I love two boys and I don t know who to choose

The first thing to explain is that loving you gives you the best, not revolving around you every day.

You are not the sun, and others are not the earth), do you not realize that your problem is with you, what is your first boyfriend making money for? Not to create a better life for you?

said that he hurt you, then have you ever hurt him like you have hurt him invisibly, maybe you are unreasonable again and again, thinking that he doesn't care about you and treats you badly, but have you ever thought about how good he is to you? It's not easy to be generous to you, it's not easy to do a career, there's nowhere to vent your anger when you socialize and suffer outside, and when you get home, you think he's not good or that's not good, a man will get angry, and that's that most men are machismo, careless, this is a common problem, he comes back to you, that means he still can't let go of you in his heart, your current boyfriend doesn't take you back to his house, maybe he's doing his parents' ideological work, or maybe he thinks that you haven't developed to the point of talking about marriage, and he doesn't want to get married yet, If you want to play for a few years, all I can say is that with your current boyfriend, the road behind is unknown

So, if you want to live a happy life, I think you should choose your ex-boyfriend, because you have a good emotional foundation, and both parties know each other's temper, when the time comes to understand each other, your contradictions are nothing at all, don't people say, behind a successful man, you need a woman who understands and cares about him, your ex-boyfriend just hopes that you can support him behind the back, instead of complaining about him, a woman who troubles him, sometimes, a woman is a little stupid, it may be better...

Close your eyes to yourself and imagine your life in the future, with your ex-boyfriend (change your temper, get married and have children, and the family drives to an outing).

With his current boyfriend (first go to face his parents, good or bad unknown, good words are not said, if his parents do not approve, the result can be imagined, marriage is unknown, and there is no assertive man, in your future life, you will live very tired, okay,, just say so much,, consider it yourself,, we can only give you advice, can not influence your decision, I wish you happiness

I've had that experience, and at this time, you calm down and ask yourself, I'll be in three years.

Which? What are you doing? With whom. What to do in five years? With whom. Beware of the answers given inside.

The case is the life you want most, the answer you want.

And you have already given the answer in your heart, you are biased towards your first love, and you just need someone to affirm you. I.

I can tell you very clearly, friend: you are right. No matter how heavy a man is in his career, as long as he wants to be with you.

Getting married, will show that he still cares about you for the future. It's just that a man who loves a woman always wants to give himself.

The person you love is the best, and it's better to have a career than a man you raise. Think about it, hopefully for you.

Helpful. At the same time, I would like to select my answer.

Some people say: It is best for a person to fall in love once in a lifetime. Because if you talk too much, you will compare it.

That's what you're in right now. You say you love both, I don't believe it. People's hearts are so small that one will be full, how can it be possible to fit two ......There's certainly not true love, it's just that you don't discover it yourself.

First love is the most unforgettable, it's true, because I can't forget it either. You said that you like your current boyfriend very much because he is very good to you and loves you very much, maybe you are taking your gratitude and guilt for his love as love (of course, this is just my own opinion).

Have you watched "Let's Go to See a Meteor Shower"? I think you are like Murong Yunduo in it, the first love was a man with a successful career, but the current one is a boy who seems to you to be a little child. Take a look at "Let's Watch the Meteor Shower Again", maybe you will gain something ......I wish you happiness soon!

The most important thing is not to avoid your true emotions, that is, who you want to be with the most, after all, a happy married life needs to be based on feelings. If you are a person who cares a lot about the garage, then choose the one you think has a more economic foundation, so as not to regret it when there is a conflict in the future when there is an economic problem (this is the truth); If you are a person who pays attention to feelings, then choose the person you want to spend your life with the most, so as not to treat your other half badly to you in the future, and regret marrying the wrong person when you are wronged and have a quarrel.

Hurry up and decide, otherwise you will be hurt, but you can't regret it if you decide...

First love is the most memorable for everyone

He worked hard to live a better life in the future, and he should be considerate

Is it true that two people eat a steamed bun so that they can be called happy?

Every time, when I don't have direction, I ask myself, what do you want?

You can also ask yourself, do you want bread or love? Everyone is responsible for their own decisions.

It depends on how old you are now, if you want to get married, of course, you should still find your first boyfriend, if you are still young and want to play for a few more years, then play.

Select the incumbent. Say your doubts to your current boyfriend, I think it's better not to betray, betrayed people generally don't end well, and you have to be single-minded. Since you have the intention of getting married, you should talk about your thoughts with your current boyfriend.

Think about it, he may be your future husband, for a lifetime. What problems can't be solved?