How can you read a person? How to read a person correctly

No one knows themselves better than themselves, two people together are to understand each other, otherwise they will not exist for a long time, don't ask others what kind of people they are, from each other's personality and mood observation, in fact, they love people very much, and they don't know what they really love each other, but they have the feeling that they can give everything to each other! So, you don't need to read, but, feel!!

Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words.

Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing. Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret. Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.

True love is tolerance rather than indulgence, love is care rather than pampering, love is mutual blending rather than unrequited love, love is a hundred flavors and not all sweetness, love is a lifelong thing, true love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandstanding actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it, love is so plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart.

Three views: the outlook on marriage and love, outlook on life, values, whether they are consistent, and if they are inconsistent, forget if they are inconsistent. Hobbies: Slightly. Habits: slightly. This is a bad example of dividing people, but you can get to know more about the person you want to know from these small things.

Let's learn the six "looking at people" skills to quickly see through people's hearts and understand human nature.

1. The more people who bully the soft, the more afraid they are of being hard.

That is to say, if you want to see through a person quickly, you can look at his attitude towards the weak or the disadvantaged, if he looks down on or even likes to bully the weak, and in front of the strong he seems very cowardly and flattering, then, his character is generally not up to par. But if he is very flattering to the strong, but he is very kind and loving to the weak, then his character is generally not bad, and the kind of performance in front of the strong is likely to be just a means of forbearance, which is also a complex part of human nature and human hearts.

Second, if a person has few words, you should pay attention to distinguishing people.

Generally speaking, there will be these three situations, one is that he is really clumsy in speech and not good at expression, and the other is that he is simple-minded, he doesn't like to say those hypocritical and polite words, and he doesn't want to talk nonsense with you, so you should try to be as concise as possible when talking to him, don't be too vain; The third is that he is very deep in the city, knows the truth of people's stability, and wants to spy on you by listening. The first and second situations are easy to deal with, but in the third case, you must be cautious and not talk too much.

3. People who don't like to trouble you generally don't like you to trouble him.

Therefore, you have to see if a person is such a person, you can first ask him to do you a small favor, see if he is willing, if he refuses, and does not ask you for help, he is a relatively cold person, you had better not go to him for help in big things, otherwise, you will definitely hit the nail, no matter how good you are in other aspects.

Fourth, no matter what situation you encounter, people who can stay calm should not be underestimated.

Such a person, no matter what his current situation is, must be a master. A master like this, even if he fails temporarily, is down, and falls into a trough in life, he can calmly deal with everything, and they are generally experienced and have seen the world, so they can do "Mount Tai collapses in front and the color remains unchanged, and the tiger is forced to be behind and is not frightened", those amazing things in your eyes, in their opinion, are ordinary things. In real life, if you are lucky enough to meet such a person, especially if you meet such a person who is in a down-and-out period, you must consciously make friends, and he is likely to change your entire life.

5. People who like to lose their temper are not necessarily incapable, but people who are incapable often like to lose their temper.

Especially tantrums with acquaintances. Because people who have no ability are often more "cowardly" in character, they dare not lose their temper with strangers and outsiders, but because they have no ability, because of the grievances and anger brought by incompetence, they also need to vent, so they will always choose to complain and anger to the people around them. When you meet such people, you'd better not think about dissuading them, stay away from them, and be a bystander, otherwise, they may not necessarily understand your affection, and they are likely to use you as a target for venting.

It's hard to understand alone, and sometimes it's hard to understand when you're often together, so you have to pay more attention to observation, understand slowly, and maybe you can understand something after a long time.

I wish you a happy life!

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In the workplace, whether it is a new employee or an old employee, everyone has their own methods and skills to do things, and everyone can be the object of our learning! Confucius said: If you are a threesome, you must have my teacher.

In a team, we must be good at learning the strengths of others, make up for our own shortcomings, and know how to improve our own abilities!

But sometimes in the team, we don't know what kind of people we are worth learning from, or who we are good friends with.

Many times we "make friends" may bring some unnecessary trouble to ourselves, so in the workplace, we must be able to distinguish which people are worthy of our deep friendship and which we should stay away from.

Let's analyze what kind of people have what kind of potential from three aspects!

First, the way of doing things can see the details of a person.

Many times we can't see what the person's personality is like on the surface, but it can be completely exposed from the aspects of some people's actions. 2. Be able to maintain the accumulation of their own capabilities.

I've seen a lot of professionals who don't stay in the office for a minute after work and run out of the office gate at a fast pace. There is no thought of packing up the work at all! In fact, this is very bad, if a person wants to make progress in the workplace, then he must seize every free minute to study.

1. Observation. If you don't know someone at all, you should first read a person from the aspect of observation, and you can see what the person's identity is like from the person's clothing, whether it is a worker, a white-collar worker or a farmer.

2. The conversation is pure. Find an opportunity to communicate with each other, it is best to find an environment where you can calm down, communicate one-on-one with two people, and don't be disturbed by anyone in the middle of the excitement. Not only can you understand a person from the words of socks, but you can also understand his habits from the person's body language.

3. Get along with each other at work. If you are a colleague who works together, you can read a person from getting along at work, some people are not good at words, but have a strong team spirit, and some people are more selfish and selfish, and they wish to benefit one person.

4. Get along in life. If you are a neighbor or a friend, you will have some intersection in life, and you can read a person in terms of getting along with each other, such as whether you will often make noise, whether you will be short-tempered, and you will quarrel over a little thing, etc.

5. Get along with each other in activities. Nowadays, various activities are held in schools, units and even society, in which a person can be understood through various cooperation and exchanges. It can be seen whether the person is introverted and withdrawn or extroverted and sunny, optimistic or pessimistic.

6. Misunderstandings to be avoided. It's better not to read a person through someone else's mouth. Because everyone looks at things and people from different angles, even if most people say that this person is good, it does not mean that this person is really good, and most people say that this person is bad, it does not mean that this person is very bad.