How can you live hypocritically? I feel that I am living a self conscious and hypocritical life, how

Now this society is too degenerate, I have been running away before, but I still can't escape, so my friend should face it bravely, Do you think you will be happy if you live hypocritically? I think it's okay to be yourself, and if you don't care about some things, don't worry about them, after all, people's lives are very long. Every day I live in a world that is not my own, etc.

When you're no longer young, you feel like everything that happened yesterday doesn't seem to make sense. Nor does it mean being completely self. You have to survive in society before you have the capital to live your own life.

I really don't think there's any need for hypocrisy! Actually, I was wrong, not all people are as simple as I think! There are always so many reasons why you have to disguise yourself.

What "people are standing in the rivers and lakes, and they can't help themselves!" "That's it. How can I say that?

Sometimes I feel that such a person's life is really not simple, it is not easy, it is really hard, and it is really selfish! But people are not saints, they are all flesh and blood, alive and jumping. So sometimes think about whether there is a reason not to be hypocritical!

He even thinks that only hypocrisy is true! This is really a contradiction and not a contradiction. A hypocrite obviously doesn't want to do certain things in his heart, but if these things are good or not bad for him, he will not hesitate to do them.

Hypocritical people obviously don't like someone, or even dislike someone, but in order to please others, in order to get more people's support, or for their own interests, they will say things against their will, etc. In a word, hypocritical people always wear a mask to face the people around them, whether they are relatives or enemies, friends or enemies.

When did people stop living hypocritically? No one is real all their lives! -_

Hello subject!

First of all, to be able to self-realize that you are in such a state that you are not comfortable with, in fact, you have improved a lot in this area.

It is equivalent to that you are already aware of it first, and when you start to know, that is, growth is already on the way.

Let's take a look at why there is such an uncomfortable feeling.

If you write a description of this text and read it carefully, you can feel that there is a deep sense of self-blame and criticism in it.

In fact, when we feel such an uncomfortable situation, we can observe ourselves as a third-party third party, rather than with the duty of evaluation.

When we have the responsibility of evaluation, there is no way to come up with a more suitable way to improve and grow.

When you long for a simple and honest life, in fact, you are also very kind in your heart, and in reality, why do you sometimes lose sight, or it is easy to ignore some things.

Maybe it is still related to some of your own inner needs that are not met, in fact, sometimes people will say that narcissism and self-love are what defines narcissistic self-love.

Everyone's opinion is different, in fact, the real narcissism is not what you say about self-love, only love yourself, love yourself is actually very good.

But if it's narcissism, narcissism is asking others to meet your own needs, and you just say that you meet your own needs, which is not wrong or wrong, but to take better care of yourself.

There are many, most of the people who have lost themselves, first of all, they don't take care of themselves, to help and take care of others.

In fact, sometimes we don't really want to help others, but with a sense of control, so sometimes we can see that the people around us are very kind and enthusiastic about getting along with each other.

It may also be that you don't see some other faces, but a relationship that is really more suitable is for everyone to stand in their own center and take care of their own affairs first.

If you can't even take care of yourself and your own inner needs and don't meet your own needs to help others or treat others with enthusiasm, maybe there will be other meanings involved.

In fact, sometimes I really grow, and if there is no discomfort, I should actually pay more attention to my own growth, rather than focusing on others.

Only when you pay attention to yourself, when you get to your own inner needs and provide yourself with what you need, in fact, your inner strength will come out, and when you come out to enrich and be superfluous, you will naturally help others.

Instead of helping others when they are relatively incapable and not strong, and when they are still in a state of loss, there is an expectation that they will get to help others, and this is conditional to help others, not to help others unconditionally.

It is recommended to look at it from a different perspective, love yourself well, you are very worthy of loving yourself. Blessing.

In fact, everyone has a hypocritical side, but the degree of manifestation is different.

Because people survive in society, competition arises in order to survive, and in competition there is a connection to the ability of individuals, and some hypocrisy is the means used to achieve certain ends.

Sometimes you have to be hypocritical on certain occasions, and you should understand the truth that the law of the jungle is the strongest!

Some friends are worthy of your heart's work for him, and some are just ordinary friends or can only be regarded as superficial friends, so hypocrisy is only for those who need to be hypocritical to them, not in front of true friends!

So we have to admit it.

Sometimes just getting to know a hypocritical person will leave you with a good impression.

However, as time passed, the veil of hypocrisy was lifted.

Naturally, there will be no more good impressions in my heart.