Camaraderie? Parents asking for cold treatment? Confused?

You talk to your sisters first, you have to talk. This matter needs to be open and honest between the two of you, since the relationship is very good, then it is most appropriate to talk directly, if you have any ideas, say it directly, and then find a way to solve it together. I guess the teacher also informed her family, and she should be embarrassed to tell you now, since you call yourself a sister, you have to take the lead and lead.

The two of you will first exchange opinions, get to know each other about the situation, and then come up with a way to silence the teacher and the mother without hurting the peace. Since Dad believes in you, then even if he knows about your plans, it will be fine, which means that there is really no way to ask Dad.

Personally, I think your classmates who have nothing to do have nothing to do have no brains, and the girls are a little whispering to each other, what's wrong with being intimate? How can this be gay? ）

o Ah, that's a headache.

It would be better to tell the teacher first, you see if it works.

The tone is very sincere)

Teacher, it's normal for friends to be close, and I don't want my pure friendship with her to be distorted by adults. And now it's the third year of junior high school, I should help her to progress with me, so that it is really beneficial to everyone, instead of treating it coldly as my father said, otherwise I will lose a friendship. I know you're all good for me, but I want to prove to you in my way that I'm right.

I promise not to delay my studies, teacher, please trust me.

You can go out to make up for the class together, so that parents and teachers think that you have been cold.

There are two kinds of friends, one is realistic and the other is a shared experience; It can only be said that different friends are treated in different ways and mentalities. For example, those friends who only know to tell you to eat, drink and have fun every day will only think of this kind of friend when you are bored, empty and lonely.

Those friends who have experienced and borne the ups and downs with you, although the reality of society makes us have to separate, the contact with each other will slowly fade away, and even the friends who lose contact but are always concerned about it, this friend should silently bless and care for him in his heart, and blow away our thoughts and love for him with the air and the wind!

If you really treat each other as friends, then you must understand each other, because you are friends, so you don't need to say much, because he will understand, therefore, true friendship does not require much patience to manage, you understand each other, you don't need to say much, sometimes the rice is too tight, but it will slip...

I feel the same way! Our dormitory is a dormitory for good children, and everyone only cares about their own studies and does not interfere with each other. Very indifferent!

But my roommates in my freshman and sophomore years were not, and they cared about friendship very much! Don't be too sad, everyone has their own life, and your happiness doesn't have to be related to others! College is half society, and you have to learn to tolerate and adapt.

It is enough to have a confidant in life, and making friends is not about many! Your best friend is a bit excessive, but why didn't she ask someone to help her? Besides, you have to learn to say no, what can't a good friend like you say?

Relax your mind, you can turn a blind eye to some things and focus on studying! Hope it helps, have fun!

Get along with friends and classmates. You need to give your sincerity. Trust each other. Mutual understanding.

In the face of classmates and friends, they are not selfish and hypocritical. Give your sincerity when you get along. Tolerance can make the relationship between you and me more harmonious, and understanding can bring each other closer.

Do your best to help your friend when he needs help.

I'm also from here.

Sometimes you put your heart and soul into socializing with others, but others don't necessarily appreciate it.

At this time, it was the most depressing.

My experience is that for the person who is good to him or her but does not appreciate it, he will not be bothered, let him go. Making friends is not limited to the dormitory, but also finding other classmates or alumni may be rewarding!

The important thing is to find people who can genuinely treat you.

People are selfish, maybe your friend betrayed you because of something, but you should want to open a little, people don't kill for themselves, if you change the two of you, you will make the same choice as him when you encounter real problems. Life in the world depends on friends, but the most important thing is to rely on yourself, you can't take friendship too seriously, and you should be selfish when you should be selfish. As a person, you can't expose yourself too much to others, and it is you who will be hurt in the end.

Friendship is a special emotion that people produce in social activities, and it is fundamentally different from the general good feelings generated in social activities. Friendship is an emotion that comes from a two-way (or reciprocal) relationship, that is, an emotion that is condensed by both parties, and any unilateral goodness cannot be called friendship. Friendship has intimacy as the core ingredient, and intimacy is also known as an important indicator of the degree of friendship.

Friendship is sometimes like a cup of bitter tea, when you first drink it, it is a burst of bitterness, and you can only taste its fragrance if you taste it slowly.

And sometimes, friendship is just a so-called title that doesn't mean anything.

When you find out that your friendship is so humble, when you are sad, maybe they don't even think about you.

True friendship may only be the one you have together.

My friendship is very sad, I have "shared blessings" with her, and she only "shares difficulties" with me.

Before adulthood, friendship is friends playing with you and making trouble together, which is very innocent and does not contain any transactional elements.

After adulthood, most friendships are based on interests, everything is based on interests, and most of them contain transactional components.

Friendship.. Friends help each other. There are difficulties together. Blessed to share. I don't care about something. It's called friendship.

Friendship is not based on a single thing, it is long-lasting, it has no fixed meaning.

It's humble, indeed.

But while humble it is, it matters.

It's as if vitamins are needed very little in the human body.

But indispensable.

It's part of the emotion.

Friendship is a tool (to be honest) I don't think so.

Where there is the sublime, there is the humble.

There are two sides to everything.

It is recommended that you go to the movie "The Shawshank Redemption".

Even if you have seen it, you will take a look at it again.

Pure together, and then have fun.

The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, and the friendship of villains is as sweet as liquor!

As I get older, I feel like friendships are decreasing.

I'm not here to get points, but I feel the same way.

Although I don't have buddies, I do have sisters, hehe, actually, the same nature.

A while ago, I was in the same contradiction as you.

But after thinking for yourself.

It is irreplaceable to feel that everyone has a certain place in our hearts.

For example, you and your brother, the brotherhood you have since childhood to the present is not something that anyone can easily destroy.

And you, just care too much about him and attach too much importance to him, which is why you are confused.

However, please put yourself in their shoes, do we agree with some of the contributions that we think are good?

Sometimes, our overemphasis will only suffocate them (maybe it's too much, but they have more or less a certain amount).

To you ask him, "Which one is more important for me to be at the table with you?" ”

Isn't it nice that he says it's all important? At least he cares about you.

You can't stop their camaraderie from being at the same table, because the decision is in his "heart".

Yes, you think that your brother cares more about other people than you because you care too much about him, so you pay attention to his every move, in fact, in this situation, anyone who values friendship will feel uncomfortable.

But think about it, in the past, your bits and pieces, the slightest memories, are the most precious things between you, those little touches and care, are you buried by jealousy?

Friendship is not the same as love, friendship can be with many friends, but love can only be with one, you should make more friends, and transfer your friendship with him more centered.

Or, you can treat your "enemy" as an "enemy" and treat him as normal (maybe this is a difficult thing for you, but if you don't want to lose your brother, don't be too much, because it will ignite the fuse of friendship).

Also, we are all in our third year of high school, time waits for no one, don't let these troubles occupy our lives, study hard.

If there is still some confusion, you are welcome to hi me, I would be happy to make friends with people who value feelings.

good luck！

I understand your feelings, and I actually understand your buddy's psychology. In fact, the good brother doesn't have to say it, otherwise he will be really annoyed. If I were your brother, I wouldn't be very moved, but I would feel so!

And in this society, after all, there are very few people who value their brothers so much like you! He will think that you are hypocritical and that what you say is false. I don't think we should think of our learning opponents as great enemies!

Should learn to cooperate in competition! Friendships are extensive, not one-person. We can't be so selfish.

I used to go out with a classmate who had a good time, but she kept talking to the people next to her. I was angry at first, but then I thought about it, it was nothing, maybe she was talking to her! Anyway, my popularity is very good!

That's why I won't pay much attention to her in the future! Until she took the initiative to play with me, because she knew that I had a strong personality. I think your brother belongs to that kind of rationality, and you are emotional.

You'd better find a few more friends, and the circle of friends should be a little wider. Don't let him think that you care about him very much, otherwise he will get worse and worse for you, because people's psychology is cheaper. Hope your relationship with your friends can get better and better!

Friendship is to be cherished, not to possess, because no one can completely possess anyone, and it seems to be the same for love and affection.

I've also been like this, I'm not social, so it's rare to become a friend with someone I can talk to, and I become a "possessive" to her, and when I see her having fun with others, I'm not happy, and you're different, I don't pester her, it's a bit like a cold treatment. This starting point is because when she and I were not so familiar with each other before, she asked me this question: "Is relationship an investment?"

I said no at the time, because I had a budding relationship that made me feel that the more you want to get some "reward" for your actions, you will often reap greater loss.

It is recommended that you do not try to change your friend, so to speak, he has no problem, but it is recommended that you adjust yourself and simply remember the following two sentences:

1. Feelings are used to cherish, not to possess.

2. Feelings are not an investment, don't have any expectations, just treat them sincerely.

When you feel uncomfortable, remind yourself with these two sentences, and then relax your mind.

Because only then can you be your true self and you can get your friends, not possession.

Finally, to use a small analogy: the tighter you grasp the sand, the more you miss something.

I hope you will appreciate the subtlety of this, and I believe that it will be useful not only for your feelings (family, love, friendship, etc.), but also for many times in your later life.

Friendship is a delicate thing, especially when your social contacts are limited and your outlook on life is incomplete.

First of all, there is no rival to learning this thing. That is, there is a first-second dispute in a small range, there is not much difference, if the college entrance examination, the two can enter key universities at the same time, isn't it? Originally, learning this thing is not a matter of life and death.

Narrow communication is a common problem for all students, especially students before college, there are only a few people in total, and it is easy to feel "the only one in this life" and think that this is a lifelong friend. As someone who has come before, I can tell you that if high school is your last chance to learn, then you may really become lifelong friends, but if you are admitted to a foreign university and end up staying in a foreign country, then your friendship is difficult to say. Because the expansion of communication and the short communication time, it is unknown whether the friendship can be maintained.

In addition, when you care a lot about something, you will suffer from gains and losses, and it will be easier to lose it. For your current friendship, this is basically the state, and the more you care, the easier it is to lose.

Again, you can think about it in a different position. Not everyone is like you, trying to cultivate a friendship, others also have other people's lives, their own circles, and their own networks. Learning to look at problems from other people's eyes and learning to empathize with others' situations is actually a very important step for people to mature.

It's a lot of preaching, don't pay too much attention to this matter. The so-called gentleman's friendship is as light as water. In fact, friendship without interest is the purest and the most solid. Trust me, hehe.