My mother in law is eccentric, can you help me figure out a way?

Many things, once you think about it, you will suddenly feel enlightened.

You are married to your husband, not to their family, your mother-in-law likes to be eccentric, and no matter what you do, you can't change this fact.

Otherwise, don't count on them, just if they don't exist, there will naturally be no partial comparisons, don't care what they say or do, and you won't be angry with you.

As the saying goes, we can't afford to hide if we can't afford to provoke us. We should enjoy ourselves, and do not expect from others, and do not rely on others. You and your husband have a good relationship, how good, that's enough, usually, at least the filial piety to your mother-in-law is to be done, that's it, you don't owe them anything, save a lot of trivial things and they caught pigtails, there is a dispute, it's not cost-effective!

Home and everything is prosperous!

Mother-in-law has shares in her daughter's store, and you are competing!

Let's talk about cooperation first, if it doesn't work, try to use legitimate means to hit her business, she feels pressure, and she will send a signal of reconciliation.

Yes, if you want to open more, you are in a good mood and your life is better, at least you have a good relationship with LG, and he is also on your side, which is enough. There are a lot of unfair and unsatisfactory things, and you should think less about your life and be happier. Just if she is just your mother-in-law, and not your own mother, there is no need to ask her so much, think about her, and hope what she will do.

Only your own measurement is bigger, you are his daughter-in-law not his daughter, of course there is a difference, don't care about these, why quarrel with your husband about these things, that affects the relationship more, measure more.

You have to be calm, because it's your own business, can't you do it yourself? Haven't you heard anyone say that? "The mouth that eats people is soft, and the hands that take people are short".

Besides, your mother-in-law doesn't have a doppelganger, and you still have your mother's help. Since you have a good relationship with your husband, don't let him be a sandwich biscuit, in that case, aren't you distressed?

If you want others to be good to you (including your family), you have to look at your attitude and status, your mother-in-law will be like this, but you don't need to look at their faces to live, don't party or don't live together if it's not good.

This question, I advise you not to worry, since it has been like this for so many years, it can't be changed, of course, you can't complain to those relatives on your mother-in-law's side, and when it reaches their ears, they will be even more dissatisfied with you;

Don't care, just do your duty, they don't treat you well, it's their business, you just have to do your filial piety to them; You don't live together, and they're old, if you can be considerate, you can be considerate, ignore these eccentric things, your husband is the one who wants you to live a lifetime, and it's enough for him to spoil you...

8 years have passed, do you still care about the end of the year?

Some people are just snobbish, but they are parents, and they can't help it.

Do what you think you should do, no matter how they are, the filial piety that should be done is still to do the best to live not for the attitude of others, there is a scale in your heart to measure yourself, you are very good, very diligent and virtuous, if you can endure some small grievances, then your husband is so lucky.

Beat him up, don't be in a New Year, stupid to death, what is your husband, watching you being bullied.

It's been eight years, what do you care? The status quo cannot be changed, so live by your own conscience.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

There is a saying called "far fragrant and smelly", is it because you usually spend too much time with your mother-in-law?

There is also the key is to change your husband's attitude, so that your children learn to be sweeter, and shout more when they see their grandparents, many things do not matter to adults, but the effect of children is completely different, and the old man has a good impression of children, and will naturally add points to you.

Actually, I'm not very good at dealing with this aspect of the relationship, but the old man is an old man after all, and we can only change a lot from ourselves, and we can't find fault with them.

Let her go. Nothing has to be done.

Mother-in-law is partial to the brother-in-law's family, this is a very normal thing, you can't affect your life because of this, as long as your mother-in-law's partiality does not harm the interests of you and your husband, then let them go, don't care about these, don't pay attention to the mother-in-law, do respect for the mother-in-law on the surface, and try to stay away from the mother-in-law at other times.

Sometimes the difference between the mother-in-law and herself is very big, I saw an article about the mother-in-law eccentric brother-in-law, saying that the brother-in-law bought a house and got married, and the mother-in-law took out twice the money given to them, and her husband and the brother of the husband who let the rolling husband get married for three years, and they got married and the mother-in-law spent a total of 150,000 yuan, and this year the brother-in-law got married, and the mother-in-law spent more than 300,000 yuan and borrowed a lot of money.

Let's talk about the differences in where the money is spent:

1. House: Their house is an attic, and the brother-in-law's house is on the third floor.

The point is low, on the one hand, considering that there is a younger brother, I didn't buy a good house. She didn't ask for anything at the time. Her mother said that it was enough to have a house, and how many families belonged to two sons, and there was no house.

2. Marriage: They got married in the city, and the mother-in-law brought relatives to help the day before the wedding, she was still working at the time, and she and her husband were busy buying furniture, tidying up the house, looking for a wedding or something, and the wedding money was also paid by themselves, and the father-in-law said at the time that he could not find a better wedding company, and there was too much money.

Mother-in-law's partiality towards the brother-in-law's family is in all aspects, despite this, I can't say anything, because I am a junior, my mother-in-law is an elder, I must respect and respect her, but my heart is always not very open-minded, so I can only ignore this behavior of my mother-in-law, otherwise I will be immersed in negative emotions, which will only be detrimental to myself, it is better to live my own life.