Can you help me figure it out, thanks

It's painful, baby. My mom was very open-minded and didn't let me fall in love before, but then I went to college and had friends, and she didn't object to it, and my mom and I were like friends, and we didn't talk about anything... There has never been deception or concealment ...

If you and your mom can do that, then tell her what you really think and ask your mom why it's stopping you from being together. I'm talking to her heart-to-heart. If your mom is usually just ordering you like the leader, then you talk for nothing, and make friends with your friends and boyfriends with that boy.

When your mother asks you, you say that we are also friends when we break up, and it is better than multiple enemies. That's not cheating! You're probably thinking too much.

How old are you? Shouldn't you decide your own business? Although your mother is for your own good, she can't affect your relationship with your boyfriend because of some reasons of her own, which she has no right to interfere in!

But she's your mother, and the decision she made must be for your good! So there is a contradiction!

The solution is: from your own point of view, do you think he really loves you? And do you really love him?

If both answers are yes, then don't part with him! If one is not certain, then separate it! If you're not sure if he loves you or not, then I'll tell you another way, which is to separate from him now and don't contact him for a while!

If he still contacts you a month later, it means that he loves you! If you miss him at this time, then it means that you love him too!

I don't feel like you like him very much, but you can't bear it, so just be ruthless and divide it. Waiting for your true destiny.

This question can only ask you whether you really identify with him and really love him If not, then be a good girl and listen to your mother If you really love, then you have to be firm Go your own way and call your mother to go After all, loving someone is your own business Not your mother's business Not anyone's business in your family Can spend most of your life with you It's your lover and your partner It can't be your mother If your mother is having a hard time, you can tell the reason Everyone help find a way to convince your mother After all, you are her daughter There is no mother who doesn't love her children, as long as she opens her heart knot, explains things clearly, opens up her thoughts, and has no problem that can't be solved Even an outsider can still communicate, let alone your mother!!

Someone who came over said a few words:

1 Listen to the words of the elders, after all, they have more life experience than us, and your boyfriend must have something that your mother thinks is bad, so she is against it.

2 Don't believe the tears of men, I have seen too much, and those men are not productive.

3 You can talk to your mom about what she doesn't like about your boyfriend, and if there's hope of getting it back, you'll be happy. If you can't get it back, I hope you will be strong, don't be reluctant, you still have a long way to go, and one day you will understand your mother's heart.

Finally, the most selfless love for you in the world is your parents, they will not ask you for anything in return, they will only give to you, they will not harm you.

This kind of question seems to be difficult! I'm in the same problem as you, I love him, but my family is against it. Actually, I'm a girl who puts love first, but now, if you think about it, is he important or her parents important?

If you want to be with him, you have to fall out with my parents, and I don't want to hurt my parents! So, in the end, I still chose to be filial to my parents and leave him!

It will be very painful for any two people to be separated, especially two people who love each other, but this is something that cannot be helped, there is a good saying, time is the best medicine! It's really so, you want him to be better, there's nothing you can do but let time dilute everything!

My and my him are now also being consumed in the medicine of time, otherwise, what can we do? I can't think of a better way!