Recently, I have been very unlucky, whether it is career or love, I am disheartened, and I am lookin

This classmate, in fact, Chinese life is not easy, everyone's life has a lot of helplessness, there are many people in work, career and love distress, no matter what, have the courage to face life. We need to learn to do our best in all things and put the results in God's hands, so that we can have a clear conscience as long as we do our part.

It is recommended that you read a book "The Wanderer Yin - Eternity is Calling", which is available on the Internet, and I can see it after a Google search, in fact, only when people have true faith, they will see the glory and preciousness of life, and they will also have mature values, and find the meaning of life. In love and gratitude, we will be happy to fulfill our responsibilities and get rid of a life that feels hard and sad all the time.

You can try to pray that you will put the burdens of life before God and ask Him to lead you in the life ahead. The Savior Jesus said, "Come unto me, all you who labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." ”

Try it, and you will find that the God recognized by Newton, Einstein, Sun Yat-sen, and the previous Americans** really exists. He is willing to help you.

Whether a person's life is blessed or not depends on whether he knows and takes refuge in this true God who controls the history of the country and the nation and the destiny of the individual, not in "fortune and fortune-telling".

Personally, I don't think it's luck or anything, maybe it's the overnight rain that happened to the house leak, so I think that if you open your heart and do things carefully and carefully, you should get better. Actually, I used to think the same as you, but now I don't focus on that very much.

Life is not easy. Always full of setbacks, sometimes up and down. We can't attribute the temporary loss to the arrangement of fate and seek a solution to fate.

The best way to turn things around is to analyze your own factors and adjust your own strategies. May your wishes come true and get out of this predicament soon.

Poor man

I sympathize with your plight, I used to be an ignorant person who just came out of school, and now I have been working for almost 3 years, and I suddenly realized that it is a very happy thing to have a job, for this era, there are too many people with higher education than me who have not yet worked, and are still busy for work everywhere.

Therefore, when I encounter any unhappy things at work, I encourage and remind myself in this way, so that my mood improves.

That's right, the current society is very realistic, and love is built on the basis of bread.

It is difficult to maintain and persevere in love without bread as a foundation.

This is also a fact, there is no way, no way

I used to look down on those men who wanted to marry a multi-gold woman, but now that I think about it, this kind of social atmosphere is so harsh, and marrying the daughter of a person with the power of a multi-gold woman as a son-in-law can save many years of struggle.

When your conditions are OK and stable, you can get love again, this is for men, after all, this man is 1 flower when he reaches 40, but women are completely different!

I admire some successful women, how they struggle to succeed, I'm really curious, without the help of others, without the help of parents, completely on their own, not selling their bodies and souls to fight for successful women, I really envy and admire, I think that kind of woman has probably forgotten what tears are, right?

Or do you already think of tears as a thing that is comparable to breathing?!

You don't have to worry too much, maybe your one hasn't shown up yet, right?

It's just a person who has just started working, don't worry, now you should really worry and struggle for your work!

No matter whether you can find a good man in the future, or better, don't lose your capital and job, that is the wealth you can enjoy for a lifetime, you don't need to rely on the wealth of others, it is a wealth that can be trusted and relied on for a lifetime!

I think women in our new era should be self-reliant, take control of their own lives, don't rely on men to live, don't rely too much on others, there is a saying that the more expectations there are, the more disappointed, you don't expect too much from others, so as not to be disappointed too much!

Expect others, it is better to work hard yourself, so that even if you don't have good feelings, at least you can be proud of some achievements in your career!

As a modern new woman, you should focus on your career, because everyone else is someone who can't rely on too much and is not very trustworthy!

Only you can trust yourself.

Don't mess up with yourself first, you should take a good grasp of yourself and work your work!

This is the most important thing, as for the emotional aspect, it will definitely come, but the time has not yet come, and I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry!

Don't worry, it'll come!

There are a lot of strong women in reality, but God is always very fair, a person has a side that is very successful, but the other side brings people is really miserable, addicted to work will make people become unwilling to pay attention to things outside of work, will become a workaholic, and the other does have too many fantasies, always hope that God will bring you a perfect love, a perfect boyfriend or girlfriend, but reality is reality, don't force it, no one can snatch it away, fate may not be it, What you have to do now should be a long experience, adapt to this society as soon as possible, and also learn to self-regulate, decompress yourself, don't think too much, I believe that tomorrow will be better!! I wish you to find your true love soon!!

Perhaps happiness is not far away ... Although it would be a bit self-deceptive to know this statement, perhaps it would feel much better to think about it this way, or a lot more suddenly... I wish you happiness.

It hasn't been your problem yet, sometimes it's better to wait a little longer.

Let's listen to "In the Name of the Father" first

Well, you've only been graduating for over a year.

Why are you in love now?

Think about what matters to you.

Plan your life well!

Don't be discouraged, every girl is a flower, and you will find a boy who appreciates you very much and is willing to fight with you.

You're still working hard now, and you're putting your feelings aside for the time being. If you really have a boy who likes you very much, take a look first, and don't always look at whether someone else is handsome. There is no such thing as a perfect person.

Hehe, now everyone is chasing substances, that's normal. But I personally believe that happiness is the most important sin, and people should pursue happiness while pursuing money.

Sometimes passing by the side of the road, a couple who are not very wealthy are also happy, although they are plainly dressed, but they are very happy in their hearts. And although some people live in big houses and drive famous cars, they live a very miserable life. It's important to change your mindset.

I want you to adjust your mindset and besides, women don't rely too much on men, both financially and emotionally. Independent women are more attractive, just as struggling men are more attractive.

Hehe, I hope you understand what I'm talking about.

Very real thoughts.

Looks like I'm younger than you because I'm still in college.

A lot of times, all we want is a simple love, but we don't get it.

Many times, many times, I can only comfort myself like this, love is not the whole of life, do yourself first.

You're at work, so let's focus on work for the time being. I think your conditions are also good, there will definitely be people who take a fancy to you, you take care of yourself, by the way, and find out what you like, hehe, don't let it go.

I think. After entering the society, you should mainly manage your own business, work hard, there will be a lot of feelings in life, there will be suitable and unsuitable, of course, the suitable will definitely be less, if you pay too much attention, you will often say in the air.

Feelings are very important in life, but career is also very important, feelings can't be managed with hands, but career can be achieved by hard work, and good feelings need bread

Do much good, and be godly to others.

I would go to a beggar to give alms whenever I had something on my mind, and at night I would dream that the beggar would guide me to give me more money at the restaurant the next day, and the amount would be exactly ten dollars for my alms!

So, do good, and there will be gods in the underworld.

Don't go to fortune telling to avoid shadows and stay physically and mentally healthy!

"Seeing one and loving one" is better, although you have been disheartened with love, but it is impossible to have no love in the world, and "seeing one and loving one" is the best expression: although there is no love with a high degree of concentration, it does not lose the fraternity of all living beings.

She's on her. The second line is you... You think of us as her. And then here to feel sorry for yourself ...

Whether she's wrong or not ... But judging by your tone, you yourself are too self-centered. It's easy to move from loving others to loving yourself. In the end, the problem is even more difficult to solve...

Then break up, the long pain is better than the short pain, and it is difficult to turn back after the red apricot is out of the wall.

Bury this wonderful memory in your heart and commemorate!

Love that can't solve the problem of distance is usually no drama!

I can do my best to help you.

You've got the right person, haha. If you have any questions, please let me know.

Sooner or later, those who should be scattered will be scattered. It's so draining. It's just a delay for two people. Youth is not to be wasted. Since it's not suitable, it's better to disperse early.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

Because, letting go is having everything...

When you cherish it, please love it well.

When you let go, bless well....

True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Feel it with your heart.

My man seems to be like this, he should be relatively young, and he doesn't know how to take the initiative to care and be considerate. Every time because of these quarrels, there was a slight change after the quarrel, but it quickly returned to the prototype. Sometimes I feel really disheartened, should I continue, this is to ask if you love him?

If you have love, don't give up, treat him as your family, no matter if your family is good or bad to you, everything you do for them is willing, and you won't care. The question is, I say this, why can't I do it, and I still can't help but get angry every time.

If it were me, I would tell him directly what you and I think, and if he cares about you and doesn't want to leave you, he will say something nice to you, or who is sorry. If he says no words, then you are right to leave him! Such a man is not worth your effort.

Recognize the true face of this kind of person as soon as possible, and don't let yourself fall deeper and deeper, which is not good for yourself! Because women can't waste their youth like this, they must love themselves well and don't lose themselves!

You can be angry with him and see how he reacts! Test if he's sincere!

Is the love that you can't feel love This kind of feeling is just a torment for yourself It is recommended that you don't want to

Love is two-sided, not the constant giving of one party and the continuous acceptance of one party

You can ask him what you really are, what is the unhappiness in your heart, or speak up and give yourself a fresh start

You should make it clear to him that if you can't be happy together, then it's better to break up.

He's used to your kindness to him, and if you stop for a while and don't contact him, it doesn't really matter, because I don't think he has you in his heart at all!

If you don't let go now, there will always be a time when you let go, and if you don't want to fall deeper and deeper, take advantage of it.

Of course, a man's career comes first.

It is indeed unpleasant for a woman who loves so much to reject herself.

However, life is exactly like this, and it is fair to everyone.

There is gain and there is loss, and if you lose her, you will gain something else.

Don't give up on your happiness for any reason.

And don't say prematurely that you want to treat your marriage casually.

Let time heal it all.

Don't be so casual, you might make another woman like you are. Love can't be casual, it must be worthy of others.