Two boys had a conflict over me, who should I trust?

If a man improves himself by belittling others, I will not appreciate such a man! Because that's so despicable!

If you're not in a hurry to find a boyfriend, then ignore any of them!

If you're looking for a boyfriend, look more at how they do to their friends? What kind of people are their friends? This gives you a complete picture of them!

As the saying goes, things gather like and people divide by groups, which makes sense!

Don't believe anyone's words first, although they are both people you trust, but feelings are selfish, so ...

You have to look at the subtleties to see who is more suitable for you!

You have to see how you feel, don't care what other people think.

People can't make choices for you if they don't understand your situation.

Believe in yourself! I wish you the happiness you want soon!

They are not the conflict for you, it is themselves, so ignore them for now.

This shows that they both care about you very much, so you can observe it carefully.

Since the two of them are like this, you'd better ignore either of them.

It's better not to believe that much! Believe in your own feelings!

Don't believe anyone.

Those who tell the truth generally choose to be silent.

Applying the things of A to B to himself will not give the answer.

Aren't you feeling a little accomplished?

I believe that I am your patron saint.

You only have to remain neutral, no one should be biased, you think about their head-on conflict, if you go to one side and don't know what will happen, today's young people are so impulsive for love, in case of an uncontrollable situation, how do you end up, after all, they are all because of you, since you can't resolve it, then only you have to remain neutral, at least you can control the current situation, you ignore anyone, what kind of strength are they fighting, maybe after a long time, one of them will let goMaybe they'll become good friends, but it's better if you're less involved in things anyway.

The best thing to do is not to believe it.

Listen to your husband, you will live with him for the rest of your life.

Young people, you can try to break through

I think your boyfriend's words make a lot of sense, after all, you are a girl, it is better to earn 5000 as a worker than 2000 in the office, really, women are going to be hurt, why make yourself too tired! Hehe......What do you think?

From your point of view, how much your girlfriend loves you, if she loves you 100%, isn't it money, since she loves, she shouldn't treat you as an outsider, isn't her money your money, you shouldn't say that she should also take it out if you are in trouble. On the contrary, if she doesn't love you so much, she will think that if you break up one day, won't the money be wasted If it is true love, she will not be reluctant to give up money, hehe! Friend, if you really love your girlfriend, don't worry about that.

Work hard to earn more money and support her, and you will be blessed with you.

In fact, many people have this kind of contradiction, and I also have it. Maybe money is really important to women. Whether we can suffer together, I think you can only know if you have really experienced it.

A woman who really loves you will share the joys and sorrows with you, you really have no money, and she will not be stingy. (provided she has).

And body and money can't be put together, let alone feelings

I think that when a man spends a woman's money, it will only make the woman feel that the man is really worthy of a woman.

Do you rely on? Can you shelter yourself from the elements? It's me, I'm going to leave this kind of man who can't even support himself.

You're kind to your girlfriend, why would he leave you?

Men always ask for this and that.

Your relationship hasn't gotten to that point yet.

Girls are like this, they want to choose the one who loves them more, but they are afraid that they will regret not choosing what they love in the future.

No one can help you with this kind of thing, so let's figure it out for yourself.

5 years of affection is deep enough.

Let's choose him.

He will love you for the rest of his life.

Loyalty dilemma! Now that you have accepted the current one, you should stick to your decision. As for how to do it, just look at your second post! I gave you a little advice there!

The second and the first will not give you happiness.

Take advantage of it. I hope you are happy.

If I were you, I'd pick the 2nd.

What you like for a long time What does that treat you to you, only you know, does he like you or not? Maybe you don't even know about it, or maybe you're not sure.

Whether to find someone I love or someone who loves me, if it's me, I choose the latter: "I'm conflicted right now, I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt either of them."

If the second one sees your question, I'm sure you've hurt him by now, and as for the first one, I don't know if it will hurt, but it's not as serious as the second one.

But love is selfish, and the first person mentioned in your question is which one you have liked for a long time, which proves that you like him.

If you really can't let go of him, just ask him what he thinks, love is selfish, but if it's me, I'll choose the second one.

It has a kind of Korean ** taste.

The story in Korea is about a cute princess and a cold prince together!

If you like which one you like right now, who will you be with? Don't dislike to be with him, it's someone else who hurts in the end, think about it.

He should confess before you are sure of the relationship.

He didn't do it.

So you should choose the latter.

Let the former be like the wind.

Look at yourself, others can't help you.

I think it's the first boy.

He may have been hurt before.

I don't dare to love much now.

But your actions touched him.

Make him want to fall in love with you again.

But you have to choose to walk away at a time like this.

That's why he said things like this to you.

Now it's up to you who you care about.'"

Because what kind of love can last forever now?

Of course there are very few.

It's up to you to choose your friend or the guy who is now number one, but that former classmate is yours.

I think it's good to just keep being friends.

Because many times after a friend converts into a boyfriend.

It's rare to become friends in the future.

So it's up to you to decide.

The first one is in the load.

The second one is more realistic.

Don't go with the first one.

Although none of us men are good things.

Of course, you choose the second one, and you will regret the first one, and you hurt the second one, but if you choose the second one, you won't hurt the first one, because he doesn't like you, and your feelings for each other are not deep.

Don't be angry I found that the man you like has a bit of a problem with his brain Since he knows that you like him so much, then I have to give you an explanation, don't say what, and you came to this sentence after you talked about friends What did he do earlier? I strongly ask you to talk to you who likes you I believe he will be good to you I wish you happiness

Ha! You're in a similar situation to me and my girlfriend, my girlfriend is playing your role and I'm the second boy! I can tell you that even if you choose the first boy, the second boy will still wait for you!

My girlfriend chose the first boy at first! But the first boy was still very indifferent to her! I waited for half a year, and my girlfriend suddenly came to me, hugged me and said:

He still ignores me! She cried and said: I'm sorry to let you wait for me for half a year, I will use the time to pay you back later.

In the end, how to choose depends on LZ.

Love is not a scale.

Always the most unfair.

But one thing you have to know is that you can't have two boats on your feet.

You have to hurt someone, too.

You might as well think for yourself, think about who you will be happier and happier, and don't think about selfishness.

Because love itself is selfish.

Your starting point is yourself.

Don't hesitate.

This not only hurts you, but also makes both of them sad.

It looks like you can't sleep. Feelings this kind of thing depends on the individual, if it were me, I would choose what I liked, I suggest you and the second man, personal thoughts, if the material conditions are similar.

From your text, it can be seen that the first man still gave you some hope, probably because he is used to you; Or maybe it's just your thoughts; Maybe he treats you as a saint and thinks that this man chasing you is not worthy of you.

Personally, I think you chase him doesn't like you very much, and even if he does, it's a faint kind, and he won't lose sleep for you.

First of all, we must know the source of the conflict, and it is good to find the reason, so that it is convenient to intervene in the dispute between two men, right?

And talk to one of them alone at the right time, explain to him that the other party is unintentional, and I hope you can have a lot of them. If you say that you have done it or eased it up a little, you have to talk to another man and resolve the misunderstanding.

Men often lose face and would rather turn against others than brake others, so through your best way to be a peacemaker, you can try to put the sin between the two of them, and let them know that in addition to the other party, there are so many external factors that cause misunderstanding between the two.

Then you can talk about your husband in front of your husband, men should be generous, don't worry too much about some things, it's all a family, why bother blushing, don't you just persuade your brother like this in front of your brother? Find an opportunity to treat them to dinner. So the problem is solved.

The first thing to know is why?!! Who's more at fault!! And then after all, your brother is an elder !! Tell me about your husband !! Be generous!! Man!! I'm cao!!

You tell them everything about your current situation, and whoever understands you means that they love you more, and if they don't understand you, then you just don't care.

As a boy, you have to admit your mistakes first, and anything can be solved.

Your boyfriend, family conditions aside, even you yourself are not sure whether he loves you or not, not to mention that he always cuts off your shortcomings in front of everyone, if he loves you, he will not do it. The days to come are still long, and if you do something that he doesn't like, he'll use this to talk about it, maybe he's been unbalanced for this, and he'll find a girl to play with to get revenge on you. The second, it seems that he is a person who can shelter you from the wind and rain, mature, and there is nothing wrong with running a family, but the two of you lack communication, and it is recommended that you pick up and answer the explanation, maybe you will have a good impression of him.

Some things depend on our hearts, and many times we are willing to choose an unhappy object because we love that person. But life is very important, love can't be a lifetime, if even the most basic life can't be guaranteed, one day there will be complaints, so it will be unhappy after all. However, if it is something that you have decided on, you don't need too much advice from others, because it won't change your heart after all.

If you don't have confidence in a poor future, it's best to think more about yourself, because feelings can be cultivated after all. As for the thing you mentioned, although I don't know about it, I think if you mind him always mentioning it, the best way to do that is to explain to him directly how you feel, and if he loves you, I think he will take you into account. I don't think he doesn't love you, because after all, he can be with you for so long, but maybe he doesn't love you deeply, or his character is like this, so he can't be with you in peace.

Try to make yourself better, so that it will be of great help to you and your love.

He doesn't value you at all, he only regards you as his last choice, and when will he stay if he doesn't leave him at this time? There are too many people in the world who are worthy of our efforts, so why not give up early, otherwise we will fall deeper and deeper and will be unable to extricate ourselves. Of course, this is just my humble opinion, it is too difficult to meet a person worth paying in a person's life, you are so self-conscious.

These things are your own business.

It's not about us.

How can outsiders decide such an important matter about themselves?..

You have to learn to choose.

Since you choose, don't give up.

Since you give up, don't regret it.

Think carefully and decide for yourself, others can't help you.

It's really too small, hehe, feelings are not child's play, they want to die.

You are a little younger, and when you grow up, you will know, many things are not as simple as you imagined, don't think about those things first, you think that if that kind of thing didn't happen, you would be as depressed as you are now, so I advise you to have a long pain is better than a short pain, or understand it as soon as possible8, if you really can't let go of him, then you can talk to him, there is nothing that two people can't solve Bless you

You seem to be too young now, and you try to think about how you will feel about this in 10 years, and whether it is time to focus on how to study or how to work.

The first question is not to care about proving that you love her.

The second question is not to take away the proof of love for her.