What to do if you feel like a walking dead?

If you feel that you are a walking dead, then you should reflect on yourself, think about whether you have your own goals in life, whether you have a strong spirit to struggle, and whether you have strong courage.

The reason why I feel like the walking dead is that I feel extremely confused about my future and have no direction for my life. For this situation, you should re-examine yourself, re-understand yourself, and reposition yourself. And find out your own shortcomings and all kinds of bad problems, and strive to correct them, say goodbye to the walking dead in the past, and move forward to your future self.

Only by persevering in this way will you get a new self.

Life is full of thorns, and when you encounter setbacks, you should face them head-on, work hard, and strive for a good future for yourself, only in this way will you not feel like a walking corpse, and you will be full of energy to work hard and struggle every day.

I think you can read a little bit of books, feel the true meaning of life in the process of reading, and find that there are still many people in this world who are in trouble and are constantly struggling, and you will also have some insights.

You need a faith to find where your soul belongs.

Classmate Xiao Xu called me **, and he returned to his hometown after graduation and lived a life that I envied. I joked to him, is it very rich? How has life been lately?

Unexpectedly, when it came to his current life, he was silent for a long time. Say, it seems to be okay, I can't say anything bad, I just don't think it's interesting.

It's boring ......I was stunned for a moment, put away my joy, tried to feel the boring feeling, and tried to recall the moments when I once felt "boring".

I feel that Xiao Xu's current state is not good, but behind the seemingly happiness, there is a deep sense of powerlessness and the loss of life motivation. This feeling reminds me of a frog that has been boiled in warm water.

This "boring" is to live but not feel the taste of being alive; This "boring" is the helplessness of the walking dead.

Looking back, I also had the feeling of "boring" in my life. When I was in middle school, I couldn't do what I was really interested in except for the schoolwork I had to study every day, and I seemed to have a looming dream in my heart, but I always felt that it was unattainable. As a result, I often feel that it is "boring".

So, how do you get out of this "boring" state and regain control of your life's motivation?

Psychologist Chiksenmihai came up with the idea of "flow".

The concept of "flow" was coined by psychologist Chixant Mihai in 2004 and refers to a state of well-being that people experience when they are immersed in something in the moment, engaged, and enjoying it.

Chikcente Mihai describes the state of "flow" as "feeling like you're working entirely on it, and you feel like you're distant." Time flies, and you feel that every action and thought you make is happening like a cloud.

You are fully focused, and all your abilities are used to the fullest.

Specifically, there are 7 aspects: total immersion, ecstasy, inner clarity, ability, calmness, time flies, and inner motivation.

In order to avoid "boring" and achieve a state of flow, there are 3 ways to refer to it.

One is to try more things. It's only by trying to do something through practice that you can really know how you feel about it. Imagination, analysis, and testing can't really help you do that.

The second is to evaluate and adjust the "challenges" and "skills". When you find that something is challenging and you don't have enough skills, you should learn new skills in time to meet the challenge. Conversely, when one thing is not challenging enough, increasing the difficulty can also help you better get into a state of flow.

The third is to set clear and specific goals and take the initiative to seek feedback. The clearer the goal, the more confident people are about their ability and the more focused they are to work hard. Finding feedback can help people make timely adjustments based on the feedback, and avoid wasting enthusiasm and energy due to repeated encounters.

Above, avoid "boring", and also avoid the walking dead.

Know. What do you mean?..

Common. Ironize people who have no ideals and do nothing. Foolish life, though alive, is like a dead man.

Explanation of the words: walking corpse, a corpse that can walk around; Walking Flesh: A body that moves around without a soul.

Source: Jin Wang Jia's "Notes" Jianshan Pants Volume 6: "Not a scholar, although it exists, it is called the walking dead." ”

Interpretation: Those who do not learn, even if they are alive, are still in vain.

Nature of idiom: Derogatory.

Idiom usage: associative; as an object, a definite.

Idiom explanation: Walk is action, activity is walking, walking, moving. It is also used to describe a person as if he has no soul, no body, and looks extremely decadent.

Now I can do what I say" is the only common saying that refers to a person's current situation is completely different from before, and this sentence means: My current situation can make me say better things. "Dead walkers" generally refers to a person who moves in life without direction, or wanders around without a plan, with no goals and no goals to achieve.

Now I have to say that the walking dead means that in my own life, because I don't have any goals to pursue, and at the same time, I don't achieve what I want when I say it quietly, so I live like the walking dead.

The term "walking dead" comes from the Bible and refers to a person who lives and withers but has no soul, that is, the living dead. It alludes to the fact that people are bound to the rules and customs of society in their daily lives, and can only act according to a certain pattern, without free play, and can only live in a step-by-step manner, like a puppet, without thoughts, feelings, and vitality, and can only walk mechanically according to other people's settings, and live meaninglessly.

Now I mean walking dead, stiff and soulless, do something according to instinct.

The term "walking dead" comes from the ancient Chinese legend of the Ji Dynasty, which means that the dead can still move, and now we use this word to describe a person who looks normal on the surface, but his heart is blank, and he is at a loss, like a corpse.

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