As a junior, should I take care of the affairs of my elders?

Introduction: There are many elders who are at odds with each other, and a disagreement can provoke anger. Sometimes they will beat and scold each other, and the juniors can only watch from the sidelines, so should the juniors meddle in the affairs of the elders?

As a junior, do you have a say in the affairs of your elders?

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As a junior, first of all, the affairs of the elders should not be taken care of, because after all, they are still young and have no qualifications to take care of them, and secondly, if it is something that has a bad impact. You can give them a reminder, you can't say that you are going to take care of him. Moreover, if you, as a junior, manage too much about the affairs of your elders, the elders will think that you are very troublesome, and in their eyes you have no status and are not qualified to manage the affairs between them, so if it is not too much, try not to go.

There is a generation gap with the elders.

There is a big difference between the worldview of the elders and everyone now, and the view of right and wrong is also different. Generally, for the elders, they are more face-saving people, and they will not let these juniors get involved in their affairs. If a junior is asked to take care of themselves, they will feel that as an elder, they have no status in front of the juniors.

So that's why as a junior, you shouldn't care about the affairs of your elders, just do your own thing. <>

First of all, in the eyes of parents, no matter how old they are, they will always be a child in their eyes, so the child has no say in front of them. But occasionally you can give them advice, maybe they won't listen to your suggestions, maybe they will scold you with a head and face, these are relatively normal, the elders are old, some things they will still ask for help from the juniors, at this time we can manage, but if they don't want you to take care of their affairs, it's best not to care, because as a junior, you should also respect the responsibility of the elders, the choices of the elders.

Some people are together every day, but they can't always talk together, this is a huge generation gap, in addition to the discord of the three views there is another important reason, that is, age, age is the biggest obstacle to communication between two people, for people of different ages, the things they like are different, so there will be a lot of friction, even if it is their own parents, there will be some friction, not that parents or children do not love each other, but because of the huge age difference, the elders like to discipline the younger generation, Because as people who have come over, they always have some experience, but as juniors, should they take care of the affairs of their elders? Let's take a look! <>

1. What kind of person is an elder?

In fact, not everyone is worthy of being an elder, the real elder needs others to respect him, but there are many people who are getting older, but they are still a despicable villain with no bottom line, like this kind of elder will only cause a negative impact on people, if there are children in the family, it is easy to be affected by this elder, for example, the elder likes to drink or like to beat people violently, these behaviors are wrong, so the first thing to see is what kind of person the elder is, if the elder usually has no big problem, Then we have to respect his way of life, maybe he doesn't necessarily accept the way of life of young people, so it's good to respect each other. <>

Second, should I take care of the affairs of the elders?

If you always feel that a certain elder is a positive image in your mind, but he has done a lot of dirty things behind his back, hurting his family and children, like this situation must be managed, if some of the things he does are just trivial and petty, there is no need to interfere too much, after all, this is his own life, he has lived for so many years, so even if you open your mouth to care about him, it will not achieve the effect, but will cause the other party to be disgusted, do not deliberately care about the affairs of the elders, Everyone is an adult, you can hint to him, there is no need to say too much. <>

In short, no matter what kind of person the elder is or what he has done, if he doesn't hinder himself, he doesn't have to care, and if he has violated the interests of the whole family, then he has to remind the other party.

No, because everyone has their own ideas and opinions, as juniors we can give some advice to our elders, but we can't control our elders.

1. In the economy and living conditions of the elders, especially the parents, who have worked hard all their lives, come from difficult times, pull you all the way, and suffer too much, but they have no complaints. When you grow up, you should be grateful to your parents and use your own hands to let your parents enjoy the blessings of the next life.

2. In terms of living habits, you can take care of the impact on you, and if it has no impact or little impact, you can ignore it. When people get old, their habits are almost fixed, and it is very difficult to change them.

In short, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and what others say is right, but what you make is not necessarily right. As long as it is for the good of the elders, pay more attention to the methods and methods when doing it.

Your elder's affairs should not be taken care of under normal circumstances, because after all, he thinks that you are too young to be qualified to take care of him. But if it's something that has a particularly bad impact, you can't say whether you should care about it or not, at most it's a kind reminder to him, if the elders violate ethics and morals, you have to take care of it, and if you break the law, you have to take care of it. As juniors, you can give your own suggestions to your elders as a reference, and you can also tell your elders some knowledge of the law, and you can tell your elders some basic common sense on the computer to expand their knowledge.

An Li said that the younger should not care about the affairs of the elders, but if the elders do something wrong, and the younger ones see it, they should also take advice from the elders, and even be cautious, which is also a matter of course and a formal way.

I'm going to go with a wave of heart.

I don't think it's okay, at least 90 percent of the things that shouldn't be managed. First of all, everyone has the limitations of understanding, the development of things is random, and the result is not absolute, so what do you think is the right solution to the problem is not necessarily objectively correct, even if it is objectively correct at the time, the development of the thing is uncontrollable, even if the final result goes according to your idea, if the person (that is, your elders) thinks that this is not the best result, what should you do? There is a question of regret.

The summary is that your idea is not necessarily right, (this kind of right, it is objectively right) even if it is right, things may not necessarily develop the same way you think, even if it is what you think, towards the end you think, but the elders subjectively feel that it is not right, what should you do? It's just regret.

The remaining ten percent of the intervention, I think, is that your thoughts can circumvent the parents' regrets later, and you forcibly intervene in order not to make them regret it. That's all it takes, right? Or is it objectively right?

Anyway, try not to interfere.

As a junior, you should care about and respect your elders, but some things should not be managed by meddlers, and should be handled reasonably according to the actual situation of your family.

Of course, if the elders are sick, of course the younger ones have to take care of the elderly.

As a junior, you can participate in the affairs of the elders and give some advice, but don't interfere too much, just like the elders respect each other for us.

It depends on the specific situation, if the elders violate ethics and morals, they must be punished, and if they violate the law, they must be punished.

According to the traditional virtues of loyalty and filial piety in our country, we can participate in the affairs of the elders, and if it is really reasonable, we can explain it appropriately and patiently, but don't comment too much, let alone care

The younger generation should take care of the affairs of the elderly, which is a responsibility and an obligation

In fact, there are not so many difficulties in this, as long as you let go and see clearly. When persuading, remember to talk about their life and health from the perspective of the family, but generally they will not listen to our advice, after all, we are all juniors, and what we say naturally has no weight!

If you are an immediate family member, then you can give advice, but don't make a decision.

Summary. Kissing, although it is said to be an elder, has the authority of the elders, but there are still some things that cannot be done to the younger generations, such as: beating and scolding the children at will, interfering too much in the lives of the children, etc., if the elders do these things to the younger generations, not only let themselves and the lives of the younger generations be a mess, but even cause great pain to the lives of the younger generations.

What are the things that the elders can't do to the younger ones, and what are the reasons for this?

Kissing, although it is the elders, has the authority of the elders, but there are still some things that cannot be done to the younger generations, such as: beating and scolding the children at will, interfering with the children's lives excessively, etc., if the elders do these things to the younger generations, not only let themselves and the younger generations celebrate the life of chicken feathers, and even cause great pain to the lives of the younger generations.

There are also examples: the elders can't kneel to the younger generations, and the younger generations will lose their lives. The elders cannot give great gifts to the juniors, and the juniors may damage their virtues.

As an adult, we should have our own judgment and the ability to think independently. But here are a few things we can do.

1. Carefully refer to the opinions of elders.

Therefore, I will not absolutely listen to the opinions of my elders. However, I will carefully refer to the opinions of my elders. Because elders have more life experiences and experiences than we do, their advice may be of great help to us.

2. Refer to the opinions of the elders and deal with the problem in combination with the actual situation.

When I am faced with a problem, I will actively seek the opinions of my elders based on the actual situation. In the process, I listen carefully to their suggestions, while also retaining my point of view, comparing the two and making a final decision. After all, everyone's situation is different, and the methods and experiences that apply to our elders may not be suitable for us.

We need to balance the experience of our elders with our own judgment.

3. Actively communicate with elders and strive to reach consensus.

In addition to carefully considering the opinions of my elders, I will also actively communicate with them and try to reach a consensus on the gaps. In the process of communication, I will also respect the opinions of my elders, properly handle different opinions, and build a relationship of mutual respect and trust. This will not only allow us to better benefit from the experience of our elders, but also allow our opinions and opinions to be taken into account.

In short, as juniors, we should take into account our own actual situation when dealing with problems, and carefully refer to the opinions of our elders, but we should not absolutely obey them. At the same time, it is also necessary to actively communicate with elders to find consensus. Of course, when the advice of our elders conflicts with our own, we should respect each other's ideas and make the most reasonable decision.

1. First of all, older people sometimes impose unreasonable demands on juniors out of worry, they are worried that juniors will be influenced by the educational and social environment, and they are afraid that juniors will take the wrong path, so they will impose unreasonable demands on juniors.

2. Secondly, the older generation may also impose the requirement of no wheel hole return to the younger generation in daily life. They are accustomed to doing everything they do in their lives to be the best, so they expect the younger generation to be the most perfect, and they will demand the younger generation more strongly.

3. Finally, the inheritance of social concepts and history may also lead to unreasonable demands of the elders for the younger generations. Some elders are convinced that the early parents raised their children, and this style of education may not be suitable for the younger generations of today, but the elders will still impose unreasonable demands against reality.

In short, the elders will make unreasonable demands on the juniors, sometimes because they are worried about the future of the juniors, sometimes because they are used to everything they have done in their lives to be the best, and sometimes because of the inheritance of social history.

1.Afraid that the child will take a detour.

Because the elders went through a lot of detours when they were young, they didn't want us to take the detours they took, so they wanted to tell us how to choose a shortcut with less tribulation. It's because they love us and that's why they tell us this.

2.Desire to control.

It is inevitable that some parents have some control over their children, hoping that their children can obey the arrangements of adults. But the child is an independent individual, he has his own thoughts, so the two are a more contradictory, parents think that through the way of preaching, they can always let the child listen to them.

The elderly generally love to preach, mainly because there are no boundaries and do not respect private space.

Because they grew up in such an environment, their parents are short, and now people are much busier, so how can they have time to preach, and it would be good to be busy themselves.

When you encounter this kind of person who is looking for you to talk to, just say thank you, and then pretend that something is going to go away.

Education likewise gives the older generation a possible sense of fulfillment. By educating the younger generation, the older generation gains a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment after the younger generation avoids suffering losses or achieves certain achievements again and again. The common phenomenon of child comparison is to some extent the embodiment of this psychology, in other words, it can also be called vanity.

For "don't listen to the old man, suffer in front of you" Xunhong, you still have to have a choice. Life is your own, whether it is good or bad, you are responsible for it. Therefore, it is wise to listen to what the "old man" says, not to be swayed, and to firmly hold the decision in your own hands.