Should I accept such a relationship?

Hello.. After a long gap in feelings, people often want to try, but feelings are not child's play, and we all had the attitude of trying it out. But then they all fell into it.,Tangled.。。

The most important thing is to see if you feel it, whether you feel it is necessary, if it is not ideal, it will not be the kind of result, I hope you wait for it! Come on!! Hehe, we're in a similar situation.

And that's just a little suggestion from me. I hope I can give you a little advice.

The opportunity is in your own hands, it's up to you.

Everything is fine, just don't fall into the trap.

Hello: Her concerns come from the following points:

1, get along for a few months, and then design to talk about marriage, if, not a very few flash marriage exceptions, this few months of time is a bit short, for girls to make a big decision on marriage, a few times together, a little short.

2. I don't know you very well at the moment, or, the two people haven't gotten along and run in to a deep degree.

3. Everyone is reluctant to put the copper smell of mixed substances in pure love, but the material base determines the superstructure, which is the law of nature, love, especially marriage, must have enough material foundation support. Guess she has something to say about your material aspects. No way, society is so realistic.

The above are a few rough possibilities.

1. Give her more time, and you will also be given more time for both of you to spend more time together. Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and sees the hearts of the people over time, and it is likely to have a positive effect on deepening the relationship.

2. Run in with each other, create more opportunities to be together, do some things together, and deal with some daily problems. Like-mindedness is the most basic guarantee for a long marriage in the future. It's good for both parties.

3. Directly or indirectly understand her material requirements for you, and also understand the material standards of her and her family for marriage. See if the other person has any thoughts and concerns about this. If there is, and you meet the requirements and standards of the other party, it is great, if there is no agreement, then through negotiation or your own efforts to improve the two ways to change and improve.

Positively, peacefully, and courageously face this realistic society.

Hope it helps you and awaits your good news.

I wish you good health and all your wishes come true!

You can also tell her how good someone else's girlfriend is, tell her not to compare with others, especially not always to compare with good, marriage is plain and love is true, marriage must have an emotional foundation and the bottom line of material conditions, and if you feel that the conditions are met, you can get married.

Although it is not always ideal when it comes to marriage, I think it is more difficult to survive in marriage if you have doubts about love from the beginning.

Many men say that they are already very good to girls, but only girls have the right to say whether they are good or not, because she knows what kind of good she wants, and the good you give is only what you personally think, not what she wants! In such a situation, is it useful for you to want to get married by yourself? Can the problem be solved when you get married?

In your mind, is it possible to live a happy life when you get married? Big brother, you're too naïve! It's only been a few months, and I'm in a hurry to get married, not just ordinary!

You're tired, and she doesn't want to spend time with you.

Your girlfriend's mind problem! If you can turn your girlfriend's mind around, you're halfway there!

A few months, you can't hold on? That only shows that you don't love her enough.

There is nothing wrong with your body, you can also care about the people you like, so that the public can think that you are a good friend; And love is like a person in love, caring about others will cause vinegar, from the concept of love is also not loyal enough to love, but not caring about others will lose a lot of friendship, once you break up, you will lose your wife and soldiers. So being single now is not to say that you don't yearn for love, but to prove your infatuation with her in the future.

An excellent person is single to show that this person is good enough, and no matter how good a person is, it means that this person's excellence is only on the surface, and what he really hopes for the other party is to care about each other silently behind his back. The best promise is not to love you for 10,000 years, but not to commit at all.

Therefore, if someone wants to associate with you now, it is probably someone who looks at the short-term interests (the feeling of the two being together, without so many concerns) and does not look far ahead of the future. After all, it costs more or less money to fall in love, and the money is all the living expenses given by your parents, you can't make money yet, and you don't have an eraser for your own career, why can you spend money indiscriminately? In a sense, it is your parents who are helping you fall in love, and they are not relying on their own strength to pursue what they love.

Lovers are not looking for them at random, because before they get to know each other completely, they can temporarily change themselves in order to attract you, and once you get to know each other completely, a breakup is just around the corner. Therefore, love should be long-lasting, and they will naturally walk together after knowing each other very well, without even confessing. Don't compromise easily if you think that the other person is good, being good is not the whole of love, you must plan for the future of love.

This kind of thing. This kind of thing is known only to you. This kind of thing is known only to you, because what happened between you, and then because of the degree of purity between you?

The depth of affection is something that only you can perceive, so should you accept this feeling? Only you know.

If you feel that you love him very much, but the other person does not show the same affection, then you can consider the following:

1.Communication: First of all, you need to communicate with him and let him know what you want to do and how you feel. Ask him if he has the same feelings for you or if he has any concerns or concerns. Tell him you need more love and confirmation.

2.Observation: In addition to communication, you can also observe his behavior and words.

See if he takes the initiative to care about you, if he greets you often, and if he is willing to spend more time with you. If his actions and words show that he genuinely cares for you, then you can accept him with confidence.

3.Self-preservation: If you find that he doesn't have deep enough feelings for you, then you need to consider self-preservation.

In love, we can't control other people's feelings, but we can control our own emotions. If he's not the guy you're looking for, then consider keeping yourself away from him and finding your true love.

In short, love needs both parties to give and accept, if you feel that you are giving a lot, and the other party is not giving the same, then you must consider your feelings clearly and make a choice that suits you.

What should we do in the face of feelings that we don't want to accept?

Correct Answer: 1To know how to refuse, we must have a sense of refusal, and we must know that the rejection of the negative faction is also respect for others.

2.When you refuse to love, you should thank the other party for your appreciation and respect for the other party's feelings.

3.Rejection of love should be clear and expressive, not ambiguous; Rejection of love is to be consistent with words, not plausible.