Hehe, we broke up, but he hated me, and my classmates wouldn t be better after all, what should I do

Updated on healthy 2024-06-07
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    That only shows that he is not a good person .

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If he says he's going to make you feel bad, then you're not sorry for him.

    Protect yourself and don't let him hurt you. Secondly, let your things slowly fade away, since you are still in school, it means that you are not too big, and the emotional problems are easy to solve

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since it's a breakup, it proves that your fate is over, and there's no need to think too much about things, everyone has the right to fall in love, and also has the right to choose love independently, I believe that time can dilute everything, if he is a big man if he targets you everywhere just because you broke up, then I'm afraid it will also be unmanly, since you are a class, then avoid him for the time being, I don't understand what the landlord said about life is nothing for you, and you don't have to worry about any retaliation, If you really feel uneasy in your conscience, then make it clear to him face to face that blindly avoiding is not the solution to the problem, and I wish the landlord good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Cut, small scenes are all small scenes, you are a person with great luck, because this Tianjun paid attention to you, so ah. You.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Elsewhere in the same class, at least until graduation! He doesn't love you, he just wants to possess you, he's immature, he doesn't know what love is, what is life, it's actually nothing to me? Feelings are all equal, and now you have to show what you owe him?

    Still sorry for him? There is no good way to bow your head and don't see what you look up in the same class!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You don't have to do anything deliberately, make it clear to your friends, naturally someone will unconsciously tell the truth, and in the end it is only he who destroys.

    All you have to do is show your tolerance, you are not afraid of shadows, and after a long time, he is the one who will encounter the most trouble.

    In the end, the breakup was correct.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Collect evidence directly.

    Sue him for defamation. Let him receive a summons.

    Then learn to shut up.

    It would be nice if there was an intermediary to reconcile it.

    The provincial people have to sue him.

    That's a real problem.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are really such garbage people!! Explain that the breakup is so right!! Think about living with such people! How painful!!

    Since it's a grind, that's what you're going to learn!! To understand such a problem in this way, in addition to being ba, there will be some annoyance, at least you will not feel angry and other negative emotions because of this! over

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is an infringement (reputation right), and you can sue him if you have enough evidence.

    In general, do not use illegal means.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Be open-minded and respond to him with your calmness and calmness, bringing out his childishness and unreasonableness. Be an elegant person, don't care, after a long time, everyone will see your attitude and think it's all his nonsense.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There are such people, it's terrible, and there are people who pour sulfuric acid. This kind of person, you are lucky to break up with him. Others are not all fools, time will clarify everything. Of course, there will be some schadenfreude and falling into the ground. As long as they dare not say it in front of you, ignore them.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Have a good talk with him, and since he did it, you don't just sit there. Is there a policy above, and a countermeasure below! Think about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Call the police, this kind of person should not be merciful and accuse him of personal attacks.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Make it clear! Explain it! Don't sue him for harassment again!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Is that if you hurt someone? Otherwise, you can get together and disperse!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This kind of person, don't care, the more you care about him, the more noisy he becomes, ignore him, he thinks it's boring, and he automatically stops, and the person who talks badly about his girlfriend everywhere will not be liked by others, and others may not believe it when he says bad things about you, and face it calmly, just treat it as if he was bitten by a dog.

    I wish you to find someone who is truly in love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    High-speed taya: Stalking wood is useful, you should do it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Be calm, because people who really understand you will not believe gossip, and after a while, you will naturally cool down.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Who let you hurt someone, and you can't stop him from doing anything, and it's good after a long time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Be resolute, this kind of boy will be more terrifying when they are together in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Just let him say it, it's his pride that's at work.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Collect evidence directly to sue him for defamation.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    What is playing is the heart of those women who are not convinced? Ha ha.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why did you break up, and who brought it up first???

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    All I can say is that girl must hate you to death!!

    ==Hey. Why don't you even think about it! ***************

    You made a few mistakes!!

    1.In the case that both parents have met, you don't take into account that this thing can't be hyped up. The speed of transmission of the old people is not what you can imagineFaster than a virus!

    2.Since she called ** to tell you, she wants to break it privately, but you reported your parents and told you what happened!! It's good if you don't say the reason, but you restore the original local and say the truth that the girl opened up to you otz·· (I wonder if you're the kind of good child your parents raised to tell you no lies...) )

    ==== What do you do now? **********===

    1.Apologize in person and ask for forgiveness (I guess it's impossible, it's too late for her to hate you, how can you meet Hey...

    2.When he went to her house, he told his parents that she couldn't be blamed for this matter, after all, love can't be forced... (It's a good way to show your courage and sense of responsibility if you don't have that guts.) I don't think so! )

    3.Now that we've all broken up, what are you doing so much for? Want to win back that girl's heart? Unless you have the intention of "sincerity to the golden stone for the opening".

    ps: That girl said that she didn't want to live up to and owe you, because she really didn't want you to pay so much for her and not get something in return, she was a good girl. It should be more gentle and understanding, but you treat her like this... Ay.

    Ask for your own blessings. Good, good, good.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It is recommended that you write a letter to him and make everything you want to say clearly in the letter. Although it is rare for people to communicate through letters these days, I believe that letters often achieve results that cannot be achieved by other means of communication.

    Also, if you don't want to be together, it's best for you not to be friends with her, which is good for both of you.

    Of course, the best ending is that you can finally come together as you wish, so the turmoil you have experienced now will definitely make you cherish each other's hard-won feelings even more.

    It feels like the landlord and the girl are nice people. Good luck!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When this matter is dull, she will forgive you, and you don't go to her during this time, just care about it, such as sending a text message to ask her to add clothes or something when it's cold, drink more mung bean soup or something in hot weather, and she will forgive you!

    In my opinion, she did more excessive things than you, since she didn't like you in the first place, don't use you to be with you, so it's lighter than what you did, you're just honest, and if she's a sensible girl, she'll forgive you!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, there are many, many girls like you, and you are so sad at the moment, it is beyond your tolerance, so you hope to find a suitable solution on the Internet, I believe everyone has their own ideas after reading it, and the ideas are different. What I want to say to you is that what people are most afraid of is habitual, you have spoiled your boyfriend, the more you are afraid of losing, the harder it is to get, after all, you have been together for five years, and you have had happiness and happiness, but there are also a lot of pains, again and again, you have forgiven him again and again for no reason, but in exchange for indifference, you have also thought about giving up, but you don't know what he will be like at the next stop, so you are struggling, or hope that he will be with you, compromise again and again and indifference again and again, It's already numb to you, you don't have the strength to go back to the past, I don't know the specific situation of your boyfriend, but one thing is for sure that he doesn't love you anymore, maybe he already has new friends, so my advice is to choose to give up this love that doesn't belong to you! In fact, there are many suggestions I want to give you, the matter of time, I hope to give you a little advice in the first time, relieve your helpless heart, I hope it will help you a little bit!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think you need to improve yourself, for example: your boyfriend says that you speak badly, you try to say as little as possible or avoid the conflict, and keep quiet, because there is always one party who has to back down when arguing... But if your boyfriend is really sorry for you, I believe that breaking up is the right choice for you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    This man is obviously a man who is irresponsible for his feelings, from what you said, he hasn't done anything to you, maybe he still loves you at the beginning and cares about you, but after a long time, when he has played enough and gets tired, he will get rid of you so ruthlessly.

    It is recommended that you leave him, you are not old now, and there are many good men you will meet in the future, he will regret it sooner or later if he does not cherish it, and I feel that the difference between you is too big, he is still in school after he has worked, which shows that either he is much older than you, or you have a much higher education than him, and you are too good to him, he will become accustomed sooner or later, when he gets used to one thing, if suddenly you are no longer good to him, he will be angry and take everything for granted, So such a person is not worthy of your love, you are still in school, so don't take it to heart, study hard, and sooner or later find your other half.

    ps: You can use the method of diverting attention, think about something else first, let a friend accompany you, or you can find someone to talk to, and spend this time as soon as possible, in short, his departure is only good for you, and you will not be happy with him.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Leave him decisively! It's okay, you're still in school, and the days to come will be long, so it's a good thing to see him clearly now! Be kind to yourself!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The man had no measure at all.

    You are too accustomed to him, it's not just a blind pay, the better you treat him, the less he cherishes you, I am a man, believe me in this sentence, the more you don't let him be satisfied, the more you can keep him, if I have a girlfriend like you, I will be content in my life, I can only say that he is not worthy of you to add:

    Agree with the suggestion of Luotuo 7086, you calm down for a while, if he loves you, he will come to you, you can also use this time to think about whether he is worthy of you like this, you may not wait for him to come to you You have already figured it out.

    If you get back together, you have to remember what I said above, the more you don't let him be satisfied, the more you can keep him, love is not blindly giving, nor blindly accepting, it is the inseparability of both parties, and sharing weal and woe.

    I wish you happiness.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's no longer interesting to endure the pain and separate, I'll tell you why, you're just too good to him.

    Can't you live without him? A good man has something, but he lacks such a thing.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It hurts to see it, and I think of an experience I had. We have been talking for three years now, although we are still in the stage of separation and integration, so we will not mention these for the time being. There was a period of time in our relationship, he was like this, very bad and bad, and his words were even more vicious than these, tell me to get out, don't get entangled, find me a husband, say I'm going to annoy him......I really don't know how I got through it, and I didn't know later that he had a mistress, and I don't know why I forgave him later.

    Later, there was a similar repetition in a month or two, he was also my first love, and I felt that I had no dignity in loving him, even if others said I was brain-dead, I still couldn't let go. I don't know what advice I would give you, if we're rational enough to leave him. But love often lowers people's IQ.

    It's better to calm down for a while, if he loves you, he will come to you, you can also use this time to think about whether he is worthy of you like this, maybe you have figured it out before he comes to you.

    ps: We are also in a long-distance relationship, but he will be back completely in two months, and a long-distance relationship is really not ......

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In fact, you still have to be ruthless to men who are not responsible.

    You have to look at what your future life will look like.

    Find a man who understands you and feels sorry for you.

    He's not qualified, he's not for you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let's break up!! Even after being together, there will be bigger problems.

    1. The door is not right, the girls' education and family background are much better than the boys, which will make the man unable to raise his head, very faceless (a few people may not care), eating soft rice may be acceptable for a short time, but war will break out for a long time.

    2. You are very strong in all aspects, if you want to be together, you have to push him to the front, even if you do everything, but he has to take the credit, maybe you will feel very aggrieved, but the face problem should be done, otherwise. Let's learn about Japanese women.

    3. His personality and ability are a little weak, and his indecision makes it difficult for him to have great development, MBA He saw a certificate on a piece of paper, but he didn't see that behind it was a symbol of ability (some are mixed out), it doesn't matter how much money you spend (you can afford it), the important thing is whether you can take it back and make money after spending it, she may see that money is very important.

    4. Why don't you help him pay for it? Unwilling to pay for him to study MBA? You should think about it too!!

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