Why have I always been lonely in my life?

After reading what you said so much, what I want to ask you is, 1, you said that you didn't have the love of your parents when you were young, and you grew up under the care of your grandparents, first of all, I want to tell you, no matter what reason your parents didn't take care of you, they actually love you, maybe they don't know how to express this love, or the love they express is not what you think, they give you life, this is the best love they have for you, 2 you said that you were dirty in elementary school, no one played with you, so you studied hard, You want to let your classmates know you and accept you through studying, so why don't you wash your own clothes and bathe yourself, maybe you think you were very young at that time, and you can't do this by yourself, but I want to ask you, do you know that children in rural areas take care of themselves alone when they are very young, they not only take care of themselves, but also take care of the family, think about it, isn't this your reason? 3 When you were in junior high school, you longed for friends, so have you ever wondered why you don't have friends, why they don't want to be your friends, is it your own reason, or the environment, or some other reason, I think you must have never thought about this question, you just keep emphasizing that you don't have friends, why? Find your own reasons, even if it is caused by the external environment, I think you must have some shortcomings that you have not seen yourself4 You said that the friends you made in high school are for your money, then what I want to say is that in fact, the current society is very realistic, everyone wants their friends to have money and status, no matter what reason they become friends with you, you must first know yourself correctly, treat your friends correctly, if they are friends who can really make friends, then you have to cherish, If not, then you don't have to pay attention to them, you have to remember, you will definitely find real friends to make friends with, give yourself confidence, 5 the end is your job, I don't know why the people in the company exclude you, but what I want to say is, if one or two people are excluding you, you can say that they are not easy to get along with, you can ignore them, but if all the people exclude you, I think the problem must be you, because even if a few people don't like you, there will not be so many people to exclude you, So the problem is with you, but you don't find it, and repeatedly complain about others, you have to think about making mistakes at the same time, you are wrong, instead of blindly looking for other people's faults, and I want to tell you, no matter how you lived in your childhood, no matter how you lived before, it is in the past, if you have been living in the past.

Then you will never be happy, you have to give yourself confidence, tell yourself that you are the best, and then find out why you don't have friends, why you don't get along well with your colleagues, after finding them, change them, I believe you will have friends you can make friends with, come on,

Lonely is the soul, lonely is feelings, what is needed is love, and the rarest thing is friendship, but I don't know if your family affection can still be obtained???

Sad people, no matter who hits you sarcastically, I think you should learn the means to fight back!

As a chivalrous man, don't you think you should learn "martial arts"?

Especially: If you don't have "peerless magic", how can you gain a foothold in society?

If you don't want to be bullied by others, you can only practice a counterattack and self-defense ability, understand?

It doesn't matter if anyone wants to be friends with you, whether there are girls who really love you.

I think you should understand that in this world today, truly kind people are very rare, and I don't think you will meet them.

The imposition of fate is invalid, even if it is not a sweet watermelon, no matter how much you put sugar, it is useless.

If your personal image and hygiene habits are terrible, I don't know if it's because you won't or if you don't want to change them.

Maybe you said you were fallen???

I feel like you should cheer yourself up!?

This friend, because of your childhood life experience and all the encounters in your later school days and social life, you feel very helpless, you feel a sense of powerlessness, as if you can't find an outlet, right? In fact, we can't change the origin of each of us, but we can change our attitude towards life. When you say, "Why have I always been lonely in my life?", I would like to ask, what is your definition of life, is it a lifetime when you are only in your twenties?

If that's the case, then your life is too short, so don't say what your life is like lightly. And you say you don't have friends, so what is your definition of friends?

Maybe everyone will have a lonely side in their hearts.

I guess you don't have a goal in mind.

It's a feeling of confusion, right?

I think you should look at the good side of the world, although society is like this, but there are still good people.

It may be caused by the environment around you, and you can also try to change the environment and change some different types of people.

Image is one thing, but is it not enough to make true friends?

Do you treat people as true friends?

Communicate with others and try to open your heart.

Judging by your handwriting. You, proud. Identification completed.

What the shadow of childhood, what is the lack of parental affection, is an excuse. I think you're just a self-righteous person. What a handsome appearance, what a sunny character, low-key, modest.

That's it.

How many times can people in their lives, but only once, if Xu doesn't live according to his own heart, but lives to fit into this society, I don't think it makes much sense, and I also learn that today's reality, the cause of society, everyone has to disguise themselves, stay in a mask, and act with others, but it's really tiring, why is there so many people who commit suicide due to depression in today's society? You can say that they are cowardly, but on the other hand, I think they just want to keep their truest selves The true self is often the same as you are now, and you are excluded But I think there will be people who will see that sincerity and authenticity are what the world needs.

A person will be lonely all his lifeIt may be lonely and old, or it may be a successful person.

Most people are afraid of orphans.

Grow old alone, so you have the right to choose to age with another person. Then they will say that a person's life is lonely, especially when they are old, and the evening is bleak.

But more and more women are choosing not to marry, and most of them are highly educated, have excellent jobs, are self-sufficient, and are financially independent. Don't be attached to anyone or anything, and live your own wonderful life.

That's because he has no feelings, no friendship, no family, and no love. The result is depression

Hello, life is not lonely, it's just that you haven't found a friend on this road like you, the so-called like-minded people. In fact, this is quite normal, not to mention the world, just the whole of China, or a single province, or even a city, with a large population, but the possibility that you have really communicated with it is only one in 10,000,000, and it may not be lower. Therefore, it is inevitable or accidental that you will feel lonely, in case you are lucky and happen to meet a few people, there are people who can talk to you very well, or like-minded people.

Only when you meet such a person first, will you raise your motivation, will slowly think about future planning, will want to do things, as long as you start to move, start to be busy with what you feel you spend time doing and do not feel lost, you will not have time to sigh how lonely you are. Life is not lonely, the only thing that is lonely is that you haven't met the person who can relieve your boredom. Hope mine is helpful to you

Am I going to be lonely and old, if I still can't meet him.

I don't know if he's coming, but I know I've been waiting for a long time.

If you can't wait, will you have to rely on your mother for the rest of your life?

There are many things in life that I can't ask for, and words are my only consolation.

What do you think when you're lonely and lost?

If a man doesn't make you feel happy, shouldn't you break up?

Maybe the situation after the breakup is even worse than it is now, at least there is someone who has nothing to do.

I'm not the only one in the world who has as much time to spare.

I'm the most afraid of being quiet, and when I'm quiet, I'll think about everything.

Will you still believe that you will be happy?

Do you still think you're going to get ahead one day?

Do you still think that you will have a lot of money?

Do you still feel like you still have a lot of opportunities and choices for the future?

are very confused, is the age of thirty the most likely to suffer from gains and losses, and the most easily confused?

Who broke my previous steadfastness and self-affirmation?

After so long in the big city, why isn't it better to get over it?

Whether it's financial or emotional.

Don't know how much I've lost with this world?

Those secrets, between adults, on their own, with male friends or female friends, or with classmates, partners, there are no more intimate moments.

Whether I'm going to die alone or not is scary to think about.

That him, if you come, come quickly, I'm about to be depressed, I've been waiting for you, waiting for you and me to become better people and live a better life together.