If you love someone, should you also love his family for him? Please, 3Q

Of course, he should be grateful and thank his parents for raising him so well. You love his family, he will be touched by you and will love your family equally, love is a matter of two people, but if you are going to get married. Marriage is the union of two families, and harmony between families is very important.

When you remind him to buy a gift or help him buy a gift for his family, next time he will take the initiative to buy a gift for your family. Love is mutual, and love with the blessings of family members will be happier.

Yes! His family is your family! There is a disagreement in time! I believe that there will be a day of reconciliation.

Definitely, even if you don't love it, you must respect it!

I think there is no right or wrong to love someone, only willingness. Love can be individual or mutual. Love alone is unrequited love; And mutual love is love.

Love does not distinguish between right and wrong, as long as you like someone in your heart, love someone, whether the other party loves you or not, and whether the other party can be with you or not, it no longer matters. Love without regrets, love sincerely, and love frankly. Perhaps, after many years, you will find that the best of what was once has quietly settled a nest around you.

Love has always been with you, from the moment you have love, until eternity.

If a man does not even love the parents who gave birth to him and raised him, how can he be expected to love others?

If you want to accept the existence of the other party's family and affection, at least in my opinion, you still have to accept it.

It's one thing whether the other party's relatives and friends like the interpersonal relationship or not, come up and talk about whom, who, how and how, or put on a posture of "if you like me, I will not get along with whoever I am old and dead", to say something unpleasant, I smoke this kind of person He is considered light.

If you talk about the interaction between relatives and family members, it also depends on the situation.

If you only greet a few distant relatives during the New Year's holidays, or relatives who don't interfere much with issues of principle, and say that, you should be punished by getting along with them, and you can endure it.

Comparing hearts to hearts, there are probably a few bear relatives in their own families, and there are also a few people who are too lazy to take care of and have to take care of them. Since I haven't been able to get along with each other for a long time, I still have to do what I say about face.

What's more, for the sake of someone who can't fight with him, why make yourself unhappy with the people closest to you?

If either party's family strongly interferes in the lives of the two, they want to "help you get through the day", and then blindly endure it, then it is a "bun". I am a soft persimmon, so don't complain to others if you are pinched.

Do you want to accept it unconditionally? ......Even if it is my own parents' family, I will not accept it "unconditionally".

We are all independent people. Is it okay to make suggestions, it's okay to discuss issues, unconditionally let me accept your point of view or do what you say? What kind of onion do you think you count!

It's not really that I'm picky, but if I meet someone (male or female) who "loves me and accepts my family completely", it doesn't seem to me to be any different from a domestic abuser.

And, on the question of whether or not to live together, at least I have always been of the opinion that I can give the house to my parents to live in and rent it by myself, rather than live with any of my elders.

I went to college on the ground, but I rarely went home for the night, largely because a lot of problems that weren't problems could be problems when we lived together. (For example, whether you sleep naked, how long you take a shower, etc., don't really matter...)）

It's still your own parents, and if you add the other party's parents who have completely different living environments, both parties will feel that they have made a lot of sacrifices, and no one will be happy.

That's right, it's a superficial truth.

You may not have to love someone to love their family, but have you ever thought that sometimes they love their family. Your family who doesn't love them will be very distressed, and it's hard for them to do it in the middle! In fact, the family member you love will be happier, happier than you love himself, you know?

Therefore, if you love someone, you will definitely love their family.

Not one-sided, do you love his family, and his family loves you? Although I love the house and Wu, I must also keep my sanity. I'm an example of this:

When my husband was not at home, my mother-in-law kicked me out on the grounds that my mother's family asked for a bride price of 50,000 yuan. For my mother-in-law, it was really the same as my mother, and even the kowtow money for marriage said that she wanted me to give me without saying a word. She also gave her the private money.

If you love someone, you will definitely love their family.

At. When you fall in love with someone, don't worry about the romance of love and many ways of love, this is different for everyone's way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, you will lose rare true love, some people say.

Love doesn't last long, I think it's wrong, love has a long time, because you don't protect true love, it will lead to love being short-lived, and you will think that it won't last long.

To love someone is to trust each other.

To love someone is to understand each other.

To love someone, you have to be tolerant with more heart.

To love someone is to be open-minded.

To love someone is to respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

To love someone, you need to support him or her behind your back, not to block them.

When you love someone and you have to face that he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm very good and happy.

To love someone, you have to hide your inner fragility and grievances, and don't let him (her) know.

Love someone

Too much. Too much love, maybe some people can't do it.

The important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (

She) happiness, as long as he (she) is happy and happy, is the most important thing!!

Then you think about it.

Maybe the two of you really love each other, very much in love.

But you have to be able to guarantee that you both will be like this for the rest of your life.

Otherwise, don't hurt your family easily.

Because. They will always be your family.

They will never betray you.

They will always be good to you.

From the time you croaked to the time they buried in the loess.

They have been taking care of you with all their hearts.

Think about it. How to be worthy of them.

Be happy!!

There is a kind of love called renunciation, there is a kind of love called attachment, there is a kind of love called blessing, there is a kind of love called prayer, there is a kind of love called selflessness, there is a kind of love called extravagance, there is a kind of love called sincerity, there is a kind of love called.

The mouse said to the cat: I love you....

The cat said, "You go away."

The rat went away in tears.

However, no one saw it, and the cat also shed tears after the mouse left.

In fact, there is a kind of love called giving up.

There is no one who is right and wrong in the world of feelings, there are only those who do not know how to cherish.

There are many kinds of love, and there are four types of love that people may experience in their lifetime.

It is a pity to meet the right person at the wrong time;

When you meet the wrong person at the right time, you are wrong to love;

It is lucky to meet the wrong person at the wrong time;

Meeting the right person at the right time is happiness.

Sincerity is a kind of beauty, and persistence is a kind of loyalty.

Good is not necessarily happy, and loyalty is not necessarily happy.

Perfected reason, hard work lonely heart.

Don't be nostalgic when it's time to give up, otherwise it will only hurt you.

Whether it's a man or a woman, be selfish and love yourself more.

Giving up is a kind of beauty, and the beauty is brilliant.

Although without her, your life may not be colorful.

Cigarettes meet matches.

is destined to be hurt, and perhaps giving up is the most beautiful ending.

The departure of the leaves.

Is it the attachment of the wind, or the untenable retention of the tree.

Fireworks meet shooting stars.

It is destined to be missed, although it is all for a moment, there are often only two choices in life - try hard or give up.

There are irreparable sins in the world, but there is absolutely no one who cannot be loved.

You can choose what to do; Some people can do things that others can't, no one can force you to do anything, but you have to make your own decisions. You can't just run away, if you don't take the first step yourself, nothing will change, not only the first step, but it's also important to continue. You can't give up on yourself unilaterally because someone will grieve for you.

No matter what you do, there must be people who are for it and someone who is against it, because everyone values different things. Moreover, no matter what happens, you can feel free to add good and bad reasons to him.

All living beings come to this world in order to be happy.

Once you give up everything will end, then, keep praying like this, no matter who you are, even if someone is doing something out of it, keep praying that you really wish.

I can only suggest here, but you can choose to do something; Some people can do things that others can't, no one can force you to do anything, but you have to make your own decisions. ”

Regardless of the outcome.

It's up to you how you decide. Your destiny is in your own hands.

Why not try to get your family to accept your lover?

In the affection of the children.

It's normal for parents to object.

You can explain to your family that your lover is good to you and that you can live well in the future.

Parents are also afraid that you will suffer in the future.

I can't get by.

The rest of your life is your own.

You can't just because your family members are against it.

You give up the right to choose happiness.

Since his mother is sick, how can he have extra money to help you, I think he wants to help, but he has more than enough to do. So he feels sorry for you and wants to calm down.

If the person you love doesn't even love your own mother, can you be sure that he will have love for you?

He can do anything for you, but in the face of his mother's life and death, it is forgivable to choose his mother between his mother and his lover. Isn't it?

Maybe you rely on him too much, and you should solve your own family affairs or refer to his opinions, but it's a bit unreasonable to ask him to help.

originally said something good, but he repented, which was his fault. But look at the whole thing, it seems that you take care of yourself more than him, cancer is very expensive, and a critical illness notice has been issued, in this case, how can he walk away, walking away is his unfilial piety, you think about it, if the moment he walks away, his mother passed away, but he didn't even see the last face, this will be the most regrettable thing in his life, although he sent you the money, but how should you face him in the future? It seems that you have not thought about him from his point of view, you should ask yourself whether you love him or not

He doesn't mean to take care of his family, his mother is hospitalized, as a son, he has the obligation to do filial piety to his mother, he is right to do so, it shows that he is a filial person, as for the money you said, it should be his mother's medical expenses, love is two people understand each other, be tolerant.

After all, it was his mother, and life was given by his mother, I think if that was your mother, you would be like your boyfriend, desperate to save your mother, because there is only one mother, money is just a foreign object, we have a lot of time to fight, you think about it yourself!

When people are extremely depressed, they tend to think about problems very extremely, and they will regret it afterwards, so don't rush to draw conclusions about your feelings. Don't equate feelings with money, although money is indispensable, but more money can't buy true feelings.

Girl, you're too strong, don't try to fight the blood relationship!

In fact, there is nothing wrong with him taking care of his family, after all, they are his biological parents, but the way he handled it is a little improper. You just let him calm down, and don't take the initiative to look for him during this time. Let's see how he behaves in the future.

One is a life-threatening situation, the other is a property dispute, which do you think is important? It's a man, he will choose his mother, it's not a question of whether you love you or not, it's a question of whether you respect him or not!