Happy to get married? Is there really joy in getting married?

It's still a very happy thing to marry someone you love and who also loves you, don't you believe it? You try, huh!!

Happy marriage. It's a blessing.

Marriage is a new starting point for a couple in love, both ups and downs, there should be very happy, of course, the meaning of human existence, must also go through these.

Marriage is run by people, if you let it develop, do not worry about management, then marriage must be painful, of course, this is based on the fact that there are no good old people at home to cook, buy groceries, and take care of children. Because you have to rely on yourself for everything, and you have to go to work by yourself. How tired.

As a word of advice, when you plan to get married, you must be mentally prepared, which is the beginning of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Don't get married without this preparation. Otherwise, you will regret it.

Of course! Especially in the days of marriage, I am happier than the gods!

I think I must be happy to get married! I also want to get married soon, but I don't have the money to set up a banquet. Effort

Marriage is happy, and it will not be happy in the future, although it will be happy for a while when there are children in the future, but the responsibility is heavier.

If you really love each other, of course you are happy.

But if not, you won't feel happy even if he's nice to you.

If you really love each other and he is poor, you will also feel very happy, because you feel that being with him is the happiest thing.

If not, even if he is rich, you will not be happy, because in an emotionless marriage, you will feel unfeeling.

Unhappy. Love for a few years. Marriage should be cherished.

Before getting married, I was very happy, and after I got married, it was firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, which were all things in life, so there was a lot of pressure.

Oh, yes! A friend got married these days and asked me to be her bridesmaid, I thought it would be fun, but it turned out to be a painful and happy thing.

Marriage means that each other has found someone who knows and loves each other, and it means that each other has the company of each other in the future, and the two people have formed a new family, and they will have to fight for each other's families in the future.

Getting married is a beautiful and happy thing, but the few days of marriage are really tiring, especially for the newlyweds who are married.

Yesterday as a bridesmaid, I went to her house with another bridesmaid at one o'clock, prepared some things for her, and slept together at night. I washed up briefly, put on today's bridesmaid dress, and put on beautiful makeup for today's ceremony, of course, this makeup was put on for me by others, how could a person who is plain every day mess up by himself on such an important occasion.

I will simply braided my hair, put on makeup for myself, braided my hair, and gave it to my friends, her mother and sister-in-law also simply braided it, unconsciously arrived at the meal, ate a few bites of food, waited for the groom to pick up the kiss, she wore a few pounds of headdress, wearing and sleeve clothes, and finally waited for the arrival of the groom, through layer after layer of difficulties, and finally came to the link of blocking the door, shouting for red envelopes inside, and asking for a lot of red envelopes outside the block, and finally the outside let go of the door to open the door, A group of people came in in a hurry, occupying the entire space, it seems that the house is very small, this group of married people really has experience in marriage, that trouble is really called a skill, and finally to the bridesmaids, the other has run away, hiding in the corner I was forcibly dragged out, this I just appeared in a panic in front of the public, let the best man bite the branch of the flower I will pick up, how embarrassing it is, after the pick up and ask me to pick up the flower bones, this is too much, I refuse to pick it up, and finally it passed like this, In the end, I put the post-it notes all over the groomsmen and asked them to shake them off, and I finally sneaked out in the commotion, and when they were done, I took my things and followed the public down to the car, and went to the man's house for the next item.

Getting married is a lot of work for a bride! As soon as I arrived at home, I was dragged by the makeup artist stylist to re-style, touch up the makeup, to put on the wedding dress for the next agenda, and waited for a long time, put on the beautiful wedding dress, we helped her drag the wedding dress to the place where the ceremony was held, and the wedding ceremony officially began in a few minutes, and it didn't take long, the short wedding was full of ceremony, which made people full of emotion. After the end, there is another round of styling and makeup touch-ups, as well as a change of costume, it is really a toss-up, put on a toasting costume to toast all the guests, and when everyone leaves, this is considered to be the completion of all the agenda of the wedding.

Although today is very tired, but for the bride and groom, it is a particularly memorable and meaningful happy and beautiful thing, although we are also very tired, but to see her enter the palace of marriage, married to herself.

Marriage must be a happy thing, you can live with the person you love when you get married, you can have your own small family, someone to protect you from the wind and rain, how happy.

Personally, I think everyone has a desire for love, and the ultimate goal of love is to find someone who can give you a happy marriage. Getting married is not as simple as falling in love, and if you want to get married, you have to consider both the feelings of two people and whether they are suitable or not.

1. When the relationship between two people reaches the consummation, there will naturally be plans to get married. However, there are many factors to consider when getting married, and you can't blindly choose to get married on impulse.

If you don't want your marriage to become a "grave of love", you must consider these issues in advance to avoid marital misfortune.

2. Considering the personality factors of two people, the relationship needs to be run-in.

When two people start to fall in love, they will naturally feel that everything is good for each other, and they will have the idea of wanting to be together. Especially sometimes what he does for you will move you, and you will regard him as your ideal partner as soon as your brain is hot.

3. Have no common interests and hobbies, as well as topics.

Getting married is not a simple matter, and you have to think about your future. The days of life are very long, and if two people have no topics to talk about, they will seem very estranged, and their feelings will become weaker and weaker, and if there is a distance in their hearts, the marriage should end.

With someone who has the same hobbies as you, you can do things you like together, and you can talk together, even if two people sit there quietly, you won't feel embarrassed and can get along happily.

4. Ask the opinions of both parents to ensure family harmony.

Marriage is completely different from falling in love, falling in love only requires two people to love each other, and marriage is not just a matter of two people, family factors are also very important. Before getting married, it is important to fully understand the thoughts of both parents and lay a foundation for family harmony.

Now the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very tense, and many women can't get along with their mother-in-law, which leads to family conflicts and makes men don't know how to solve them. Eventually everyone is physically and mentally exhausted, and you will want to escape from this unhappy marriage.

There are many issues to consider when getting married, and "family, hobbies, and personality" are all serious problems, and if you are ready, you don't have to worry about getting married.

Marriage should be a joyful thing, otherwise why should you get married?

Falling in love, getting married without children, getting married with children and teasing leaks, these are three stages, the same as playing games to upgrade and fight monsters, you have to get along well in the previous stage before you can enter the next stage. If you want to get married, one is that your feelings are not there, and whether two people treat each other as a community of interests. Second, how much are you prepared to pay for your community of interests?

The better this foundation, the fewer problems there will be after marriage. Married life is also a threshold, many people do not have a cohabitation stage before marriage, who will do the housework? How to coordinate different living habits, what should a man do if he plays games and ignores his wife?

Whose money does it pay for women? Men don't pay attention to hygiene, foot odor pollutes indoor air, both men and women are lazy to death, don't clean, and the home is more messy than a pig's nest ......Premarital cohabitation can be exposed, and it is more troublesome to coordinate after marriage without cohabitation. At this time, if you find that you don't like each other, you need to make up for it with a premarital emotional foundation.

Only with love can there be tolerance, and only then can you change your own efforts to cater to each other, two people don't love, and a little trivial matter can turn the world upside down. The ultimate killer of marriage is children. Giving birth to a child, raising a child is a stage in which a person moves from naivety to maturity, that is, both parents must be mature people to take on this task.

Before having a child, there is no concept of the workload of raising a child. Both parties need to be mature, able to withstand the decline in the quality of life, able to withstand the pressure of having children, able to sacrifice their own time, able to hold back their temper, and communicate well with each other. Marriage is to get a certificate, and it is easy to spend some money on a wedding, but it is not easy to have a successful marriage through Kaifeng Camp, and the more prepared you are before marriage, the greater the probability of success.

This is related to the happiness of the second half of life, and it is worth it to put in a little effort.

No, because two people who marry for the sake of marriage have no emotional foundation, and after marriage, they will go through a run-in period after traveling, if they find that two people disagree with each other, such a marriage is destined to be unhappy, and it will not last long.

The final marriage will not be happy, because the marriage of the Ant Que Wu for the purpose of marriage is not boring or has any emotional basis, and after a long time, the two people will quarrel and gradually move towards divorce.

Marriage is for the sake of inheritance, and if the material conditions are good after marriage, then you will be happy.

First, choose the person you want to marry.

Love is a feeling, and so is happiness, and you feel happy and happy with this person.

The thought of him softens your heart, you know why you chose each other, you recognize each other's strengths, and you know from the beginning that he will be the one with whom you will spend the rest of your life.

Choose the person you want to marry, and even if one day life becomes dull, you won't regret your choice.

Second, don't get married because of someone else's influence.

Don't choose to get married because you are old enough to get married, don't get married because your parents and friends are urging you to get married, don't get married because your boyfriend wants to get married, don't choose to get married because others think you are very suitable.

There is only one reason for you to get married, you want to marry him, and he wants to marry you, and it has nothing to do with others.

Third, there are fewer love brains.

Don't choose a marriage because you are moved, and don't ignore many bad things because he is good to you.

If the relationship makes you feel uncomfortable, the trail makes you in a dilemma, and makes you worse and worse, then, even if the man is rich and handsome, keep your eyes open.

Listen less to sweet words, less love brains.

Fourth, pay more attention to the character of the other party.

Marrying a man with good character, he doesn't need to be rich, and he doesn't need to have much ability, a man's character can ensure that you will not be treated unfairly in marriage.

The way to identify the other person's character is very simple, look at his attitude towards his friends, look at his attitude towards you when he encounters disagreements, and look at how he deals with setbacks.

Fifth, notice the differences between you.

It is impossible for two people to be together for everything, whether it is in daily life, work, or socialization, there will always be such and such differences, pay more attention to the differences between you.

For example, what are the similarities and differences in your outlook on money, love, and life, what is the attitude of the other party in the face of differences, and whether you do not understand but respect.

This is important.

Each has a stable income and does not worry about money.

If there are disagreements, communicate well and do not deepen the contradictions.