I m 25 years old, confused, 20 years old is a confused age

There are countless people who do nothing like you, and I am one of them, what are you afraid of! We just have to walk and sit upright. Of course, if you are so old, you must have something to do to have the ability to survive.

It's great not to be an old man. You are better than many people!! Definitely, yes.

Have faith in yourself.

If you have a goal in life, you will be motivated, so set your goals, calm down and think about what your life ideals are, come up with realistic goals, and you can ask your friends to help you analyze your strengths and weaknesses, find out what you are suitable for, and then strive for it. I wish you to get rid of the confusion soon.

Go with the flow, don't get too tired.

Have you set a goal? When you are studying, teachers often ask: which university do you want to go to in the future? In this way, we have set a goal and have the motivation to read good books. It's the same with work, if you have a goal to strive for, you will have the motivation to do nothing well.

Relax yourself, examine yourself, go out for a walk, adjust yourself, reflect, and then read some relevant books, find people around you to communicate and enlighten you, how can a good man have so many worries and melancholy, stand up and face everything, it is a bleak life, face up to the dripping blood, break through yourself, believe in you!!

Can you imagine what it was like to fall into hell in an instant? Someone who is tragic because of a moment of negligence? Are you wondering how much effort has been put in by those who have achieved something?

Of course, there are some people who are born so lucky, but can you be sure that they will be smooth sailing? , don't care about others, you have your dreams, you have your childhood.

Try to find the other half of your life and remember to focus on the inside.

You have to find your place in life.

Don't always take a negative approach to life.

Human beings live in a social whole.

You can't always close yourself off from contact with people.

I'm going to get depression.

I suggest you open a **.

Hope it helps.

Don't expect others to help you, you can only rely on yourself, because there is no free lunch in the world, in addition to working hard or continue to work hard, maybe no one will look up to people who work silently like cattle, but you have to persevere, remember my words, one day you succeed, you will be replaced to help the confused people.

Youth is a beautiful, ephemeral thing. Before the age of twenty, he always relied on his youth and squandered his time, eager to grow up quickly to get rid of the shackles of home. As the twenty-three-year-old candle was blown out by himself, the original yearning for freedom gradually began to be replaced by confusion and hesitation.

Looking at some of the outstanding classmates around me who are shining and colorful every day, and they are all confident and proud to welcome the next stage of their lives, I will begin to fall into deeper confusion. What are your strengths? There are always people who say that "everyone has their own shining point" and "I am born to be useful".

But truth is truth after all, and self that is useless is reality. I started trying to find something to do for myself, such as practicing the piano, learning the thumb piano, and writing. My heart is always filled with short-lived little accomplishments, but it doesn't take long for the feeling of confusion to follow.

I saw those Internet celebrities on Douyin and Weibo who were about the same age as me but had already started working to earn money to support their families, and I was still repeating my life in a foreign country. Low self-esteem and powerlessness began to erode what little confidence and sense of accomplishment I had every day. I know I'm mentally sick, but I want to try a little harder.

Before the age of twenty, when a little thing happened, I would go to my mother on WeChat to complain, and endlessly pass on these negative energies to her. After the age of 20, even if I encounter a hurdle that I can't get over, I will remember to report my safety to my mother every day. Some sad words were deleted and re-deleted, and then deleted, and in the end I only posted a sentence of "It's okay, I'm fine".

When I was a child, under the care of my grandparents, I was always able to stretch out my hands for clothes and open my mouth for food. If the food on the dinner table is not appetizing, I will lose my temper willfully, and my grandfather will always laugh and coax me to fry a plate of my favorite spicy fried cabbage. When I grew up, I came to a foreign country, and I learned that the hairtail fish has thorns, and it will prick your hands when washing; **Bed linen should be washed and changed regularly; Washing dishes without gloves will dry your hands; The prices of food are different in each supermarket.

After knowing the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, you can truly feel the warmth of home. I wanted to make money quickly to repay my parents and grandparents, but I found that I didn't have the ability to do so. At the age of twenty-three, I have ambitions, but my abilities are not commensurate.

But despite this, life goes on. I hope that one day, I can get through this confused twenty years, and I also hope that one day, my abilities can match my ambition and fulfill all my dreams.

Coffee beans for rice.