there are not many other needs, as long as you are healthy and willing to work, it is still a good choice. Some people also understand that canteens and restaurant helpers are dishwashers, but in fact, we can also choose positions such as washing vegetables and cutting vegetables. It is necessary to find out what the main purpose of looking for a job is, and do not feel burdened in your heart, some burdens are completely unnecessary.

The third type of work: part-time workers. When you are old and idle, you can also do part-time work, and many places need part-time work, such as some families, some Juehong**, some stores, etc.

This job, as long as you are quick with your hands and feet, careful, regardless of the amount of income, and willing to do it, is a good job to pass the time. In the same way, this work is not tiring, it can be done by men, women and children, and naturally older people can also do it. People are not tired, and their bodies may be better.

After all, it's better than staying at home all day, doing occasional work, and moving your muscles. Fitness and money, think about it, isn't it good.

The fourth type of work: freelancing. When we retire and have more time in our old age, we can use this time to learn something new or do what we like. For example, arranging flowers, writing an article, sending a ** and so on.

I remember that there is such a sentence in a sketch: In this life, as soon as the eyes are closed and opened, a day passes; As soon as you don't close your eyes, a lifetime will pass. At that time, when I heard this sentence, I heard it as a joke, and I was still laughing at the time, but when I recalled this sentence when I was a little older, I was very emotional, and I felt that life really passed so fast!

Don't look at people's lives for decades are long, and in this process, you may feel that the days pass very slowly, but when you look back, you will find that the days really pass quickly, and they pass unconsciously. Therefore, everyone should seize every day, grasp the moment, don't leave any regrets for yourself, and don't wait until you are old and still want to do something when you don't have that energy, and then you will regret it.

After all, we are no longer young people, and we can no longer catch up with young people physically and mentally, and at this time, we should pay more attention and enjoy our old age. Therefore, people must do less things in their old age. <>

1. Be less angry. We all know that anger hurts the body, and anger really hurts the body, especially when you get older, you have to be less angry. In many cases, it's not a big deal, take a step back and open the sky, everyone has to look away after a certain age, and don't worry about many things, because there is really no meaning, and in the end you are angry with yourself.

Therefore, it is still very important for the elderly to be less angry and spend every day happily. <>

2. Look for less trouble. When you get old, you should look for less things and don't let the children bother, which is still very important for the elderly. Because there are many old people who are not happy to give birth when they are old, they can't do it if they don't make some trouble for their children every day, and in the end, the children are unhappy and are unwilling to provide for him.

Therefore, for the sake of future consideration, the elderly should not make trouble for their children.

When people are old, they must pay more attention to their body, quit smoking and drinking, keep a good mood every day, exercise diligently, and walk for two hours a day to make their bodies healthier.

There are too many taboos, too many words for the elderly, it is easy for people to stay away, secondly, relying on the old and selling the old, feeling that they are old enough, self-righteous, putting old qualifications, and some are disrespectful to the old, such as occupying seats, cutting in line, and pointing fingers at young people.

We must learn to let go of the past, don't worry about what we didn't do well when we were young, don't get angry because of some trivial things, and don't participate too much in the lives of our children, and maintain a good attitude in order to live a long life.