Should I care if my boyfriend has two mobile phones?

It's also normal for a boyfriend to have two mobile phones, because work requires many people to have two mobile phones, one for work and one for personal mobile phones.

You're right to be defensive, and there's nothing wrong with you checking his phone occasionally like this, which can be regarded as a reminder and warning to him. But don't worry too much and be nervous, if he really has a situation, you can also feel it through his abnormal behavior.

Therefore, it is possible to manage the two mobile phones, but it is necessary to use a good way, but not too strictly, occasionally loose and sometimes tight, and it is also a good way to give him the necessary restraint and self-discipline.

It shouldn't be, it's normal to have two mobile phones, and if you have several mobile phones, even if it's ten mobile phones, that's his business, and you don't have the right to interfere with him. Give a little private space, people may just not have enough memory so two mobile phones, as long as he doesn't do too much, from another point of view, if you have two mobile phones, do you want him to take care of you? You can only use one mobile phone, even if you really need two, you definitely don't want to.

I think we have to give each other some space, it's actually normal to have two mobile phones, and I can't manage it. If you insist on taking care of it, there may be some quarrels, and he will not feel free and uncomfortable. You can try to talk to him and talk about your ideas.

I think I have to deal with him. There are two mobile phones to prove, it has two kinds of business, what about this business? It's that he can reconnect with others behind your back.

Then, a mobile phone will contact you again. A mobile phone and then do something you don't know. I think that's deceiving you.

You don't even know what she's doing behind your back. It makes people feel very uncomfortable. Same as I thought, so be it!

I think your husband has two mobile phones, you shouldn't care, it's not a bad thing to have two mobile phones, besides, there are many people with two mobile phones.

I think you're too sensitive, and he says let you wait a while and give it to you, and you can't stand it, as if he's done something terribly wrong. You also said that you don't look at her phone, but in fact, he didn't ask you to see it, you want to see it.

Hello, it's just two mobile phones, there's no need to care so much, there's no need to care about it at all.

Everyone has the right to privacy. It doesn't matter if it's your boyfriend or your husband. It's all about having your own secrets.

You'd better not interfere with your husband. He has his secrets, and you have yours. The two of you, even as a couple, should respect each other.

Because the two of you are equal. Never interfere with other people's freedoms.

Some people like to have their own business, for the sake of family and career management, it is also necessary to have two mobile phones, so as long as he really loves you, do you think it is necessary to manage!

You're a little redundant, a lot of people have two mobile phones, if he has an outside heart, you can't control it, it's better to trust each other.

In fact, if your boyfriend doesn't have any aggressive behavior, don't be too him. Everyone has their own personal space, and we don't have to pay attention to others all the time.

It's normal for your boyfriend to have two mobile phones, so if you have any concerns, you can pay attention to his unusual behavior, but it's best to be more mindful and don't be too direct and intense.

There are a lot of people who use two mobile phones now, why bother, let him use it if necessary.

Two truths: First, even husband and wife need to respect each other's privacy and give each other a certain amount of space and trust.

Second, if there is a problem with intuition, there is a good chance that there really is.

In between, you have to learn to grasp the scale, but also learn the ways and means.

What would you do if your husband also looked at your phone often, and it was better to give the other person some space and trust.

You're a little too sensitive! Don't do this, hurt feelings like this!

Unless your boyfriend is not human, you still want to control him? Wake up. I hope you understand that this is just a fantasy that will never come true. Don't doubt my words, because I'm a comer.

I think it's good for you to persuade your boyfriend to quit smoking or persuade your boyfriend to smoke less, but you're worried that his body Smoking is harmful to your health and you want him to quit smoking, it's okay Maybe the method is a little too radical?? So your boyfriend will lie to you and then secretly smoke I think as long as you don't smoke too much, you can control it to half a pack or a pack a day It's no problem My boyfriend doesn't smoke or drink alcohol But I smoke and drink He will quarrel with me at first because of smoking Then one day he suddenly said to me I asked Uncle They (very good friends, but older people have to be called Uncle ) You are stressed now Smoking can really relieve your stress I don't agree But I don't smoke I don't know what it feels like Pay attention when you smoke by yourself It's not good for your health Don't smoke too much You can try to replace his smoking habit with something else.

Smoking not only causes cancer in smokers, but if you have children, your children will form up and harm those around you.

Anyway, talk to him about it, saying that smoking is bad for your health.

Yes, some time ago there was a guy who liked me, I asked him if he smoked, he said he smoked, and then I didn't think much about refusing it directly.

Sometimes men also have to smoke in order to socialize. Tell him to stop smoking at home.

You can't be too strict, you can't quit smoking, let him smoke less, and if you smoke again, you will go to the toilet to punish him.

It's really hard to say! You can let him choose, you know? I am a non-smoker, there is no topic when I am with everyone, it is difficult to deal with stingy people, everyone knows that smoking is not good for the body, not only yourself, the key is to smoke to mix in the smoking circle!

Tube it! Because health is important! lest you get sick when you are old! It can also affect your child's health! Quit smoking slowly, don't be in a hurry, it's really sad to have a day without smoking, the way is to let you think, I hope your family is harmonious to quit smoking!

Anyway, if he really loves you, he will quit smoking for you, believe that I am for his good, I also hate other people smoking, understand your feelings.

It is advisable to tell him what you think first and then see how he reacts. If you really love, you should be able to respond to it. At least maybe I want to smoke in the future, and I won't smoke it in front of you. But it's up to him, hahaha.

Just don't smoke in front of you!

I feel the same way, I also hate it, my boyfriend also smokes and wants to get angry when he sees it.

it doesn't matter what happens to you in the future.

You're too dependent on him. You have to learn to be self-reliant... At the same time, you can see that you love her very much, and you can give some appropriate advice to men, men always want to show their manly side in front of outsiders, and show their gentle side in front of their girlfriends.

If you really think there's a serious problem, then it's okay to investigate it secretly and don't tell him openly, as that will not only turn him off, but will more likely make him actually walk away with (if there is) that person.

It is necessary to be strict, but you can't manage it too hard, don't give any freedom, you have to know how to let go, but you know what he's doing, that is, you can do whatever he does, but you can never escape your sight!

There is a sentence that you can refer to. A good man will control himself and does not need a woman to take care of it; Bad men can't control themselves, and women can't control themselves.

Tolerance is not the same as connivance, you have to take care of what should be managed, but you must give him a certain area of self-esteem, for his lies, you should let him know that you know that he is lying, if two people use deception to maintain, the consequences are unimaginable.

Don't, he'll be disgusted if it's too strict, give him proper space.

Men have to be strict, because the color center is too heavy.

The wife is strict, the wife is strict, of course the wife must be strict! Girlfriends can't do that!

It's okay to give each other a little bit of freedom.

Men like you, you can't escape, don't like you, sticky will only hurt.

There are tight and loose to grasp yourself, different times, different occasions, different things!

What's the use of managing it too tightly.

Can you manage it for the rest of your life?

The relationship between the two parties is about trust.

If I had to leave, I wouldn't stay.

If you hold it too tightly, you'll die, and if you put it too loosely, you'll fly away.

There is no harm in playing properly, as long as you don't indulge in it, my husband loves to play games very much, but I give him a time limit, and he is obedient.

It depends on how good you are -- I'm a cashier, and some of the people in our Internet café are very good at it, and they've been in this Internet café for many days, so it's better to control it a little bit.

If he spends the time he was spending with you on the game, that's fine. It's okay.

Tell you a good way.

You have to manage it, but the best way to make him feel that you are not annoying is to play with him.

He didn't have restraint, you have, that's it.

The tube! The game hurts the feelings between two people the most!

If it's their own emotional matter, don't get involved.

It's better not to go! Otherwise, things may be more troublesome.

It's a degree, and it's a different kind of self-paste.

Don't bother, don't make anyone blame you.

Yes, because your original intention of finding a girlfriend is that someone can take care of yourself for your mother in the future.

As a man, he probably likes his boyfriend to care about him.

The problem is that as a woman, you should grasp a degree and know that moderation is enough!

Don't blindly take care of everything, men still want to save face!

Everyone should respect each other!

In this way, you must be very happy.

Two people also need to have space to get along, don't ask about their family affairs, it is related to the development of the two of you, and the feelings can be treated correctly

Oh, I'll go, this is really hard to say, if you want to take care of it, look at the face, he doesn't want to care, besides, why care, is there a husband.

To put it simply, men don't like women to be in charge, and boyfriends don't want their mothers, they want girlfriends.

His food, clothing, housing and transportation should be managed, and his brotherhood should not be taken care of.

You can take care of food, clothing, housing and transportation, and you don't have to worry about things at work.

Just keep him in mind and don't have other girls.

It doesn't matter, you just do the laundry and eat.

If you don't care about anything, your friends can last a long time.

Concerning the tube with him, not with regard to him.

I don't think you have experienced too many feelings, in fact, that's it, after getting along for a long time, gradually, he thinks that you are not as good as he thought, he is boring, so he wants to leave, I think, you don't need to say anything to him, many things have to go with the flow, maybe he thinks you are good after a while? None of this is exact. If you want to think about it, you must first learn to give up, give him freedom, let him choose, in fact, people will talk about many times in their lives, and there will always be a suitable person for you who will accompany you for a lifetime.

Moreover, liking is originally caused by hormone secretion, and after being with you for a long time, the hormone secretion is not so much, and he naturally thinks that you are not so suitable for him. People have to go through a lot of things in their lives, they will lose a lot of things, or there will be many twists and turns, and they must learn to look down. In a word, let it be....

Do men care, women are buying clothes and buying all kinds of small things every day?

If you can't control it, you can persuade reasonably, don't be too blunt.

First of all, smoking is harmful to health, and if a girl asks a boy to quit smoking, it must be done with good intentions. But now most boys have a smoking addiction, and it is impossible for you to tell him not to smoke all of a sudden, this kind of thing has to be done slowly, starting to smoke less, and finally slowly not smoking, forming a process. Of course, if a boy is unwilling to listen to you quit smoking, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, maybe he already has a smoking addiction, and it will be very uncomfortable if he is addicted to smoking.

Hello: The tube must be managed to help him quit smoking and be healthy.

But the method should be appropriate, tactful and subtle, and don't be in a hurry.

You should leave this advice alone. If you manage too much, he'll be annoyed.

You have to take care of it, which can prove that he doesn't love you or not, and he will definitely listen to you if he loves you.

If your boyfriend thinks you are in love with you a lot, then I think you should first find such a question from yourself, whether you really manage a lot, or your boyfriend's freedom is greater than everything, because in many loves, every boy has always had his own freedom in his heart, and these men feel that their freedom is incomparable to all things, so many times girlfriends should know their boyfriend better.

Whether it should be cared for or not depends on the specific matter, and it cannot be generalized. If couples want to be happy, they must learn to maintain a sense of boundaries. Bear 100% of your own responsibilities, do not interfere in the other party's internal affairs, have enough ability to make yourself happy, and at the same time can drive the other party to become happy, intimate relationships and interpersonal relationships will become very easy and simple.

1. Distinguish your own boundaries.

If a person wants to maintain a sense of boundaries, he needs to remember: you have to distinguish between what is your business and what is his. For example, your business is to chat with him and wait for a reply, as well as to adjust your mood; His business is to decide whether and when to reply to you.

As for whether his reply makes you happy or annoyed, that's not his responsibility.

2. 100% take responsibility for things within the boundary.

For the above example, let's further feel, some people may say: replying to other people's messages is a kind of politeness! We often feel that being polite has to reply to the other person's messages, as if we are unfriendly if we don't.

The problem is that the other person may not feel the need to exercise this courtesy, because he is exercising his rights. He has the right not to reply, that is, to do things within his own boundaries, and this practice does not actively violate our psychological boundaries. Sometimes, it's normal for others to ignore you; It's normal for others to ignore you.

Our psychological expectations are not the code of conduct that the other party must abide by, otherwise we will make the mistake of taking the other party's psychological boundaries as our own psychological boundaries and confusing them.

3. Don't violate the other party's borders.

When many boys pursue girls, they stalk girls, which will bring a lot of trouble to the other party, which is actually a kind of control behavior that crosses the line. Boys hope to give through self-touching in exchange for the control of the other party's good feelings, which is an emotional manifestation of unclear boundaries and immaturity.